I've watched the most recent episode of the new episodes Kitchen Nightmares (restaurant is called Love Bites) and this latest episode is something you would all love, I'm sure.
The owners of this restaurant are an engaged couple, have been engaged for several years, the man works in the kitchen and the woman works front of house. The man hates his restaurant and clearly does not want to be in the kitchen and as a result, he treats his fianceé like total shit. The way this moid speaks to her and by extension the rest of his staff (both their mothers also work in the restaurant because they're the only ones willing to help out and put up with his toxicity) is blood boiling. It was bad enough, but it turns out the woman has severe health issues which has made her have a ridiculous amount of surgeries before the age of 30.
Ramsay does call him out on his shit thankfully, quite seriously, and points out that he's specifically pulled three of the women closest in his life into this circle of hate and negativity, but there is still that element of "this poor guy, all this stress on him

" but holy fuck I don't want this guy to succeed. I want his fianceé to leave him and saddle him with all the worry from the failed venture that
he wanted and that
she didn't want a part of. It's the classic story of a moid who throws himself into the muck, pulls the women in his life in with him and then screams at them about his own mess, then we're supposed to feel bad for him because the women aren't being supportive enough and he's just taking on so many responsibilities you guys
Partway through the episode, Ramsay takes him to a therapist, but does the woman get a therapist? Of course she doesn't. She just goes home with her mother to take a break from him and the restaurant, because that's all she needs, right? Also one singular therapy session lol. Granted she gets pulled out and stays out of the resturant from that point forward. At the very least he does blame himself for his own behaviour, which is a breath of fresh air compared to some moids, but he truly doesn't deserve her. He's caused her years of stress, blamed her in part for that stress and most likely exacerbated her health problems along the way.
By the end they've made the decision to sell the restaurant but fuck me, I couldn't imagine speaking to the person I'm supposed to love like that. Not my parents, not my partner and not even an acquiantance. And even if the supposed stressor has been removed from their relationship all it takes is for another one to come up for him to start treating her like shit again. If my loved one spoke to
me like that I wouldn't look at them the same way again.