While there are some people who legitimately do have issues with social interaction, or finding a partner, and I can and do sympathize with this viewpoint to a degree, places like SH and WP are breeding grounds for those with the wrong attitude or approach to it.
On one hand, finding a partner can be very difficult for some people, especially if they're not physically, socially, or aesthetically advantaged. On the other hand, many of these guys are terribly unrealistic about what they can attain* and/or don't look for those that they might have something in common with. And girls who may share common interests with these Nice Guy fuckers probably aren't the best looking at times, so I totally can't see where this is going.
That is, assuming these not-as-conventionally-attractive women are interested in the first place. I say just accept your fate and buy a God damn Fleshlight already.
*Realistically, they can't attain anything.