Plagued Nice Guys

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rianzi said:
It never ceases to amaze me how they can go from worshipping the ground a girl walks on b/c she's "hot" to calling her a fat ugly slutty pig bitch if she turns them down.


Makes one wonder what would happen if a woman genuinely reprociated their feelings... How long would the "Nice" facade last?
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It'd be sunshine and rainbows right up until the moment she disagreed with him, and then the same thing would happen as if she'd turned him down in the first place.

EDIT: Like has been said, if you have to claim you have a positive quality, you probably don't have it.
 
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rianzi said:
Makes one wonder what would happen if a woman genuinely reprociated their feelings... How long would the "Nice" facade last?
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Depends on whether she was enough of a doormat. If he could get away with it he'd be slapping her around and beating her up before long. Otherwise he'd be the one getting beat up.
 
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AnOminous said:
Depends on whether she was enough of a doormat. If he could get away with it he'd be slapping her around and beating her up before long. Otherwise he'd be the one getting beat up.
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That reminds me of some articles I read about domestic violence. Many victims of domestic violence recall how "nice " and charming their abusers seemed at first, constantly showering them with gifts and whatnot, but very quickly becoming more and more controlling/demanding until the abuse escalated into physical violence.....
 
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rianzi said:
That reminds me of some articles I read about domestic violence. Many victims of domestic violence recall how "nice " and charming their abusers seemed at first, constantly showering them with gifts and whatnot, but very quickly becoming more and more controlling/demanding until the abuse escalated into physical violence.....
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Which is precisely why the "nice guy" thing rarely gets girls, unless you are good looking or naturally charming. And let's be honest. If you have both of these qualities, you don't NEED to affect the "super kind and chivalrous" persona...Unless of course, the real you is a real asshole or dangerous sociopath on the inside, and you need to put on an act to keep your REAL self from coming out

It's not because you're anti-social, or not "an attractive Chad". It's because the "nice guy behavior" comes of as completely artificial (because it is just that), and most women are aware enough to pick up on it. These "nice guys" can't figure out why girls think they're creepy! They're doing everything a proper gentleman in 1653 would do! It's because they see through that behavior and can only guess what really lies beneath that facade. And in the case of these so-called Nice Guys, it's a sex obsessed, potentially abusive, controlling rage-a-holic.
 
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I present... "What if Nice Guys treated employers like they treat women?"

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Cosmos said:
I present... "What if Nice Guys treated employers like they treat women?"

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That pic was spot-on in summarizing the "Nice Guy" attitude. They rarely if ever state their true desires upfront and yet they get all pissy when women don't read their minds and figure out they want sex/a relationship. "Bawww i was sooo nice to this chick but the bitch doesnt even awknowlege my feewing for her even though i only offered to be her friend and never told her about my feewings". Excuse women for not being psychic.

And n"nice guys" demand to be treated like heroes for doing things that are basic common courtesy,never mind that simply not being an asshole is merely the bare minimum. Like basic sanitation for a resturaunt.
 
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Jesus said:
r/niceguys has the occasional female horror story. I think they call them 'leg beards'.
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Aren't they usually known as the women who say shit like "I'm not like other girls"?
I had a run-in with one of them during my first year of university, we really only talked for about a month and when I told her that I was already in a relationship and wished to stay as friends she really didn't take it well.
I was hoping that she'd just cut her losses and move on like a rational person, but nope! Days later a female friend tipped me off on how she had been accusing me of being with "some slag who just wants to be spoiled with money and drinks" behind my back. I never even told her who she was!
 
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Spelling Bee said:
Aren't they usually known as the women who say shit like "I'm not like other girls"?
I had a run-in with one of them during my first year of university, we really only talked for about a month and when I told her that I was already in a relationship and wished to stay as friends she really didn't take it well.
I was hoping that she'd just cut her losses and move on like a rational person, but nope! Days later a female friend tipped me off on how she had been accusing me of being with "some slag who just wants to be spoiled with money and drinks" behind my back. I never even told her who she was!
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yeah but this thread is called "nice guys"

so suck it up, buttercup.
 
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No man has any business sending any girl a text that fucking long.
Maybe she doesn't like you because instead of "Np, ttyl" you replied with the fucking Iliad of Self Pity.

Honestly, I feel like nice guys miss every mark, but come so close. No women don't like assholes, but they do like confident men who don't feel a compulsive need to please everyone around them. No, women don't hate considerate men, but they do hate people who bow and scrape nonstop in the hopes of being rewarded with sex. No, women don't hate sensitive guys, but nobody likes a pussy.
It's interesting how you can see the how they arrived at every wrong conclusion in their little worldview, but still be baffled by how fucking dense it is. They're not unobservant, they're just impressively stupid.
 
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Galvatron said:
Which is precisely why the "nice guy" thing rarely gets girls, unless you are good looking or naturally charming. And let's be honest. If you have both of these qualities, you don't NEED to affect the "super kind and chivalrous" persona...Unless of course, the real you is a real asshole or dangerous sociopath on the inside, and you need to put on an act to keep your REAL self from coming out

It's not because you're anti-social, or not "an attractive Chad". It's because the "nice guy behavior" comes of as completely artificial (because it is just that), and most women are aware enough to pick up on it. These "nice guys" can't figure out why girls think they're creepy! They're doing everything a proper gentleman in 1653 would do! It's because they see through that behavior and can only guess what really lies beneath that facade. And in the case of these so-called Nice Guys, it's a sex obsessed, potentially abusive, controlling rage-a-holic.
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Another reason why "Nice Guys" dont get girls id because they pretty much exude desparation. Desperation is one of the biggest turnoff to women . Desparation repels healthy and confident women. It mainly attracts users and abusers looking for someone to take advantage of. This posssibly the reason why "Nice Guys" comstantly whine about how all women are selfish bitches who extort men. All they're going to attract are bitches and users. Desparation is a very unattractive trait and (to use one of their terms) dare I say it beta as all get out.


"Nice Guys" also try wayy too hard and try to buy a woman's affection by showering her with gifts and worshipping her like some sort of goddess. Women are not goddesses. Unless the woman is as fucked up as said "Nice Guys" women generally do not want to be worshipped or deified. Women are human beings not Goddesses or She-Demons.
 
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