knew you didn't broadcast your awareness from the story, I was more surprised the Resettlement Managers haven't been spying on this thread and reported back that their lives were literally in danger & they were lucky to survive that meet-up.
I think meeting them gave me a little epiphone that I want to get across here.
I don't believe I traumatized these two and put them into I-can't-even red alert. The way they talk online you'd expect it, but while I'm sure they were annoyed and probably made snide remarks about me after I left, I don't think I actually shocked them. I wouldn't count on seeing mention of any hostile encounter over there. I believe the opposite - that I was quite forgettable to them.
I think these people really honestly believe that the nazis are everywhere and want to murder all lgbtpoc people - but the filter bubble mentality, being a combination of "all good people agree with me" and "all dissenters naturally get banned without need for me to intervene personally" means that when they go outside and don't encounter unmistakable violent threats to their lives, they assume everyone they see thinks just like them until proven otherwise. You see the same phenomenon of assumptions among voters in general - Minnesota is seen as a progressive blue state, and the twin cities gayer than San Francisco, so a lot of folk here don't even comprehend how many Trump voters they accidentally cross paths with on a daily basis, despite the numbers showing
Hillary only took this state by a razor thin margin. No matter where you guys live I'm sure you have similar stories of running into people who are shocked at the suggestion that a neighbor or coworker or the milkman may have voted for cheeto hitler. They look at their feelings, not at the facts.
So here we're getting to my personal epiphone: you know the stereotype of dumb redneck hicks? The ones who are inbred and chase niggers in their trucks and believe the flat earth is only 6,000 years old? Those people exist. I think we all accept they do. But the resetera crowd is the exact same thing on the left. Maybe I can't impart how true this feels to me now because we've been saying forever how anti-intellectual and irrational they are but until meeting some in person, I don't think I fully understood just how much trouble their minds have with simple logic. I could see the gears of frustration turning with my own eyes.
What I am saying is, these people are more than spoiled, childish, privileged, angry. These people are quite thoroughly fucking
stupid. If they cut their teeth in rural Kentucky instead of in a college campus, they'd be fucking their sisters and hating niggers instead of trooning out and telling white people to self-crit.
They are promoting shitty narratives out of a desire to control the world only in part - the rest is that they truly are sheep. The phrase "useful idiots" in relation to how socialist power grabs function means so much more now.
I think I was forgettable because I was polite and didn't yell and didn't misgender. But I have managed to exchange information with people who disagree with me on all manner of subjects, and I don't believe I exchanged information with them. I leave others with disagreements all the time but I still feel confident those people walk away at least having an awareness that my beliefs exist. I'm not sure these ones even retain that concept.
I don't think these types are drawn to resetera because they've tasted knowledge and find it too bitter. I think the people over there are more fundamentally broken than most.