That wasn't quite what I had in mind when I mentioned carrying groceries - I guess around here it's more common to walk the few kilometres to the store to get your groceries.
Unfortunately, men are smelly brutish gorillas who eat far more than women, so I'm already having to buy more and cook more to feed your inefficient, poorly designed body.
So very nice of you to carry the heavy groceries from the store (though it better not be because you're some cheap povo fuck who can't afford a car), but I just can't bring myself to be impressed by a moid doing basic adult duties.
Such a male thing to harp over being a barely decent human being, and post in the man-hate thread wanting reassurance and butt-pats for it.
And such a woman thing for us to do, in giving you the time of day and engaging with you as though you're discussing in good faith. I'm sceptical of your goal post shift where suddenly you're carting groceries multiple kilometres.
So yes, this is generally a positive quality. If carrying bags is a stand-out feature for men (sigh), then yes, one doing it is a good thing: it shows awareness and base-level sense of responsibility and care. And if the prevailing culture in a place is that it's acceptable to stride along while a women struggles with bags, then yes, a man carrying them indicates he may not be a completely self-absorbed twit who sees women as mules.
(Sorry if I americanized my response originally - I had in mind bringing in groceries from the car in the garage after she did the shopping.)
Just beware of men making a show of doing normal things in order to mask or cause blindness about deficiencies in other arareas.
This is yet again a reminder of how much men benefit from the "prevailing culture" (patriarchy) in keeping general moid standards so low that all a man has to do is not be a complete arsehole to be in the top 10%.
Incredible how this moid wasn't at all clear about his carrying groceries bullshit (both of us had the same impression it was from the car, because that makes fucking sense), but you're the one apologising to him. Moid should apologise for writing like a retard, instead of some bullshit "that wasn't quite what I had in mind" condescension.
Actually, moid should apologise for showing up in the man-hate thread at all.
There are debate threads in this very subforum, but I guess it's not as much fun if you can't also violate some boundaries when chatting to the ladies.