- Joined
- Oct 27, 2021
Ages ago dontdatehimgirl.com was a website that was a place for women to warn other women of specific asshole men (cheaters, rapists, users, etc.). In 2006 a butthurt asshole sued the site. First dismissed and then ultimately settled, the suit seems to have led eventually to the shuttering of the site; I just tested the url and got a blank screen. Amusingly (considering where we are), the site was called a “revenge site” (ABC News) and a “hate site” (Fox/O’Reilly).Today I found out there's online invite only groups per city called stuff like ''Are we dating the same guy?' dedicated to snuffing out cheaters, second families, scammers and DV/abuse warnings because women need to do this shit now. Sadly, the rules are biblical length screeds about not attacking the guys appearance, no group facing discussions, a word limit on how much can even be said, no list of crimes unless convicted, use of words like 'allegedly' peppered in a lot of posts. It's literally, quite exclusively, a warning system, because of how many unchecked gross vile men are out there. But they can't even call them scrotes or they'll be deleted. Fuck this gay Earth
Supposedly there
Looks like there is some kind of Facebook group, but idk if big enough to be useful, or what is their scope. Private groups are a good idea, if they have a large enough user base.
But those sites/groups are public services. I did once find an entry on some now-gone site, about someone who had approached me. Subject in question was a smug cheater going by his middle name and a grandparent’s last name. (But I still found you, bitch. -ed.) I only found an archived page and so limited info, but it was enough to confirm what I had wondered about. And he was stunned, bc he’d paid a lot of money to have his dirty deeds scrubbed from the internet. Oops.
A real man, if somehow those two were really into the dumb surprise gender-reveal “event,” would have been dialed in to helping her/their planned surprise by quickly tossing the topper out of view. I mean, those reveals are cringe, but a man who sells out his wife/gets mad at her for…doing nothing “wrong” (and even if it had been her “fault,” wtf cares) is a twit.
In other notes, this afternoon I caught a week’s ban from commenting in the woman-hate thread, despite not having posted there since 2 days ago. 
My last comments were disagreeing with a purported woman. Kk. Perhaps annoying/derailing/off-topic in a thread, so fine, I accept, but I don’t think I was criticizing (declared) men or their self-professed woman-hatred. Oh, well.
My last comments were disagreeing with a purported woman. Kk. Perhaps annoying/derailing/off-topic in a thread, so fine, I accept, but I don’t think I was criticizing (declared) men or their self-professed woman-hatred. Oh, well.
