Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

[suspended animation]

Does anyone else have a problem with men whom you aren't close with dumping all of their problems and then being forced into a situation where you either come off as uncaring, or have to try to make someone you hardly know and don't even really like feel better? Like if I have friends I don't mind at all them talking to me about their problems. However, when it is someone you just met and who tried to flirt with you who trauma dumps about how annoying his girlfriend is, it is incredibly annoying. This has happened to me several times and I wonder if it is just men thinking women are caring so I will dump all my problems on women, or if I am drawing too much from it?

There are needy, clingy guys who will try to gain your sympathy as a means to get a relationship (or just sex) with you. Even if they have a girlfriend already, they may know that relationship is ending or they think you're a better substitute for their current girl, and they do not want to be alone so they'll try to find a new partner ASAP.

They tend to attach themselves to the strong and caring type of woman, maybe as a sort of mommy replacement. They're the type who expects women to do everything just as a woman would for their young child: feed them, clean up after them, remind ("nag") them to do their chores/ duties.

Try to have some excuses prepared for why you don't have time to talk next time you see them.

 

[Lidl Drip]

HELP my femoid is broken, she doesn't act like a cocklusty pornstar???? She doesn't even want to be slapped in the face and spat on??? IS SHE A SELFISH LOVER?!

 

[Perun]

There are needy, clingy guys who will try to gain your sympathy as a means to get a relationship (or just sex) with you.

Brings back memories of dudes i hardly know telling me all about their depression and then expecting me to date them because of that, and if you say no they threaten to kill themselves (but they never do it). "UwU i am so soft and sensitive and talk about my feelings so you should date me and if you don't you're a bitch and I'll tell everyone I'm gonna kill myself because of you" bunch of faggots.
Dudes will spin this to mean you can't talk about your feelings cause women hate men with feelings, because they don't understand the difference between sharing your feelings with someone you're close with vs dumping all your issues on someone you barely know and hoping to get sex/relationship out of it.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Try to have some excuses prepared for why you don't have time to talk next time you see them.

Yes, that’s step 1 toward not being exploited as a sponge for others’ emotional angst/current issues.

Step 2 is being able unapologetically not to offer/provide that soft landing some people will angle for from you/ guilt you to get from you/ expect from you.

Trust, being able to separate what YOU (truly) want to give (i.e., in healthy relationships/interactions) vs. what others will try to put on you is a magic skill. Your brain and empathic drive (and self esteem) will thank you a million times over.

And that applies doubly if they’re dressing it up as some kind of come-on to romantic intimacy.

 

[FarmVille]

Does anyone else have a problem with men whom you aren't close with dumping all of their problems and then being forced into a situation where you either come off as uncaring, or have to try to make someone you hardly know and don't even really like feel better?

I do not have this problem because I do not care if men think I’m a bitch

 

[TheSpinyShell]

who cares about the opinions of internet strangers, especially if those strangers are moids or moid-adjacent?

Moids will fuck literally anything, even each other with little prompting. With the amount that get fooled by trannies with only a basic grasp of photoshop (or none in some cases involving FaceApp), I hardly register even compliments from men. At best, I view it like compliments from children. I'll appreciate the good will* being extended in my direction , but ultimately won't count it for much considering the ignorance and/or incompetence on their end.

*assuming the man in question isn't obviously saying bullshit at the whim of his penis.

and who tried to flirt with you

I hate that sort of bullshit; either you capitulate and become a man's emotional tampon until you wise up and cut him out of your life (ideally before he confesses to you) or you (correctly) give them a mildly cold shoulder and are called a bitch for it. The latter's always the superior option though. He either needs to get the emotional IQ needed to become friends with you and give you a reason to give a shit, or he needs to keep that shit to people he's already close with.

