Men don't feel responsibility for their family the way women do, they always keep the option to just completely disappear from your life open in the back of their mind and they won't even feel bad about it, they will just say it was because "my wife was making me miserable and I deserve to be happy". No consideration for their children at all. You very very rarely see women abandon their children, hence why there's so many single moms and almost no single fathers (unless they are widowers). Oh and ofc sometimes men just murder their entire family if they become bothersome and they found a new gf.
Tbh... there's some choice specimales whose fathers *did* abandon them, who seem to hate their mothers way more for being "single moms" than the fathers who y'know... caused that whole situation of single motherhood.
It fits the thread theme because her husband divorced her and only had to deal with the violent retard 5 weeks out of the year. Is autism just diagnosed in men more, or does a Y chromosome make it more likely?
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Never understood why everyone calling her coal burner when this woman fucked asian!!! Asian!!! Or a coal burner is now fucking anything but white man?
I think the term d'arte is "rice queen" or "yellow fever", but if the men use those it implies that they shouldn't date Asians women either, which they definitely want to do.
Might be the wrong place to ask but are you all completely blackpilled or do you believe there's still hope in male-female relationships
It is the wrong place to ask and I'm starting to think the men who come here to JAQ off are choosing this thread because the advice and ask-a-woman type threads in OT are hopelessly fagged up with men. Interesting how that works innit, you guys ruin every woman's space that you're not explicitly banned from.
I'm becoming blackpilled the longer we spend in marriage counselling. It's like.... Before, I could put a lot of things down to ignorance. Like, "no he just doesn't know how dickish that behaviour is, gotta let that one just roll off me". Now, we spend ninety minutes a week with him explaining at length to the therapist that he knows these behaviours are cuntish, but he has Reasons and they are Justified because it makes him feel more secure and more emotionally stable. And yeah, he knows the effect these behaviours have on me but ehhhh gotta do what he needs.
I sit there thinking, it was better when I thought you were just a stupid bastard. Finding out it was all quite deliberate is really making me have feelings that I didn't want to have.
I'm not sure whether the endgame of the therapist is to have me accept that I have to live with some real cuntish antics because he's emotionally fragile, or.... I don't know, get pissed off and call time? I have no idea where we are going with this. I don't feel we are working towards a goal. I do not appreciate sitting for ninety minutes a week hearing about how the world revolves around his feelings and I'm an NPC in my own life. He has individual sessions for that.
I don't think I should be coming away from marriage therapy feeling like this. I don't come away from individual therapy feeling like this. Sometimes I feel punch drunk, but I feel like we're getting somewhere. Even if I have to walk into Mordor to get there, there is a goal.
You can't fix someone for them, but it'd be cool if you read this out in your group therapy session. All of these things you are noticing; that your husband is a cunt to you on purpose, he knows when he is doing it, that he habitually prioritizes his comfort over yours, that you're an NPC to him, that shit is what's poisoned this relationship.
I wish you the best, even if that means being alone than being with this guy.
Edit: Hello to the homosexual sissy-hypno addicted moids lurking to neg rate all posts from @Lidl Drip within 5 minutes of them posting
Somewhere in a secret group chat the Lidl signal is flashing. Fag team assemble!
Physically repulsive old and/or fat and/or gross ugly men know the relationship is transactional when they enter. They rely on the fact they have wealth and resources and power to get beautiful young women without that same influence, they know this, there is no lie, so truly they could’ve picked better. Edit: and I fucking hate those documentaries following sad pathetic old pieces of shit freaks who get their heart broken by a Ukrainian woman working for a catfishing company as if he’s some innocent and not a porn addict who wants a pretty younger woman to dump cum into.
Anyone remember that old Jordan Peterson take where he said women wearing blush in the workplace causes assault because it makes men think of sex? Breaks my heart no one ever explained to this retard that foundation causes “pancake face” and the blush adds the natural blush back in. Otherwise women look like paper. Not a great look that one of the most popular blushes is named Orgasm lmao, but that’s just makeup marketing as a whole, all products get this treatment, it’s for the wine moms and just an attempt to be edgy. Like nigga my cheeks have a natural blush if rape apes have to assault me because of it they’re not fit to work or participate in civilisations.
Peterson's buying into a long pedigree of MRAs (starting with Warren Farrel) who basically think that makeup, women's fashion, hair dye, showering, and using fragrances literally short-circuit their superior man brains to want sex. These men would probably get aroused if you recolored Rorschach inkblots in pink and purple, and they're probably the 40% of men who get aroused looking at olive trees and sand dunes.
