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- Apr 2, 2024
A friend of mine is married to this exact guy.A guy earning $200K a year and spending all of the money on himself, and doesn’t believe in paying for any dates or tokens of appreciation, is not a provider.
It's a damn shame. He could buy himself so much goodwill with fifty quid of flowers or chocolate now and then, but... The truth is he actually likes to keep her miserable. She knows her place then.
It's such a small and petty thing to continually refuse to acknowledge birthdays, anniversaries etc but it's so corrosive. It's the most blatant expression of "you are not important to me, you don't deserve my acknowledgement".
I told her when the bastard dies to have him directly cremated with no funeral, since he doesn't believe in acknowledging anyone else.