Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

I didn’t realize all of this was from keke. You said lots of good (if depressing, given the thread we’re in) stuff thanks fren:biggrin:
tranny porn, jailbait “petite” stuff, gay, is something ALL women should double check for.
It’s horrifying how popular “stepdaughter” etc incest porn is as well, and it’s folly to pretend like seeking that out/being so inclined to make it has no bearing on reality. Courtesy of some local moids here and there who have told us outright their imagination is bolted straight to their dicks, and porn is not like a normal story anyway. It is not a valid excuse to say “fiction” when it comes to porn. I don’t excuse weird porn habits in either sex, but objectively there is more harm being done by the actual human visual porn industry and its treatment of/effects on women than freaky cartoon porn and fanfic. Males do not need to be further emboldened to attack their own family members.

Everyone knows rape happens but somehow no one knows a rapist.
Men would have to acknowledge some dark things about their shitty friend they don’t even like that much anyway and who they can tell their female friends distrust and feel uncomfortable around, but yet most feel a pathetic tribal bond to that guy anyway. And that’s a version giving them any “credit” for noticing that women dislike their rapey buddy. It’s likelier that multiple men in a given friend group have had “consent accidents” than that there’s just one creep singularity, but I try to be fair, occasionally.

Women would also have to admit they’ve defended husbands, sons, and other males who have committed atrocities. Burning witches keeps things tidy.

And afterwards she’s just stupid for falling for it, he’s still a great person and manipulating women has zero stain on his character.
Adjacent to the other two points, I had wanted to say something briefly on the phrase “daddy issues” and how it is fundamentally the same—applied to a woman being “hysterical”, generally reactive etc, and never once do I think I’ve heard or seen it with any hint of sympathy attached. It’s acknowledged that a bad father figure can destroy a young woman’s mental health, but that term has always seemed to signify 1 she’s probably an easy lay 2 she’s batshit, end of. Who gives a shit that her dad might have raped or molested her, or shown her porn, or made lecherous comments about her friends—she is a joke and he is irrelevant to any moral judgement of her character. I don’t think it’s always intended to mean sexual abuse, but that reading seems to be pretty implicit most of the time.
 
Actual justice warrior just made a video about Lauren Southern and it's pretty clear from the comments that most of them didn't watch 10 seconds of the video. They just saw the title, got mad, and immediately started calling him simp. (Less emotional gender)
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This is so sad, especially "he's not willing to interact with me if there's no chance of sex". This seems to be somewhat common and I don't understand why men would get married if they just want sex? Clearly he has little care for his children as well, why even get married at that point? Why not just watch porn and never get married? Why drag an innocent women into your shit if you don't even love her?
I really hate how much I relate to that woman's situation.
 
tl;dr men can't comprehend the idea of women doing things for the compassion of it.
He wouldn't complain if a man did it. You see it all over the internet too. A random man being kind to an animal gets brainless praise and everyone assumes he knows what he's doing. Women helping animals get more of the "leave it alone it's nature", "you are not fit to rehabilitate it" comments.
 
Actual justice warrior just made a video about Lauren Southern and it's pretty clear from the comments that most of them didn't watch 10 seconds of the video. They just saw the title, got mad, and immediately started calling him simp. (Less emotional gender)
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I’m torn on Lauren Southern.

On one hand:
  • She’s an obvious grifter herself (she has just rebranded more frequently)
  • She jumped into a questionable relationship way too fast
  • Her not thinking through getting involved with a foreign guy while being banned from several countries at the time shows poor judgement
On the other hand:
  • Red pill moids are definitely annoying and don’t even know what they want in a relationship
  • The whole “tradwife” thing is a bit much, and only really doable for the most affluent (and even then, any tradwife influencer is technically a working woman)
  • Incel talking points gaining more prominence among red pillers has made women (rightfully) not want to date as much
I get her frustration, but she really should have had better judgement. At the very least, she should have dated the guy longer to get a feel for him before deciding to do marriage and kids. I don’t even really hate her, and I think the guy was scummy for being a deadbeat. All in all, sometimes experiencing the consequences is the best teacher. At the very least, it’s one less person being swayed by the whims of online moids that have probably never been in a relationship.
 
