Plagued Nice Guys

[JaneThough]

Twilight.

Bella is bland and average looking. She has no personality and has no prospects in life. She has a rich chad vampire for the "safe" option and a muscle hunk dangerous bad boy werewolf option. Almost all female power fantasies are about average and bland women getting the chads. Other wise the women end up getting jealous and can't self insert into them. One of the core concepts of the female power fantasy is the blandness of the main character. The most special one is Katniss and she doesn't really do shit herself.

You've got one thing right. Your autism is wild.

 

[Basil II]

nah its much simpler than that

the reason why there arent any 'nice girls' is the same reason why female incels aren't a thing: supply and demand. pussy is always in low supply, and the demand for it is gigantic. dick on the other hand is in constant high supply, and demand is low.
what that means is that any girl (unless she literally looks like amberlynn, and probably even then) can easily score a boyfriend without even having to try. one of the main attributes of the 'nice guy' is frustration at the inability to find a mate, and that problem simply does not exist among girls, hence 'nice girls' don't really exist* either.

*clarification: actually nice girls and femcels do exist, but only among lesbians, not straight girls.

You're really overestimating how easy it is for chicks. The fat thing applies to guys, there are absolute mongoloid obese men who smash on the regular do to many different factors.
Ugly ass chicks can get a pump and dump sure, but they can't guys to actually date them because they're ugly. I think men actually have it easier in this regard.

 

[wildautism]

You're really overestimating how easy it is for chicks. The fat thing applies to guys, there are absolute mongoloid obese men who smash on the regular do to many different factors.
Ugly ass chicks can get a pump and dump sure, but they can't guys to actually date them because they're ugly. I think men actually have it easier in this regard.

Ugly people often end up dating each other. Look at chavs. Fat ugly fuckers living off benefits dating each other. Not hideous but not attractive.

 

[Basil II]

ugly ass dudes can't get chicks to actually date them either, and they also can't even get the pump and dump

honestly this doesn't even need further argument. by now everybody knows how hilariously lopsided online dating is, and everybody who leaves their house at least somewhat regularly knows that the situation is similar (though not quite as extreme as it is online) in common IRL meetup situations

Not true, the fat husband homer simpson trope exists for a reason, I've literally seen this, ugly ass fat dudes can date actual 10/10 chicks. Online dating is retarded because people only have looks and pictures to go off of, of course the ugly dude's gonna get fucked then.

 

[Arctic Fox]

You've gotten a few answers to this, but one that I didn't see is that it's simply someone with anxiety dealing with a lot of pressure, justified or otherwise.

There are a lot of unhealthy stereotypes ingrained into people (mostly men, though) through the media, parenting, peers, etc about how we're supposed to interact with potential partners. There's a large stigma around not having sex frequently, being single, or being a virgin that means that you, especially at an early age, are a failure of a man and should be treated (and will be treated) as such.

This is compounded by the fact that this is partly true - sex is a large part of our culture (as Americans, at least) and we have such a warped view of it. For young men, it's thing that you have to do as a your own trial of manhood and by contrast for young women it's this thing that you have to try and avoid and safeguard. There are barely any good resources for sex education (schools either go too far or not far enough) and a lot of young men take cues from literal pornography, which really complicates the issue. I'm no porn-hating puritan, but it's really not a good resource for learning how to participate in sex.

Additionally, there are virtually 0 resources for actually building the relationships that one would need to build to have and maintain a normal sex life. What passes for "resources" out there are horrendous wastes of time (a.k.a Red Pill shit, Pick Up Artistry, or advice for Men from Women) that lead to some horrific behaviors. This is on top of the prevailing sense of entitlement that is synonymous with the "millennial" generation.

We basically throw all this at kids (mostly men, but there are nice girls too) and expect them to figure it out - but some kids just can't handle the pressure. The air of desperation that comes from them comes from the fact that they literally think if they can just figure this out, to be "normal", that their lives would literally change right then and there.

This has always been a thing, but technology advances have made all of the worst parts of it much, much worse. You can get bad advice much easier, you can be in constant contact with people when sometimes you really shouldn't be, you have much easier access to pornography than ever before, it can be really hard to escape from once you've dug yourself in.

Not that it's an excuse, mind you, but we really throw a lot of people into the meat grinder with no real preparation and are shocked when some people don't "get it". It's society's lack of preparation that has morons like this paying $30 for some e-whore's bath water instead of being able to look at themselves in the mirror and figure their shit out.

Maybe It's like this for idiots who live in the urban shitholes of the world, but in any normal community it's a lot different. You don't need the internet to meet people or learn about sex and relationships. When a family is stable it is fully capable of teaching the young ones what to do in that regard.

