victims how? you reap what you sow
MRA-types and very libfem pickmeishas argue that men also suffer in patriarchy by being expected to conform to their patriarchy's idea of masculinity, expectations and values, that men in this system are always forced to be macho, stern, stoic/not express their emotions, be the provider and the leader. They argue that because of these limitations and pressure to conform, men are unable to vent out their emotions in a healthy way, form healthy, affectionate close friendships like women are able to with their other each other and that they aren't allowed to be more compassionate, sensitive, empathetic, nurturing and etc. because these traits are associated with women exclusively. They say that if men do display these traits on their own they face stigma from "society" and because they are forced to act like a stoic macho they are barred access from being able to work jobs such as being a caretaker or a babysitter, even pursuing other careers that are considered "female ones".
Except this argument falls very flat on its head when you remember that:
1) Pros still outweigh the cons massively when you are a male in this system.
2) It's not the "society" that condemns men when they don't want to be stoic machos, it's other men that condemn and police them while women are more likely to encourage them to be themselves and be open with their feelings but instead of following that advice, they accuse women of being insidious with that advice and trying to brainwash them into being emasculated emotionally unstable cuck soyboys.
3) Despite them saying how men suffer in patriarchy too, if they were actually given an opportunity to abolish the patriarchy and start a whole new system where they would not be burdened by the expectations of patriarchy, none of them would actually do this because as mentioned above pros outweigh the cons for them, even the most "chivalrous" men that are "for women" wouldn't do it. They're not any different than your average rich bougie commie from California that loves going "I HATE AMERICAN CAPITALISM I WISH I WAS IN COMMUNIST COUNTRY!!" until they get told to leave the USA and move to the greener pastures of Cambodia where their livelihood will depend on how many rice fields they manage to harvest in a day, then they just sneer and hiss at whoever called them out.
Oh he has a cope for this in the replies actually.
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(it goes on like this but I can't be assed to screenshot the entire thing, TLDR) this moid can't make his point in less than 1000 words cause he's retarded.
"Grown men BUILD everything!! Babies just consume!" Ok retard I guess you were never a baby and your father just underwent mitosis to create you. Ofc he doesn't have any kids himself.
And more womb envy from moids in the replies.
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If sperm is alive then I guess every man is a mass murderer. Apparently every time you are jizzing into a sock you are snuffing out millions of lives!
hoe_math definitely needs his own thread because he's a massive sperg like Bronzagepervert. Not long ago he was seething about how some radfem that felted him by telling him he hit the wall and posted his long twitter vent where he admits that despite being in his 40s (aka a man's prime like he likes to say) he is not attracting any women, slowly balding and gaining weight.
Because no girl is impressed with a knuckle dragging opener like "hi howre you" which I guarantee this retard is doing. Because all of them do, then whine and get ballgargled from other men on the sub about how it's not fair that they can't get their dick sucked after putting in minimal effort and not bothering to even read her app. The "disillusion" from men on dating apps is almost always because it's not a DoorDash for pussy, not even if you're a "Chad."
"b-but 'Hi' works as an opener in real life!!" And you're too dickless or autistic to approach a woman in real life without fucking it up or wetting yourself. That's why you're on dating apps with your outdated photos from back when you were thin and had hair, you're just getting told your place through another medium.
The worst part of all of this is the fact that men who are unable to hold a conversation outside from saying a basic greeting and asking how are you will either try to cope by saying "See how simple men are with their conversations!!" or unironically expect women them see it as endearing under the premise of "Oh he so hecking shy that he can't talk like a normal human being he's so cute!", unironically fuck off with that. Women have to worry about the idea that their future husband will unload all the housework and emotional burdens onto them and do nothing about it to help them, they don't also have to worry about the possibility of them having to talk to other people in their husband's name as if they are mothers while the husband is a 3-year old toddler that is too shy to talk to people.
In fact I would say that they're not autistic, because at least autists are able to talk about their fixations for hours upon hours. These are just under socialized men (usually nerdy) larping as ones. Stolen valor smh.