Older pop culture also potrayed a guy stalking and knowing her weekly schedule as romantic. No, it isn't cute that Jimmy knows what kind of coffee Kate likes to drink on a rainy wednesday without ever talking to her, that's creepy and Kate should call the cops.
it makes my skin crawl how long it took for stalking to be both seen as creepy and made into a legal offense, at least on paper since a lot of cops still like to twiddle their thumbs until there's ~suddenly~ a body found in a ditch two miles outside of town. in my opinion it needs to be railed on even harder because, like with animal abuse, it's a clear sign of unhinged antisocial behaviour that'll just escalate into something worse if allowed to continue.

as an aside, please prepare your moon stickers for something i just remembered: i recently listened to a podcast where the female co-host talked about how she'd been stalked by one of her apartment tenant neighbours, who was a guy from sudan or algeria or whatever, but for some fucking reason she tried to give him the benefit of a doubt by saying it potentially could've just been a cultural difference. it's a hopelessly retarded take no matter how you look at it, because all she's doing is downplaying an upsetting experience while unintentionally inferring that a) men from other cultures are creepy lunatics and b) men from other cultures are just too stupid to learn the basic social norms of whatever country they moved to, which means it's totally not their fault they don't treat others with respect.

i don't know, maybe it was her way of keeping herself from going down the existential despair spiral of "oh my god i could've died or worse", and i understand the urge to throw up a mental shield so you don't go full doomer mode. a lot of people want to believe other humans will do the right thing and that shit happen for a better reason than "idk lol".

He wouldn't complain if a man did it. You see it all over the internet too. A random man being kind to an animal gets brainless praise and everyone assumes he knows what he's doing. Women helping animals get more of the "leave it alone it's nature", "you are not fit to rehabilitate it" comments.
again with male hypocrisy. aren't women supposed to be gentle, nurturing creatures who were made to care for other living things? after all i've had brainlets claim my love of animals would translate perfectly to being a good mom, what happened there? does empathy only count when it's some loser's fuck trophy he can use to prove he touched a woman spent on a human?
 
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Older pop culture also potrayed a guy stalking and knowing her weekly schedule as romantic. No, it isn't cute that Jimmy knows what kind of coffee Kate likes to drink on a rainy wednesday without ever talking to her, that's creepy and Kate should call the cops.
the 90s- early 2000s Love Actually era. Anyone remember Hugh Grant?
You can literally be the ideal woman meme and still get cheated on. You can tick every box and it still doesn't matter.
Hugh Grant's wife was one of the hottest sex symbols of the 90s. Didn't matter.
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there is no hope for most.
I'm becoming blackpilled the longer we spend in marriage counselling.
I'd call myself greypilled. There are a small number of non-shit men out there, but I don't expect to find one for me.
Men are a lot like snakes or other wild creatures to me. Okay to observe, but ultimately, you don't want to fuck with them.
Have enough money put to the side that you can leave if he drops his mask and it turns out he was a psychopath this whole time.
It's so fucking over for straight women. Billions must stay single
 
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i don't think i'd ever label myself blackpilled on anything, especially not on something as basic and as intrinsic to life as human relationships, but i will say that i do not feel whatever desire it is that motivates the women that i know and have seen to be around and devote themselves to trash, and i wish more women felt the same.
 
I’m not blackpilled on men, but I do think women should have higher standards when it comes to dating. There is no shame in wanting a guy that makes at least $50K or more per year, who can save money, and practices basic hygiene. Getting anything less when you’re an adult past college is getting less than bare minimum. There are obvious exceptions, such as the area you’re living in having a low cost of living, and therefore not offering as much money, but overall, if a guy can’t provide for himself, he can’t provide for you.
 
you have few options but all of them lead to packing bags and divorse . He doesnt respect you and he teaches your kids that they can get away with being a cunt toward mum. My father did this he cheated on her left her with debt and abused her.
If i was you i would record all the name calling and make fuck you binder. Honestly I would go through his messages and phone. I can guarantee you there will be cheating because he doesnt respect you and any bimbo winking at him will make it worse for you. I do hope you have your career intact and you didnt went part time or sahm because you are fucked with no lube then. Collect as much as money for lawyer but be ready to walk away from the kids. He might use the kids as a weapon to hurt you and do on purpouse the shitties legally possible decisions just as a fuck you to you . And the only way to win in that situation is saying fine you get the kids and then move as far as possible away preferably another country. Bonus whenever he opens his mouth just drop the audio files of him shitting on you .

