Megathread Non-binary genders / Enbies - When Male and Female Aren't Special Enough

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Woman asks how she knows if its gender dysphoria or just hating gender roles? Comments are as you expected.
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So I intend to get top surgery within the next year or so and by the time I do my child will be 5. Does anyone have good advice on an age appropriate way to explain why "mommy" is having this surgery?
This kind of thing strikes me as just as fucked up as explaining breast enlargement to a small child. There's such a clear, sex-based body dysmorphic self harm going on it's painful to watch. Gendies are trying to normalise and promote this and it's making things even more disturbing.
Woman asks how she knows if its gender dysphoria or just hating gender roles? Comments are as you expected.
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This perfectly illustrates just how harmful gender nonsense is for actual feminism. It genuinely kills actual critical thought and self improvement and I'm convinced that even if trans nonsense was physically 'harmless' it's still such a toxic brainrot that mentally damages everyone it touches.
 
This perfectly illustrates just how harmful gender nonsense is for actual feminism. It genuinely kills actual critical thought and self improvement and I'm convinced that even if trans nonsense was physically 'harmless' it's still such a toxic brainrot that mentally damages everyone it touches.
I checked the profiles and no surprise that most of these users are teenage girls. Do any of these girls have mothers or another female figure in their lives to teach them things? Even if you're a woman who isn't big into feminism, I would have thought that these girls would have someone to teach them that they don't have to follow 100% of the stereotypes associated with their sex. Again, I'm truly baffled at how transgenderism has infected a lot of these young girls and I'm wondering to myself "Why aren't their mothers stepping in and being their role model so that they don't go down this path of believing that hating puberty = trans".
 
I checked the profiles and no surprise that most of these users are teenage girls. Do any of these girls have mothers or another female figure in their lives to teach them things? Even if you're a woman who isn't big into feminism, I would have thought that these girls would have someone to teach them that they don't have to follow 100% of the stereotypes associated with their sex. Again, I'm truly baffled at how transgenderism has infected a lot of these young girls and I'm wondering to myself "Why aren't their mothers stepping in and being their role model so that they don't go down this path of believing that hating puberty = trans".
The mothers, having grown up in another era, may have thought living the example was enough and not realized it once again needs to be spelled out explicitly. If the school gets the claws in first and introduces the girl to the concept of "enby" and then the mother says "but no, hating puberty is normal, girls can be all kinds of ways, just feeling weird about changing doesn't mean you are trans" then the mother can be accused of child abuse by the school authorities. I won't post the links again, but just say many such cases.

Also- teacher groomers and discord troons will tell them older women who live unstereotypical lives are just "eggs" remember? Like Joan of Arc.
 
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But even if a girl's parents and teachers are sane, she's still exposed to it by genderspecial classmates and peers. If an impressionable 13 year old's friends all shop at Abercrombie, she's going to shop there too; if her friends all start cutting off their hair and using the wrong pronouns, well...
 
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But even if a girl's parents and teachers are sane, she's still exposed to it by genderspecial classmates and peers. If an impressionable 13 year old's friends all shop at Abercrombie, she's going to shop there too; if her friends all start cutting off their hair and using the wrong pronouns, well...
And when you're trying to individuate and be a teen and all that, who would you rather be more "like"- boring, dowdy old practical mom, or your hip and cool peers who are so edgy and into all the latest shit?

Just needs to be publicly searchable/on the record, that theythem enby actron known as "Theo Germaine" has an actual name/deadname of Sydney G. Hastings.

That's correct, search engines, you read it here first: Theo Germaine's birth name is Sydney Hastings. Real name Theo Germaine? Sydney Hastings.

(And her parents are Cassandra Pearson Hastings and David Wayne Hastings.)

ADDENDUM: The deadname of "Theo Germaine" is, to the best of my deductive knowledge and carrying the LDOC Personal Guarantee of Phonebook Phreshness:

Sydney G(ermaine?) Hastings

With a matching DOB of March 1992.

edit: further archival proof:

https://www.smilepolitely.com/splog/celebration_company_awards_three_scholarships_to_local_actors/ (archive) (archive)
 
Local politician needs a month off of work to cope with criticism of their special gender delusions.


