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- Jan 18, 2019
I get the impression that he believes that because he changed, then others are willing to change. There's also the possibility that he's afraid because he thinks he's looking into a mirror, so he must believe that others can and will change (Or maybe he's just angry at what he used to be, IDFK.), as if the fact that they won't means that he won't either. There are some people out there who need to internalize that they are actually somewhat unique in some aspect in order for them to stop measuring themselves up to others in those areas.Josh is ridiculously forgiving. He gives way too many second, third and fourth chances. Just look at him letting SIGSEV come back to the site after fedposting. He is a good boy who wants to see the best in people despite seeing so much evil over the years. I think it's the only way he can do this job without going totally doompilled. He also just has a bad memory.
I worry that the more he rightfully learns to resent other men who refuse to grow up and behave themselves, the more desperate he may be to see sparks of hope wherever possible. I used to be that way and still have a little bit of it left in me. It's not exactly a fun time going through life feeling as though my husband is the only man in the world who isn't an anthropomorphized sack of shit, hence caring about seeing Josh improve.
Vaginal lubrication and the other reactions that come with it have nothing to do with actual arousal. Our bodies will just be further damaged (tears, chafing, etc) from sexual assault if they don't prepare themselves. Not the same thing at all as erections, which require the guy to be turned on by something. I'm not saying that an erection is consent or proof that his higher thinking brain wants it, just that it turns him on.Autistic if you think erections and vaginal lubrication are voluntary, lunacy if you think they are involuntary.
I am really curious.
If you stay single, they're angry. If you're with someone shitty, they're angry. If you're with someone decent, they're angry. If you're not giving them sex, they're angry at you. Simple as.They're resentful when we pick the "bad boys", and they're resentful when we reject the "bad boys".
Woman in the boardroom syndrome.And suddenly all these guys who were ignoring me began heaping up coals on the burning ones and announcing "We got the fire going!!!" :/ yea ofc you did...
Because men ask for advice on how to woo women and they all get it handed out to them like candy on Halloween. Anyone who gives any man advice on how to convince a chick to be with him is culpable to some degree for the deceptive shit going on. If he cares, it shows.men who want to use you for your body and the men who want to marry you use exactly the same methods to do win you over and it's hard to tell the difference.
I think a lot of women would be shocked to learn how common it is for men to sincerely believe that we only do any kind of grooming or physical self care in attempts to attract their sexual attention. There is a disturbingly high proportion of married men who believe that shit.Moids need to learn that women like it when they take care of themselves and shit. Women don't take care of themselves just for men's attention.