Original post: So my fiance and I have been together for 4 years, engaged for 1. I was taking a relaxing bath this evening to enjoy the silence and let the bathroom fan drown out all the outside noise. My phone was on silent, I wasn't wearing earbuds. I'm deep in a meditative state in the bath when I'm jarred by a phone text or email notification sound clear as day coming from inside the bathroom.
I got up immediately like wtf, I checked my phone even though I knew it was silent and there were no notifications. So I'm kind of worried at this point and just feel a sinking in my stomach so I get dressed and look through every crevice, box, cabinet, drawer and plumbing fixture in the bathroom to find.. nothing. I know for a fact I did not just hear it in my brain, it was a distinct android boo boo boo boo boo which we don't have any androids.
Before anyone asks, yes I checked my carbon monoxide levels lol they are fine, I have no mental illnesses. My question is, what do I do? Do I even bring this up to my fiance? I sound crazy and don't want to be accusatory but my first thought was a second phone hidden by him in the bathroom. I couldn't imagine he could ever cheat but you can never be too vigilant when something random and unexpected like this happens.
Should I just wait and see if it happens again? I'm not gonna lie I'm a little paranoid and have been convincing myself i manifested the noise but I know in my gut it was real. Where else would I even look though?
Tldr; random unknown notification sound from a phone goes off clearly in the bathroom when I'm in the bath but I can't find anything anywhere
UPDATE:
My first post didn't get a ton of activity but I was made to feel like a crazy person by most people, and for some reason some of my comments were either deleted or just didn't appear on the post.
Anyways, I did not talk to my fiance about it because I found the phone before he got home.
Yea I tore the bathroom apart again like a madman, but this time I checked behind the toilet tank between the wall. We have about a 2 inch gap, and mounted on the back of the tank was one of those $1 temu holder things that you peel off and stick on something to hold items. The phone was placed inside of that sticky mounted thing. Definitely not my phone, and obviously it was meticulously placed there.
Well, my fiance and I broke up. The password was the same as his computer that we share so I unlocked it while trying to stifle an Anxiety attack and found snapchat conversations with at least 3 different women. The notification sound I heard lined up with a most recent snap sent to him of a woman's bare pussy asking when he can come stuff it again.
In a rage, I smashed the phone and texted my fiance to come home immediately. He came home and already looked pale like he knew. I asked him how fucking long this has been going on and he refused to answer anything. I told him to pack his crap and leave. As he walks out with his backpack I hear him mutter 'I knew I forgot to silence it'
So yea. I wasn't crazy I actually heard a notification and he was fucking cheating. Now my whole world is upside down and I don't know where to go from here I just cant believe this. I fell asleep crying and woke up in a daze feeling like everything was normal until I remembered.
So not a very fun update sorry
My other profile has negative karma and it kept deleting my update from there btw
https://www.reddit.com/u/ThrowRA_weirdphone/s/sxe7o8gc3K