Not Fwb but marry: Is this a compliment?

[TheNoseKnows]

Ignoring for a while that this is reddit which means it's fake and gay, I don't understand the outrage over this. I'd take it as a compliment to the tune "you're not a pump and dump kind of guy, I wanna have your babies". IDK maybe it's a cultural difference

You have to read between the lines. When she says " youre not a pump and dump" it means 2 things, both very bad.

1. You aren't chad.
2. I have fucked many chads/tyrones before you and still think about them and how you are not them. But I'll sign that support contract that I can freely violate and you cant. (marriage) with you. Tehee

I don't know what culture you are from but if it is one where women are encouraged to save themselves for marriage, that comment will mean something different. But in modern societies with women's rights, all it means is the is a a former slut, approaching 30 years of age, and looking to settle down.


Here is a source for those incapable of searching the internet. I'm well aware once I post the source there will be the "nuh uh" barrage. Nevertheless:

https://www.medicaldaily.com/sex-marriage-premarital-sex-divorce-rate-sex-partners-first-comes-loves-then-390269

Also: DNA traces have been found in women's bodies. Both from male babies they gave birth to and/or from past sexual partners.

https://www.yourtango.com/2017304209/new-study-suggests-women-absorb-dna-every-man-theyve-ever-had-sex

 

[Atlas Sneezed]

You have to read between the lines

I think that in this specific instance people are reading into something that isn't there

I don't know what culture you are from

Central Europe

I'm well aware once I post the source there will be the "nuh uh" barrage

Nah, not really. Over here this is common sense and is known that the more women put out the more they don't value themselves.

And I know the western sex relations are in the shitter on the whole. This is slowly changing here as well because like everything the US exports it's culture wholesale. However in this specific instance? I get the feeling people are reading into the meaning of a well-spirited compliment too much.

 

[TheNoseKnows]

I think that in this specific instance people are reading into something that isn't there

Central Europe

Nah, not really. Over here this is common sense and is known that the more women put out the more they don't value themselves.

And I know the western sex relations are in the shitter on the whole. This is slowly changing here as well because like everything the US exports it's culture wholesale. However in this specific instance? I get the feeling people are reading into the meaning of a well-spirited compliment too much.

When females talk, always always always read between the lines. It's how their lizard brains work. Its like when a woman says she wants you to show your sad emotions (tears). Its a shit test and if you show that, she will leave you.

 

[Calandrino]

Why get the milk for free when you can buy the cow for 50% of your net worth

 

[Absolutego]

Telling a man you'd marry him but wouldn't have a one night stand with him is easily the fastest way to give him a complex that you're going to cheat on him the instant some dipshit fuckboi crosses your path and makes your nethers tingle