Plagued Nice Guys

Smarmy said:
My favorite Nice Guy from history has to be Roman poet Catullus. He was obsessed with this woman (who he refers to as "Lesbia") who also happened to be married and not interested in Catullus at all. He'd write countless poems about her that would flip from "Our love will span EONS," to "Fine fuck you bitch you smell like ass anyway," then onto "LESBIA, WHY WON'T YOU NOTICE ME?!"
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I wish i had the screenshots of when i had two of these people sperging at me for hours on end, it was honestly magical.

I love the logic of "you're a slut because you won't fuck me" it's genuinely mind blowing how they don't see how nonsensical it is.

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This guy invented a tale about her boyfriend being abusive because it did not even occur to him that she might think her own thoughts about who she socializes with.
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i got through half of the reddit post and felt the alcoholism setting in
 
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"You know when you can tell someone isn't happy in their situation? Yeah I definitely felt it right away."

Maybe it's because the neckbeard she pity-dated to the gala is being weird and territorial? After feeling "betrayed" because she hadn't mentioned her boyfriend of five years to him? Methinks m'lady is quite happy with Chad and doesn't need this white knight to be angry at her for being in a healthy, loving relationship.

Also who fucking dresses up to pick someone up. If I'm picking someone up I'll show up in my pajamas I don't give a fuck
 
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It honestly felt like hardcore projection to me.

He talks about the boyfriend being insecure when he's the one who posted an essay about how much he hates the guy.

He keeps texting her repeatedly which is ironically, also a sign of someone very controlling, a common trait in an abuser.

Kinda felt like he wanted to use his age and authority to coerce this girl, I mean she's almost full decade younger than him.
 
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scorptatious said:
It honestly felt like hardcore projection to me.

He talks about the boyfriend being insecure when he's the one who posted an essay about how much he hates the guy.

He keeps texting her repeatedly which is ironically, also a sign of someone very controlling, a common trait in an abuser.

Kinda felt like he wanted to use his age and authority to coerce this girl, I mean she's almost full decade younger than him.
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Also, it seems like he's in a supervisory position over her. It's clear he wants to date her. That's unethical. She was obviously friendly to him because I'm sure he came off as creepy enough to try to coerce her into a relationship. I hope she's notified someone above him because it sounds like he could really sabotage her if he was inclined.
 
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LtCucumber said:
I wish i had the screenshots of when i had two of these people sperging at me for hours on end, it was honestly magical.

I love the logic of "you're a slut because you won't fuck me" it's genuinely mind blowing how they don't see how nonsensical it is.
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I watched a friend of mine tell a Nice Guy off in person once. It was glorious, she just ended a rant I can't remember with "I'll fuck everyone on earth twice and still never want YOU"

he was pretty much saying she was a slut so she should give him a chance too, that's what got her going. I wish I could remember the whole thing. I rarely see that kind of shutdown in person
 
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cuddle striker said:
I watched a friend of mine tell a Nice Guy off in person once. It was glorious, she just ended a rant I can't remember with "I'll fuck everyone on earth twice and still never want YOU"

he was pretty much saying she was a slut so she should give him a chance too, that's what got her going. I wish I could remember the whole thing. I rarely see that kind of shutdown in person
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It's funny how these guys say all sorts of things to women, men, whoever they're attracted to, and then expect them to give them a chance. It's hilarious and worrying how much these people actually acknowledge their actions.

Like there's some people you eventually learn to just shut down as soon as they start a conversation, because these people always act the same way. They come on WAY too strong when initiating conversation, and appear creepy as fuck, and then when politely rejected, instead of evaluating their own behaviour, they want to blame it on someone else, just so they don't have to face the fact that someone just isn't into them for reasons that are most likely their fault.

had a situation similar to this. I told this guy i just wasn't interested in him physically or emotionally, and i can't do anything about it, so it sucks for him but there's not much that can be done about it, and I wasn't prepared to get in a relationship and be lying to him about my actual feelings for him.
Things he said were like "but it's not just based on human attachment" (which hello, relationships are. No attachment = no feelings = no real basis for relationship) and "but you lying about your feelings would be better than being friendzoned (he literally said friendzoned. Wish i was kidding)... So he's that desperate to get laid, he'll date someone who isn't attracted to him enough to fuck him. 100% certain that if someone he was with said no, he'd assault them because they're in a relationship and "owe" him sex whenever he wants.

According to him, an ex of his (despite other friends of his said he's never been in a relationship) committed suicide. I mean, if I dated that guy I'd kill myself too.
 
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cuddle striker said:
I watched a friend of mine tell a Nice Guy off in person once. It was glorious, she just ended a rant I can't remember with "I'll fuck everyone on earth twice and still never want YOU"

he was pretty much saying she was a slut so she should give him a chance too, that's what got her going. I wish I could remember the whole thing. I rarely see that kind of shutdown in person
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That must have been magical. I wish I could have witnessed it.
 
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cuddle striker said:
I watched a friend of mine tell a Nice Guy off in person once. It was glorious, she just ended a rant I can't remember with "I'll fuck everyone on earth twice and still never want YOU"

he was pretty much saying she was a slut so she should give him a chance too, that's what got her going. I wish I could remember the whole thing. I rarely see that kind of shutdown in person
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She is a true American hero.
 
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vertexwindi said:
It's as much of a product of the 21st century as autism is. As in, it's not. Egoistical, vain men aren't anything new, but our awareness of them is, thanks to social media and online dating being more accessible than ever. Two decades ago, stories of creepy shitheads and "sluts" who didn't put out after one date would mostly stay within friend circles, while now they can shared with the world.
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1910s: I've known a rather queer and bothersome boy who would trespass about my dormitory just to sing some atrocious songs confessing his desire for me. He's quite hasty if I do say so myself.

2010s: Check this shit out! This one thirsty fuck went to my goddamn Facebook page and posted some god awful songs about how he wants my pussy so badly! I mean I don't even fucking know the guy! Jesus!
 
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I was reluctant to put this up here because it's a bit :powerlevel:, but at the same time I think it's too good not to share.

So, me and my girlfriend met at college in a society that attracted some... characters. One of these characters was a fairly creepy dude, who was nice enough when you were talking to him, but used to behave rather erratically. To give you an example, we went to the pub once and I ordered some chips. He started stealing them and eating them without invitation, and when I told him to stop, he stopped for a minute or two before resuming.

Me and my girlfriend didn't start going out until we graduated college, but I could tell back then this guy had the hots for her. He never had the balls to speak up about it and at any rate she wasn't interested in him, but it was painfully transparent he was attracted to her. He'd try to insert himself into conversations with her and would always try and sit next to her and subject her to his painful """joke""", which she was too polite not to laugh at. In hindsight this was a mistake because it just egged him on.

Anyway, fast forward to the present and I get a Facebook friend request from him out of nowhere. I haven't seen this guy for literal years, but because I'm a kind soul, I accept, which leads to the following exchange.

Here are the messages themselves:

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Funny though it would've been to see him chimp out some more, I unfriended and blocked him, something I rarely do.

I knew this guy wasn't all there, but holy shit, I didn't expect this.
 
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