Yeah that's what gets to me. I get a bit afraid when they declare "henceforth she shall be Miss Piggy" or "lmao your one-note insults about my dick fall flat" cause I worry that everyone agrees w them. And there's enough haploids on this forum that it seems realistic.
"I wouldn't even RAPE you" - Sargon of Akkad
is the most encapsulating example that comes to mind for me.
But who cares? Don’t care. Literally do not care.
I got a dm the other day calling me “one of the ugliest and least intelligent” people on this site (and “Much like E. Jean Carroll, you are far too ugly to rape.”). Vile (and pathetic), but lol.
I get it’s different when your pic is out there, but you can’t let the “feedback” from people who can’t tie their shoes (or anyone, for that matter) get to you. Take any piece (if any) that is constructive, and wgaf about the rest? Laugh about the sad mati comments and frustrated impotence - and if you can’t laugh because it’s making you feel worried or bothered, then step away.
I'm overcoming sexist psyops perpetuated against all of us since childhood. Moids don't get to say what's what anymore. Just cause a moid says something does NOT make it true, and potentially quite the opposite.
Also don’t mentally elevate your earnest efforts to reconcile your personal perspective/make a valid political observation to some sort of martyrdom. If you’re talking truth, some will hear it and some won’t (and some are truly in it for the lulz, whether because they are awful people or merely teenaged/arrested shitposters who know nothing; their personal dysfunction isn’t your problem).
That said, none of us know everything. Not every idiot/ dysfunctional/ uninformed/ ignorant/ naive/ denial/ bullshit comment has even a nugget of worth or truth, but occasionally some backwards ape will stumble on a fair consideration. Worth the effort to consider? Depends on the cost to you. In the name of self-preservation and sanity, I’d lean toward not bothering.
Tl; dr: the population on this site is > average in love with supposed shitposting, even when it’s real shit they are struggling with personally. So your efforts to gain traction are really just aiming toward minimal impact, and the weight your should give to their insults is minuscule.