 

[Big Miss Steak]

Does anyone else have a problem with men whom you aren't close with dumping all of their problems and then being forced into a situation where you either come off as uncaring, or have to try to make someone you hardly know and don't even really like feel better? Like if I have friends I don't mind at all them talking to me about their problems. However, when it is someone you just met and who tried to flirt with you who trauma dumps about how annoying his girlfriend is, it is incredibly annoying. This has happened to me several times and I wonder if it is just men thinking women are caring so I will dump all my problems on women, or if I am drawing too much from it?

I have had this problem but it was men I was friends with. Some of the whiniest, most emotionally manipulative people I have known were men. This was kind of an epiphany for me as I always believed women were more emotional and histrionic. Took years for me to develop the backbone to tell this """depressed,""" suicide-baiting man I had been friends with for a years to pound sand. It was an unpleasant conversation but the escape from all the emotional vomit was worth it.

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HELP my femoid is broken, she doesn't act like a cocklusty pornstar???? She doesn't even want to be slapped in the face and spat on??? IS SHE A SELFISH LOVER?!
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Was going to say the OP in the first pic is a Bateman in the making and then saw commenters in the second pic calling the gf a female Bateman because she doesn't want to be choked or roleplay rape so she must not care about her man's needs. Maybe being a nun isn't such a bad career path.

 

[Generic Anime Girl]

Line up men with "Free Use" fetishes against the walls. castrate and shoot them.

 

[Layton Mysteries]

Line up men with "Free Use" fetishes against the walls. castrate and shoot them.

I forgot that existed. Sounds like a hotbed for STDs.

 

[smegma enthusiast]

Has anyone here discussed topics like “emotional labor” and “weaponized incompetence?” I came across the ideas recently and they really struck a chord with me. I often see among mothers that they often have a job that offers similar hours, labor, and pay to their husbands’, but they take on planning, cleaning, keeping care of the kids, and generally organizing and memorizing dates and information, while the father gets to sit on his ass and do nothing. I see this among my family and many others’. Has anyone tried to have this conversation with their boyfriends or fathers about this? How did it go?

 

[demicolon]

Anyone else uses dental floss as indestructable sewing thread?

 

[valerian]

Has anyone here discussed topics like “emotional labor” and “weaponized incompetence?” I came across the ideas recently and they really struck a chord with me. I often see among mothers that they often have a job that offers similar hours, labor, and pay to their husbands’, but they take on planning, cleaning, keeping care of the kids, and generally organizing and memorizing dates and information, while the father gets to sit on his ass and do nothing. I see this among my family and many others’. Has anyone tried to have this conversation with their boyfriends or fathers about this? How did it go?

ive been aware of the concepts for a while and from what i can see by researching the topic it seems to be a thing that actually happens very often, husbands/boyfriends will claim they dont know how to use the dishwasher, how to clean the floor or even how to go shopping etc etc just so the women in their life do it instead. then whenever they have to do it they do it very half assedly and in a purposely dumb way, kind of to show their wives that theyre really incapable of doing it.

ive also seen it happen with mothers and their sons, i think this isnt documented as often though since its relatively normal for a child to lack some skills especially when they werent taught any. but this behavior makes them turn into the men who end up doing it with their girlfriends and wives.

im honestly not sure why anyone would ever want to seem stupid and like a manchild just because theyre too lazy, but oh well?

 

[demicolon]

I don't get football (soccer for Ameritards). At all.

It's like watching 90 minutes of ants crawling on grass. Nothing interesting happens for 99% of the time and not even being drunk makes it bearable. On top of that you have to listen to retarded yelling from either TV or others watching. The sport itself is dumb - you run a mile to catch a ball and instead of high-tailing it, you kick it away from yourself like it was not the thing you were chasing all this time.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

here's a bunch of men who killed people because they were watching porn while driving

Here is the thing that makes me MATI , women dont push hard to showcase the trashy and shitty behaviour of men . Like if a woman does something retarded with nowhere near terrible consenquences and somehow gets an article it will be posted immedieatly , but if men do there is not a single post. I would spam the shit out of every single article that contains this shit just for the lulz in A and N . Literally you shoudl watch them spamming about women cant pair bond or something when they rake in the numbers but forget to mention men , or dismising the study that point blank shows men will drop you like used cumrag on the side of the road the minute you get cancer , or when you post comprehensive data why most women get custodies and aint because judge hates you ist because 50 % of the time man just gives to her, another 20 men cant be found anywhere and something like less than 10% there is any form of involment of court or mediators.

