I have a theory.
In Afghan culture, BACHA BAZI which means dancing boy might have been something that Nader may have been roped into during his youth. In Egyptian culture, HAWAAL, is also a dancing boy. It’s a middle eastern thing.
Chef Nader often dances using the same moves that BACHA BAZI and HAWAAL uses, if you ever YouTube these terms, you will see A LOT of similarities with CHeF Nader dance moves. Unfortunately for these boys that get into this life, is that the dance that they perform for the audience is actually an auction. The highest bidder get to take the boy home for the night. 2IQNader was a smooth young boy on that cargo ship, and I reckon he was used as a human fleshlight by the ships crew. His penchant for dominance is his way to cope with the trauma he endured as a child on that ship.
ChinnyChantal once upon a time, mentioned that every time they were about to bang, he would shave himself smooth neck to toe.
I think Nader found the formula to cope with his trauma of being used as a fleshlight by filthy Arab older men on a ship. I mean, he is slim, small, smooth….submissive, perhaps even breedable?
Just my 2 cents.