Good luck .

Few tricks while you getting ready to drop the nuke.

- every time he does anything good even if its expected of him you praise him, aww you are such good dad the bestest dad in the world.

- occasional bj or asking sex when you know he is not in the mood to make him feel desirable

- pretend to be retarded I constantly say i cant navigate my bank account payment system whenever a bill arrives and ask him to do it ( even though i have been doing this for a decade)

- ask for help instead of making him do it ie Honey help me lift this , help me sort this i am so confused, men love that shit to feel superior to you.

- gray rock him when he is being a cunt, mhmmm okay and then do whatever you set your mind to do.
 
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And the only way to win in that situation is saying fine you get the kids and then move as far as possible away preferably another country.
Honestly this is the only way to win is not to play shit. You just lose at that point, the only thing you can choose is how sodomized you are
 
Same can be said of men that fall for gold diggers. They always blame the women, never the men.
Physically repulsive old and/or fat and/or gross ugly men know the relationship is transactional when they enter. They rely on the fact they have wealth and resources and power to get beautiful young women without that same influence, they know this, there is no lie, so truly they could’ve picked better. Edit: and I fucking hate those documentaries following sad pathetic old pieces of shit freaks who get their heart broken by a Ukrainian woman working for a catfishing company as if he’s some innocent and not a porn addict who wants a pretty younger woman to dump cum into.

Anyone remember that old Jordan Peterson take where he said women wearing blush in the workplace causes assault because it makes men think of sex? Breaks my heart no one ever explained to this retard that foundation causes “pancake face” and the blush adds the natural blush back in. Otherwise women look like paper. Not a great look that one of the most popular blushes is named Orgasm lmao, but that’s just makeup marketing as a whole, all products get this treatment, it’s for the wine moms and just an attempt to be edgy. Like nigga my cheeks have a natural blush if rape apes have to assault me because of it they’re not fit to work or participate in civilisations.
 
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Men lie. After marriage and a baby so the woman is fully trapped is when the truth comes out. This “pick better“ shit for women who’ve been treated terribly is a red pill talking point.
They definitely do, but she apparently met this guy while on tour, and married him after only four months of knowing him. Under those circumstances, I don’t think it was the best idea. He likely did the love bombing tactic and then showed his true nature with marriage, in addition to getting her pregnant extremely early in the relationship. I’m certainly glad she got out of it, but from my own experience, especially in this day and age, it’s probably best to have known each other/dated for at least a year, as it gives more time to see how high quality the guy is. It’s not foolproof, but the ones not willing to wait and pressure you into marriage would have less of a chance of getting married, and therefore trapping the woman.
 