Like i didnt even knew this was happening untill now.

 

[Lurker]

for context, this is in a thread in a&h about how the VA has training videos instructing health providers to promote abortion as the safest option for pregnant veterans. moids in a&h are upset that @Flamin Park stated an actual fact. literally every person who negrated this post is actually, genuinely retarded.

 

[Illuminati Order Official]

they feel some sympathy for incels.

Incels don't need sympathy. Incels need to be told, repeatedly, that they are retarded and need to get better and that not having sex is not something to build one's identity around.

I'd like that but the better option is for me to take a break from Thunderdome. And I'd hate to impose upon anyone.

Thunderdome is a containment zone (and Mass Debates is a toilet in the containment zone). A wall constructed to prevent /pol/ from spilling all over the forum. You need to have it at the back of your head if you want to go there.

I don't get football (soccer for Ameritards). At all.

I'm a man and I don't get it either.

 

[Stan]

I don't get football (soccer for Ameritards). At all.

It's like watching 90 minutes of ants crawling on grass. Nothing interesting happens for 99% of the time and not even being drunk makes it bearable. On top of that you have to listen to retarded yelling from either TV or others watching. The sport itself is dumb - you run a mile to catch a ball and instead of high-tailing it, you kick it away from yourself like it was not the thing you were chasing all this time.

I hate American football for the same reason. I can only look at tight male butts in spandex for half an hour before I get bored and wonder why the clock stops every 15 seconds.

Here is the thing that makes me MATI , women dont push hard to showcase the trashy and shitty behaviour of men . Like if a woman does something retarded with nowhere near terrible consenquences and somehow gets an article it will be posted immedieatly , but if men do there is not a single post. I would spam the shit out of every single article that contains this shit just for the lulz in A and N

Ahah if I haven’t been banned from the Thunderdome yet I should do this instead of trying to reason with them.

Thunderdome is a containment zone (and Mass Debates is a toilet in the containment zone). A wall constructed to prevent /pol/ from spilling all over the forum. You need to have it at the back of your head if you want to go there.

Yeah. They're not even pol, they're polcel refugees whose prognostications are too edgy for /pol/. And knowing this, I still get too worked up and MATI at some of the tripe they post. Better then to leave the lepers to their own devices for a bit.

 

[Lidl Drip]

I don't get football (soccer for Ameritards). At all.

It's like watching 90 minutes of ants crawling on grass. Nothing interesting happens for 99% of the time and not even being drunk makes it bearable. On top of that you have to listen to retarded yelling from either TV or others watching. The sport itself is dumb - you run a mile to catch a ball and instead of high-tailing it, you kick it away from yourself like it was not the thing you were chasing all this time.

That's all sports for me. I don't understand sitting on the couch while you watch other people exercise but somehow men love to be passive while watching other men achieve things they never could. Same with porn, why sit at home and watch other people have sex? It's just so pathetic. Do it yourself, fat lazy shits.

 

[Catloaf]

I personally like to watch competitive sports sometimes. The main reason is that it's competitive. Especially during world cup, you get to see a country win over another country and make countless of memes. I know that moids tend to take it so far as in DV or trashing and burning cities. Well, chimps are gonna chimp

 

[demicolon]

Incels don't need sympathy. Incels need to be told, repeatedly, that they are retarded and need to get better and that not having sex is not something to build one's identity around.

The problem with incel "subculture" is that it's designed to keep you miserable, not to help you stop being an incel.

I'd be sympathetic towards incels if they, y'know, were being nice to women or at least smiled at them instead of baring fangs. No dude will tolerate a spouse who treats him like a walking wallet, just as women will not tolerate guys who bitch constantly and give up on life.