I wish more men put effort into their looks like women do. Eating a lighter dinner of grilled salmon and roasted asparagus because you had a heavier meal earlier in the day isn’t “being womanly,” it’s caring about your body. So many women are just expected to put up with a guy having a potbelly, but women are often not afforded the same treatment (excluding guys that have fat fetishes).
They do...eventually, when age starts to hit hard. Whether that's 35, 40, 45, 50, they start to get pretty fucking "girly" about it.
And I hate cheap shots, but there's something mildly off-putting about a man being prissy about food. Just eat what you like/what you need/what fits your goal, but I do not need to know about your diet or particular dietary needs, unless you just like/don't like something, which I find mildly interesting.
Similarly, I dislike when a man comments on my food choices. "A salad? That's not food, live a little, enjoy this dinner, blah, blah.". Dude, eating out at a nice restaurant isn't exactly an unusual experience for me, and plus, if I want a damn salad, I want a damn salad. They're huge at restaurants; it's a real meal in any case. Mind your own plate.
And there are literal prostitutes who have perfect porn star vaginas because that shit is completely random. Plus a lot of porn stars have had cosmetic surgery on their vaginas to get that look.
Dudes have no idea how vaginas actually work thinking they can insult women on the appearance of theirs. Moid moment.
Lemme ask you something (you and any woman here): have you ever heard a man in real life talking about women's labia/genitals in the way they do online? I recall one guy decades ago telling me about a previous partner's particulars (big clit or labia, something like that) - not even in a particularly disparaging way, more like omg wtf - but that was our early 20s and I've never heard a man say a thing about it since (except online).
That said, I'm sure the piss-poor sex ed that's taught in US schools doesn't help, since I sure as fuck don't remember getting taught anything about female anatomy other than basic shit about periods and if we have sex we'll get pregnant and die. Sure as fuck don't remember being taught about the clitoris or the fact that vaginas come in all shapes and sizes.
Varieties of anatomy don't need to be taught as part of sex ed. A high school student doesn't need to be explained the deep aesthetic differences between cut and uncut, and neither do they need graphic depictions of different variations of women's genitals. Students need to understand mechanics, pregnancy prevention (emphasis on prevention, ffs, and including "not having sex" as an option, but also steering teenagers away from counting on folklore, finger-crossing, ovulation cycles, and pulling out, plus empowering young women to take control of their own fertility and reproductive lives instead of /in addition to relying on stupid boys to manage condoms), and std protection. If they could just accomplish that, that's enough.