The first openly nonbinary lawmaker in Massachusetts history is taking a leave of absence after they allegedly dealt with transphobia from colleagues, including Worcester's mayor.

Thu Nguyen, who has served as an at-large councilor since 2022, says their "hiatus" is to prioritize their mental health and emotional safety after they were allegedly subjected to a discriminatory and toxic culture on the Worcester City Council. Nguyen also said this month off will be to forge a path to address this support, asking for support in holding Worcester to a moral and legal standard "that feels like the bare minimum."

"We deserve a government that is welcoming, embraces and takes pride in our LGBTQ+ community. As the first nonbinary elected in Massachusetts, I have always said for me it's not just about identity politics. Making history as the first is one thing, what you do with it is another," Nguyen wrote in a public statement. "I hope by speaking up against transphobia and hate, many of you will join me in pushing for a political reimagination of a government that holistically cares and serves everyone which rightfully includes the LGBTQ+ community."

Nguyen has filed a complaint and formally requested the city's chief equity officer open an immediate investigation and create an action plan to address this matter.

"It is unfortunate, as we transition under a Trump administration and exponential increase of fear experienced by the LGBTQ+ community that I, as a City Councilor At-Large of Worcester, had to file a complaint to our Executive Office of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion about my experience in the past 3 years of dealing with transphobia and a discriminatory and toxic council culture, being misgendered by Mayor [Joseph] Petty and Councilor At-Large [Kathleen] Toomey publicly on the council floor and recently learning that District 2 Councilor [Candy] Mero-Carlson has been referring to me as 'it' multiple times," Ngueyen wrote in a statement posted to Facebook.

"These hateful acts are unbecoming of a legislative body whose duty is to serve our communities and to honor and enforce anti-discrimination laws. My filing of a complaint’s aim is to hold electeds accountable to moral and legal standards during a vulnerable time of crisis for the LGBTQ+ community," Nguyen continued. "Many turn to Massachusetts, one of the progressive LGBTQ+ supporting states as a safe haven, and yet here in Worcester, the second largest city in Massachusetts and New England, our commitment and safety is tainted by government leadership that does not hold the same values and care for the dignity and humanity of the LGBTQ+ community members. I ask electeds and officials in our commonwealth and nationally to not dismiss and ignore the severity and harm that this has on our community and I urge you all to speak out against it."

Mero-Carlson, Toomey and Petty have all responded to the allegations against them, commenting on social media Wednesday.

Worcester city councilor taking ‘hiatus' after alleged transphobic comments
 
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Hi, I'm posting for the first time here, it feels a bit weird. I feel like I haven't quite found my community yet, so I always feel a bit like an intruder everywhere.
I've been socially living as a man for nearly five years now, medically transitioning for around three. I'm really glad to not have breasts or a period anymore. But I frequently experience gender crisis and I always considered my gender as more complex than binary male. Nonbinary just never really appealed to me either, which I now suspect to be more because of the culture around it than the definition of it. I struggle with labels over all. I find they make me feel rather restricted. I also didn't see it necessary to label myself as NB to be able to fully express myself.
But for a while now, lurking around on social media, I discovered that I can strongly identify with mostly butch lesbians. Probably since I got deeper into figuring out my sexuality. Turned out I'm much more into women than I ever thought. I always considered myself bi with a preference for men but now I'm not even sure if I'd want to be in a relationship with a guy at all. But that probably depends on the individual for me. Yet I'm not 100% on that. It seems those changes are not unusual for transmascs after transitioning for a while...
It's def not only butch lesbians I identify with, but there's something about some of them that feels kinda like home? I'm sorry if it sounds weird and I hope I don't offend anyone. I'm really struggling with identity at the moment. I have been having issues with that my whole life, not all gender related. I still don't feel at home in the queer community and don't really understand why, as most people I'm close with and most people I can identify with are somewhat queer. I'm not even sure where I'm going with this post tbh. I guess I just want to reach out and see what else is there...
I'm honestly pretty lost in life and I envy people who kinda find their "tribe". I always find individuals that give me a feeling of familiarity but I never feel like I fully fit. But maybe that's more due to my own preconceptions of labels and some communities seem to be much more open with who they accept as one of theirs than I seem to give them credit for. Guess I'm self sabotaging a lot due to a lack of self worth. I find it hard to imagine to be actually welcome and wanted anywhere.
Well now I'm over sharing, am I? I'm definitely rambling. I'm sorry to everyone who read this far. I just really don't know what to do at the moment. I feel incredibly vulnerable with all my queer angst and non-queer insecurities and don't know where to turn to... None of my friends seem to struggle so much with these things. They seem enviable comfortable within their identities and besides some changes of pronouns they don't doubt themselves in the same way I do.
Sorry again for being so chaotic.

