Not Fwb but marry: Is this a compliment?

Justa Grata Honoria said:
if you find you arent the type I would just bang and dump but the type i will marry to bang forever as an insult you have more serious issues and please make sure everyone to know about your opinion on this especially women you date.
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She will be banging chad while he is at work and when betabux comes home she "won't be in the mood".

Her comment just reveals she is a run through western slut.

TLDR for the westerners..dont marry non virgins. Also dont play around if you cant take it. It does go both ways.
 
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TheNoseKnows said:
She will be banging chad while he is at work and when betabux comes home she "won't be in the mood".

Her comment just reveals she is a run through western slut.

TLDR for the westerners..dont marry non virgins. Also dont play around if you cant take it. It does go both ways.
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Dude, virgins suck. Some woman who is comfortable with her sexuality is far better than some chick who doesn't know what shes doing. Not saying Aella Martin tier girls are worth anything, though. There has to be a happy medium.
 
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These reddit posts of dubious authenticity often generate very interesting commentary on third-party sites, such as facebook/instagram and now even here on kiwifarms. Personally, I find it fascinating to read some of the deranged takes that people come up with. I remember one in particular in which many people were earnestly saying that a woman who unintentionally fell pregnant should be compelled to abort her child because the father didn’t want it. However, as people aspiring to be Godly, we must be careful about engaging with these ridiculous commentaries. Scripture rightly teaches us not to sit with sinners when they judge a case.

As for this matter, it’s a bizarre comment to make. I would likewise be confused trying to understand the connection between those two statements. If it was me, that would probably be a wakeup call. Western hookup-dating culture is pernicious in how relationships escalate without sober discernment on the part of each party. It’s crazy how people sleepwalk into a 3-year relationship at 30 with somebody they wouldn’t marry.
DiggieSmalls said:
Dude, virgins suck. Some woman who is comfortable with her sexuality is far better than some chick who doesn't know what shes doing. Not saying Aella Martin tier girls are worth anything, though. There has to be a happy medium.
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That sounds like cope to me. If you marry a virgin then you only need to fuck her once and she’s not a virgin anymore. OTOH, your wife will always carry the memories of the twenty dicks she sucked and fucked before you.
 
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Devout Muslim said:
That sounds like cope to me. If you marry a virgin then you only need to fuck her once and she’s not a virgin anymore. OTOH, your wife will always carry the memories of the twenty dicks she sucked and fucked before you.
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I mean, are you a virgin? I carry plenty of memories of other women, its not that big of deal.
 
DiggieSmalls said:
Dude, virgins suck. Some woman who is comfortable with her sexuality is far better than some chick who doesn't know what shes doing.
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"Don't marry a virgin because wedding night sex will be awkward" is the same retarded logic as "have dogs instead of children because newborns poop in diapers and cry all night." Newlyweds get better at sex. Babies grow up. Marrying a slut puts you at about an 80% chance of divorce down the line.

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The Ugly One said:
"Don't marry a virgin because wedding night sex will be awkward" is the same retarded logic as "have dogs instead of children because newborns poop in diapers and cry all night." Newlyweds get better at sex. Babies grow up. Marrying a slut puts you at about an 80% chance of divorce down the line.

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Dogs still poop in the house. I frankly don't care if a women has had sex before me. I mean, you're a pretty prolific poster in the woman hate thread, so I guess it matters to you a great deal.
 
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Justa Grata Honoria said:
As might as well say tldr go to monastery. At least you won't die alone. 😂
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Woman moment. Exposing female nature makes me an incel. Ive heard it before. 🥱


DiggieSmalls said:
I mean, are you a virgin? I carry plenty of memories of other women, its not that big of deal.
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It is when you understand males and females are different. In your case your memories do lesson the bond with your wife. In the case of your wife, those memories are in her social media DMs waiting for an argument with you. They are all connections that will never be severed. One argument, and she will be thinking about what could have been with those men, and she will be contacting them looking for consolation.

And if those dudes blew their load in her some trace of their DNA is still inside her, this was a religious statement but has actually been backed up by modern science.

Now I am not saying so go be a player and smash all the girls you can find then go searching for a virgin to marry, that is bad for everyone involved.
 
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TheNoseKnows said:
It is when you understand males and females are different. In your case your memories do lesson the bond with your wife. In the case of your wife, those memories are in her social media DMs waiting for an argument with you. They are all connections that will never be severed. One argument, and she will be thinking about what could have been with those men, and she will be contacting them looking for consolation.
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How old are you? We've been married over a decade, together for two, were definitely not each other's firsts, and yet, I've never considered "what might have been." I'm not sure what my exes are up to. Marriage kind of changes your outlook on petty fights. At least, it should.
 
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OrionBalls said:
How old are you? We've been married over a decade, together for two, were definitely not each other's firsts, and yet, I've never considered "what might have been." I'm not sure what my exes are up to. Marriage kind of changes your outlook on petty fights. At least, it should.
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You're right that it should, and if you have that, consider yourself lucky. Because the divorce rates show quite clearly that promiscuity leads to less happy marriages and divorces.
 
TheNoseKnows said:
You're right that it should, and if you have that, consider yourself lucky. Because the divorce rates show quite clearly that promiscuity leads to less happy marriages and divorces.
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In what study do current divorce rates also show data of sexual partners before marriage? I am interested to read that.
 
Having past relationships is not a red flag.
How the relationship started, developed and ended is more important/interesting than the number.

I would rather take someone that had 3-4 mid term bf with a respectfull relationship than someone that had 2 fbw sm sugar daddies or someone that never had sex but was in a mutually abusive relationship.
It's more about the quality than quantity unless there's a huge number.

Also I don't get the woman bond and she thinks about chad thing. Men also form strong bond and can think about their exes. Well the difference is that sometimes exes are still an option for women. Men are no exempt from bonding and carry emotional baggage too.
 
OrionBalls said:
How old are you? We've been married over a decade, together for two, were definitely not each other's firsts, and yet, I've never considered "what might have been." I'm not sure what my exes are up to. Marriage kind of changes your outlook on petty fights. At least, it should.
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Together for a decade before marriage? Yikes. Big oof chief, that ain’t it.
 
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Devout Muslim said:
Together for a decade before marriage? Yikes. Big oof chief, that ain’t it.
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OrionBalls said:
We've been married over a decade,
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part of that sentence. I understand reading entire sentences can be difficult. We were married in 2009 and started dating late 2004. I guess five years is a long time to be dating, but there wasn't really any hurry.

Also, neat on the unsourced graph. I love those. Very scientific.
 
Ignoring for a while that this is reddit which means it's fake and gay, I don't understand the outrage over this. I'd take it as a compliment to the tune "you're not a pump and dump kind of guy, I wanna have your babies". IDK maybe it's a cultural difference
 
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