Men don't feel responsibility for their family the way women do, they always keep the option to just completely disappear from your life open in the back of their mind and they won't even feel bad about it, they will just say it was because "my wife was making me miserable and I deserve to be happy". No consideration for their children at all. You very very rarely see women abandon their children, hence why there's so many single moms and almost no single fathers (unless they are widowers). Oh and ofc sometimes men just murder their entire family if they become bothersome and they found a new gf.
Tbh... there's some choice specimales whose fathers *did* abandon them, who seem to hate their mothers way more for being "single moms" than the fathers who y'know... caused that whole situation of single motherhood.
It fits the thread theme because her husband divorced her and only had to deal with the violent retard 5 weeks out of the year. Is autism just diagnosed in men more, or does a Y chromosome make it more likely?
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Never understood why everyone calling her coal burner when this woman fucked asian!!! Asian!!! Or a coal burner is now fucking anything but white man?
I think the term d'arte is "rice queen" or "yellow fever", but if the men use those it implies that they shouldn't date Asians women either, which they definitely want to do.
Might be the wrong place to ask but are you all completely blackpilled or do you believe there's still hope in male-female relationships
It is the wrong place to ask and I'm starting to think the men who come here to JAQ off are choosing this thread because the advice and ask-a-woman type threads in OT are hopelessly fagged up with men. Interesting how that works innit, you guys ruin every woman's space that you're not explicitly banned from.
I'm becoming blackpilled the longer we spend in marriage counselling. It's like.... Before, I could put a lot of things down to ignorance. Like, "no he just doesn't know how dickish that behaviour is, gotta let that one just roll off me". Now, we spend ninety minutes a week with him explaining at length to the therapist that he knows these behaviours are cuntish, but he has Reasons and they are Justified because it makes him feel more secure and more emotionally stable. And yeah, he knows the effect these behaviours have on me but ehhhh gotta do what he needs.

I sit there thinking, it was better when I thought you were just a stupid bastard. Finding out it was all quite deliberate is really making me have feelings that I didn't want to have.

I'm not sure whether the endgame of the therapist is to have me accept that I have to live with some real cuntish antics because he's emotionally fragile, or.... I don't know, get pissed off and call time? I have no idea where we are going with this. I don't feel we are working towards a goal. I do not appreciate sitting for ninety minutes a week hearing about how the world revolves around his feelings and I'm an NPC in my own life. He has individual sessions for that.

I don't think I should be coming away from marriage therapy feeling like this. I don't come away from individual therapy feeling like this. Sometimes I feel punch drunk, but I feel like we're getting somewhere. Even if I have to walk into Mordor to get there, there is a goal.
You can't fix someone for them, but it'd be cool if you read this out in your group therapy session. All of these things you are noticing; that your husband is a cunt to you on purpose, he knows when he is doing it, that he habitually prioritizes his comfort over yours, that you're an NPC to him, that shit is what's poisoned this relationship.
I wish you the best, even if that means being alone than being with this guy.

Edit: Hello to the homosexual sissy-hypno addicted moids lurking to neg rate all posts from @Lidl Drip within 5 minutes of them posting
Somewhere in a secret group chat the Lidl signal is flashing. Fag team assemble!
Physically repulsive old and/or fat and/or gross ugly men know the relationship is transactional when they enter. They rely on the fact they have wealth and resources and power to get beautiful young women without that same influence, they know this, there is no lie, so truly they could’ve picked better. Edit: and I fucking hate those documentaries following sad pathetic old pieces of shit freaks who get their heart broken by a Ukrainian woman working for a catfishing company as if he’s some innocent and not a porn addict who wants a pretty younger woman to dump cum into.

Anyone remember that old Jordan Peterson take where he said women wearing blush in the workplace causes assault because it makes men think of sex? Breaks my heart no one ever explained to this retard that foundation causes “pancake face” and the blush adds the natural blush back in. Otherwise women look like paper. Not a great look that one of the most popular blushes is named Orgasm lmao, but that’s just makeup marketing as a whole, all products get this treatment, it’s for the wine moms and just an attempt to be edgy. Like nigga my cheeks have a natural blush if rape apes have to assault me because of it they’re not fit to work or participate in civilisations.
Peterson's buying into a long pedigree of MRAs (starting with Warren Farrel) who basically think that makeup, women's fashion, hair dye, showering, and using fragrances literally short-circuit their superior man brains to want sex. These men would probably get aroused if you recolored Rorschach inkblots in pink and purple, and they're probably the 40% of men who get aroused looking at olive trees and sand dunes.
 
It is the wrong place to ask and I'm starting to think the men who come here to JAQ off are choosing this thread because the advice and ask-a-woman type threads in OT are hopelessly fagged up with men. Interesting how that works innit, you guys ruin every woman's space that you're not explicitly banned from.
are you implying i'm male? I'm a woman and asking because I am debating if it's worth dating at all in this current era where I see no future. might be wrong place to ask because this thread might have higher population of women who's dissatisfied with men by default
 
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