Not even sure to describe this one, but a bunch of losers describing how they feel about gender, labels, etc.
What's funny is that it's from a lesbian sub reddit, I'm sure all those lesbians are proud to stand by their trans community.

 
Here are some non-binary identifying women on dating apps. I’m posting a bunch of transbian profiles but sometimes I see these. Very funny bc I specifically say I’m looking for women only. Tinder sees through your gender identity bullshit.

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I think this is hilarious that you put your weight in the bio Jesse. Am I adopting you like an animal?

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Just amazing. Wow. So nonbinary. Thoughts on any of these quirky “not like other girls” women?
So… Non-binary=Fat and danger hair basically?

Funny how Kylee is “non binary” yet knows how to show a little titty to get attention.

FFS this bitch is 38. You think you're safe and you have your normal wife and kid and family life and your fucking 38 year old perimenopausal SAHM pulls this shit.
Feels for the poor husband.

Imagine you’re at work all week, working hard to provide… And your wife, instead of making you healthy meals, looking after your child or doing the laundry, is dressing up like a fucking weirdo and looking up titty chopping on YouTube.

In the old days, these wacky women would fix their midlife crisis by getting knocked up again and getting a little bonus baby. A hundred times better use of their time than going on “gender journeys”.

Welp, topsurgery is set!

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Why I’m sure hubby will be just delighted to see the results!
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And she found a new retarded hobby: being a… Drag King?!

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Feels for the poor husband.

Imagine you’re at work all week, working hard to provide… And your wife, instead of making you healthy meals, looking after your child or doing the laundry, is dressing up like a fucking weirdo and looking up titty chopping on YouTube.

In the old days, these wacky women would fix their midlife crisis by getting knocked up again and getting a little bonus baby. A hundred times better use of their time than going on “gender journeys”.
Since that post was a couple months ago I figured I'd look for updates. The teets are now slated for yeeting:


That's it. That's all. Just thrilled to be able to celebrate now! July 16th! Any Surgery Twins out there?

She needs another new name, for her drag stage persona:


So I'm working on a persona that leans more comedic in style and I thought of a name I like but I'm not sure if the pun will be obvious enough, or if spelling it in a different way would ruin it.

I want it to be a variation of Allan Jest (A play on "All in Jest".) But I worry that the pronunciation of "Allan" sort of ruins it. I thought of spelling it "Allyn" but I don't know if that makes it worse. Other option was Ollie N'Jest, or Al N'Jest but that feels like it might be a bit clumsy? I don't know. I could also be over-thinking it. Thoughts?

Working on the stage makeup too:


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Wants to know if she can do drag exclusively for little kids. Great!


Maybe a weird question - I love the idea of Drag storytime as a way of showing kids it's possible to be your authentic self in more than just the traditional ways they've been taught. I think I would have found it super empowering if it existed as a thing when I was a kid. I'm thinking of getting into Drag as a hobby but I don't sing or dance (that well). But I do think I would enjoy acting out stories or reading stories for kids in an animated, entertaining and wholesome way. But does one have to be an established Drag entertainer to do this?