 

[Vince McMahon]

Maybe It's like this for idiots who live in the urban shitholes of the world, but in any normal community it's a lot different. You don't need the internet to meet people or learn about sex and relationships. When a family is stable it is fully capable of teaching the young ones what to do in that regard.

Define "normal community" for a start.

 

[Arctic Fox]

Define "normal community" for a start.

A small town not infested with dangerhairs and soyboy faggots who were raised by the internet and cartoons.

 

[Vince McMahon]

A small town not infested with dangerhairs and soyboy faggots who were raised by the internet and cartoons.

You mean either a slog of suburbia, where ambition and vitality go to die or a dreary industrial town, where all hope is lost and you're feeling like you're in the quicksand?

Small dreams, small towns. Where everybody knows you and any social faux pas destines you to be a perpetual outcast? Where you cannot hide from the all-seeing eye of human hypocrisy and gossip?

Daddy beats mommy, mommy beats daddy, daddy drinks, mommy takes daddy's money away and the children, just like in the city, learn and grow like a rolling stone, all on their own.

Yeah no, it's as shit as the big city with dangerhairs and soyfaggots.

 

[Basil II]

You mean either a slog of suburbia, where ambition and vitality go to die or a dreary industrial town, where all hope is lost and you're feeling like you're in the quicksand?

Small dreams, small towns. Where everybody knows you and any social faux pas destines you to be a perpetual outcast? Where you cannot hide from the all-seeing eye of human hypocrisy and gossip?

Daddy beats mommy, mommy beats daddy, daddy drinks, mommy takes daddy's money away and the children, just like in the city, learn and grow like a rolling stone, all on their own.

Yeah no, it's as shit as the big city with dangerhairs and soyfaggots.

anyone who sings the praises of small towns has never lived in them, drug infested shitholes full of depressed spergs.

 

[Vince McMahon]

anyone who sings the praises of small towns has never lived in them, drug infested shitholes full of depressed spergs.

I blame Western tradfaggots and their propaganda of "muh olden days".

 

[AnOminous]

ugly ass dudes can't get chicks to actually date them either, and they also can't even get the pump and dump

I know ugly ass dudes who don't even have particularly good hygiene and pretty questionable personalities who slam it on the regular. Including one Jew who literally looks like the fucking Happy Merchant cartoon.

 

[Vince McMahon]

I know ugly ass dudes who don't even have particularly good hygiene and pretty questionable personalities who slam it on the regular. Including one Jew who literally looks like the fucking Happy Merchant cartoon.

Ah, anecdotes. Who needs common sense and observations, when you have ONE GREASY SLIMY FAT DUDE BUT HE TOTES BANGS CHICKS DOE.

 

[AnOminous]

Ah, anecdotes. Who needs common sense and observations, when you have ONE GREASY SLIMY FAT DUDE BUT HE TOTES BANGS CHICKS DOE.

Anyone knows someone like this. It's common knowledge to anyone who isn't some basement dwelling tard who doesn't know any humans at all.

 

[Vince McMahon]

Anyone knows someone like this. It's common knowledge to anyone who isn't some basement dwelling tard who doesn't know any humans at all.

Those fat dudes usually have additional characteristics which are not included in those stories. Also, anecdotes do not disprove shit.

 

[UW 411]

This thread is a really good honeypot for baiting bitter nice guys, huh?

 

[Arch Zealot]

This thread is a really good honeypot for baiting bitter nice guys, huh?

thats why its labeled as plagued :p
Nice guys and 10 times the same long essays about the "psycology"of nice guys

 

[Vince McMahon]

This thread is a really good honeypot for baiting bitter nice guys, huh?

It's hard to resist the siren's song of forum grills and their white knights reeeing about sperging virgins, yes.

 

[Rebis]

Those fat dudes usually have additional characteristics which are not included in those stories. Also, anecdotes do not disprove shit.

Additional characteristics? Almost like people can make up for not being as physically attractive by having other good things about them, such as being charming?

 

[Vince McMahon]

Additional characteristics? Almost like people can make up for not being as physically attractive by having other good things about them, such as being charming?

Define "charming". In the last 20 years or so, words like "charm", "wit", "charisma" and "personality" have been cannibalized to mean absolutely nothing at all, so it pays to know what you mean by using this word.

 

[Bunny Tracks]

Define "charming". In the last 20 years or so, words like "charm", "wit", "charisma" and "personality" have been cannibalized to mean absolutely nothing at all, so it pays to know what you mean by using this word.

It means not being a sperg, having actual social skills, and not losing your goddamn mind every time a person rejects you or doesn't text you back in less than two minutes.

Simple stuff, really.