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Plagued Nice Guys
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It's the only thing they can bring to the table, they have no redeeming traits, hobbies or aspects of personality beyond not being an abusive "Chad" which, they assume, all other popular guys are.
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All blanket statements. For example, CWC could be both a "nice guy" or a "Chad" depending on how you twist your argument. Doesn't make either one of them true, and it paints a very inaccurate picture of them, if you ask me.
Frank Rizzo
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It seems like most, if not all so called "nice guys" just turn out to be like the Slut Haters: Weird, creepy, psycho douches who think that they are entitled to girlfriends and sex because "OMG, I'M NOT A CHAD WHO WILL TREAT A GIRL LIKE SHIT!"
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And that statement is itself a lie.
Frank Rizzo
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I mean, look at that above example about the guy who broke into the girl's apartment to "leave her flowers"
I'm gonna assume this guy had the mindset that "Oh, well this is spontaneous and romantic, this girl will swoon over me, just like in the movies...."
Yet, he doesn't seem to get the big picture.....you fucking broke into a girl's house. That's messed up.
The kicker is how indignant the guy is getting: "But....B-But.....I didn't do anything wrong! I'm a nice guy! Why is everyone getting so worked up?!?"
I'm gonna assume this guy had the mindset that "Oh, well this is spontaneous and romantic, this girl will swoon over me, just like in the movies...."
Yet, he doesn't seem to get the big picture.....you fucking broke into a girl's house. That's messed up.
The kicker is how indignant the guy is getting: "But....B-But.....I didn't do anything wrong! I'm a nice guy! Why is everyone getting so worked up?!?"
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Leaving flowers in front of the door= weird but ok
Giving girl flowers directly without pressuring/guilttripping her into a date: that' s some nice and romantic shit right there
Breaking into her house to leave her flowers: What the fuck man
How could someone ever think that was a good idea
Giving girl flowers directly without pressuring/guilttripping her into a date: that' s some nice and romantic shit right there
Breaking into her house to leave her flowers: What the fuck man
How could someone ever think that was a good idea
Frank Rizzo
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Leaving flowers in front of the door= weird but ok
Giving girl flowers directly without pressuring/guilttripping her into a date: that' s some nice and romantic shit right there
Breaking into her house to leave her flowers: What the fuck man
How could someone ever think that was a good idea
I'm going to assume the above guy was trying to pull a "secret admirer" type of thing, thinking that "Oh, if I leave flowers and a romantic note, this girl will fall in love with me"
Again, I'm assuming he probably got this notion from watching movies, where that sort of thing happens...
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His heart was broken almost as badly as the lock on his target's house.
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I get that, even though as a girl I' d be a little creeped out and maybe think it was my dad pulling a prank on me. But why break into her house? He could' ve given them to her father and asked him to place them in her room or just put them in front of the doorstep. But I' m pretty sure even in sweet ol' murica breaking into houses is illegal.
Frank Rizzo
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It's hard to say.
This guy *could* be harmless, and just very misguided about what's actually romantic and what's creepy....
....Or, he could just be a creepy whacko.
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Leaving flowers in front of the door= weird but ok
Giving girl flowers directly without pressuring/guilttripping her into a date: that' s some nice and romantic shit right there
Breaking into her house to leave her flowers: What the fuck man
How could someone ever think that was a good idea
"Today Eugene gave me flowers all of a sudden, he's such a great friend! I wish I could find a man like him..."
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And that's why it's illegal and creepy to break into houses, yeah, you COULD have benign motives, but it ain't likely.
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One time I found what looked like a rosy secret admirer love note on my desk at work, it was in a pink envelope with my name written with hearts and shit. I didn't even want to touch it because I was in sort of a prank cold war with a guy in the office and he was so devoted to his craft I expected the envelope to be coated in poison ivy or something.
It was from him, upon opening it there was just a note saying "go fuck urself". He was disappointed he had not thought of my topical poison idea, but he did get a girl to write my name in girly handwriting so I appreciated the attention to detail just the same.
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Once you break into someone's house you're no longer harmless. Even if he had no truly malevolent intentions it's clear this guy has a dangerously poor understanding of boundaries.
Frank Rizzo
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Well, yeah, hence why I put the latter option as well....
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He does have that "vibe" about him doesn't he? And poor impulse control.
I can easily envision where he's trying to explain to a Judge and jury that he is NOT a murderer, he was only trying to "scare" that person, that's why he was waving the loaded gun around... and it was just an accident.... can't he just go home now? He's super-sorry!
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Sounds like the would-be Romeo used a bump key to get in, which is considered breaking-and-entering. It's also easy to learn, and very effective on most consumer locks. This is why I hate rom-coms. They make antisocial shit like this look "quirky" or "romantic". It's stalking, plain and simple. Why can't you just have flowers delivered like a normal person? It's still a surprise, but without the misdemeanor charge.
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