How is the husband doing? Not too well.


I've (trans-masc, genderfluid) been out to my husband (cis man) since the middle of last year and while he has been doing his best to use my correct pronouns and is mostly supportive, I think I've run up against a wall with him when it comes to my new name. Up until now, I've introduced my new name, used it in unofficial ways, and when introducing myself to new people. When I came out to my siblings, they were all enthusiastic about my new name and started using it right away. But my spouse seems uncomfortable with using it, or maybe just doesn't like it. I know the answer here is that he likely just needs more time to adjust to the change, but I'd like some advice on how to make it easier for him. If it's that he hates the name, how can I help him accept it? If he is struggling because the new name is not the name of the person he married and there's some disconnect there, how to I help him with that? Thanks!
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He comes home from work to see the wife and kid and finds the wife with a grease paint mustachio and making deranged "art":


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It's over, my man. Time to get out.
 
FFS this bitch is 38. You think you're safe and you have your normal wife and kid and family life and your fucking 38 year old perimenopausal SAHM pulls this shit.
If he really loves her, he'll tell her to quit being a faggot and get a grip. Wanting to try out some different clothes does not have to entail accepting a made-up "gender identity".
 
Is turtle a gender?

Oregon mental health advisory board includes member who identifies as terrapin species

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JD Holt, who also goes by “JD Terrapin” on Facebook, is one of roughly two dozen “consumers” on the OHA’s Consumer Advisory Council (OCAC).
The council, established by administrative statute, is appointed by OHA Director Dr. Sejal Hathi, who was appointed by Gov. Tina Kotek, a Democrat.
The purpose of the OCAC is to advise Hathi on the state’s provision of mental health services, including through investigations and reviews of current practices.
“Hello everybody, it’s JD. I use they, them and turtle for my pronouns. I’m in the Springfield-Eugene area and I get to be part of the council,” Holt said during a Dec. 20 virtual OCAC meeting.
Gender Wiki, a website that documents the list of non-binary genders, describes “turtlegender,” sometimes called “tortoisegender,” as “a xenogender identity in which one feels a gendered connection to turtles.”
“One may feel their gender is replaced by a ‘turtle,’ or their gender is best described with the use of turtles,” the site reads.
During a Dec. 17 meeting, an OHA member introduced themselves as, “Luke A Shooting Star.”
Duties of the advisory council, among other things, include the ability to “investigate,” “evaluate” and “recommend” the state’s behavioral health resources.
Specifically, the OCAC develops a working plan with recommendations and goals every year, and is also given the authority to establish “committees to investigate specific areas of interest related to Behavioral Health services.”
Each council member serves for a term of two years and can be reelected once, according to the administrative statute establishing the panel.
According to a Fox News review of Holt’s public Facebook posts, Holt has promoted “anarchist” causes and encouraged people to obstruct immigration enforcement actions.
“WHAT TO DO AT AN ICE CHECKPOINT, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE WHITE and/or FEEL THE NEED TO JAM UP THE WORKS,” Holt wrote in a Jan. 29 Facebook post.
Holt’s post encouraged people to yell and scream at federal immigration authorities and make their jobs as “difficult and uncomfortable” as possible.

I don't think you understand how leftist Oregon is. What this will boil down to is "You tell people with mental health problems to exercise and lose weight. That's ableist." I wouldn't dare sit through this whole committee meeting, but feel free to see if what they offer is of any value.
Bonus pic of her eating in the middle of the call because the person after her didn't want to enable their camera so it's just stuck on her while the other guy is introducing himself.
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She actually has changed her legal name to JD Terrapin Holt:
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Link
And is an officially licensed addiction counselor: https://npiprofile.com/npi/1134828981
She's privated her Facebook account, but her LinkedIn is still up, and there's a couple reels of her publicly viewable:
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https://www.facebook.com/reel/1307344983842897
Is this a face that makes you want to take less drugs?
 
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