Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

[TNF]

Had she never married, they would have just blamed her anyway saying Jack died for nothing.

Nah, they want Rose to be alone and being "true" to her love. Women in love stories aren't allowed to move on or try to make the best out of a situation.

 

[Lidl Drip]

Remember men think it's hilarious to lie to women and pretend to love them in order to get sex.

Remember the show "How I met your mother"? I always HATED that fucking show, every man in it was complete fucking ass and everyone seemed to love it. Especially the character Barney whose entire thing is that he makes up elaborate lies to trick women into sex with him. The way nobody saw an issue with that always pissed me off.

 

[New & Improved Username]

Hey what do you know? My moid of 18 years "mistakenly" opened and examined my bank statement (we keep separate accounts). I always suspected this might happen but I kind of thought he might possibly be honorable to not do it or at least not hold my feet to the fire if he did do it. It's been eighteen fucking years.

I earn my own money. He doesn't support me financially. NEVER RELAX.

 

[p0mm3rz]

Hey what do you know? My moid of 18 years "mistakenly" opened and examined my bank statement (we keep separate accounts). I always suspected this might happen but I kind of thought he might possibly be honorable to not do it or at least not hold my feet to the fire if he did do it. It's been eighteen fucking years.

I earn my own money. He doesn't support me financially. NEVER RELAX.

Are you going to let him get away with it?

 

[Kermit the Impaler]

Hey what do you know? My moid of 18 years "mistakenly" opened and examined my bank statement (we keep separate accounts). I always suspected this might happen but I kind of thought he might possibly be honorable to not do it or at least not hold my feet to the fire if he did do it. It's been eighteen fucking years.

I earn my own money. He doesn't support me financially. NEVER RELAX.

If you both agreed not to check each other's finances he's a complete dick. But you absolutely need to know what's going on with his finances to make sure he's not spenidng his money on porn, gambling, mistresses etc.

 

[Red flag]

or at least not hold my feet to the fire if he did do it

What does this mean? Did he actually mistakenly start lecturing you on your spending?

 

[armfleshween]

The worst part of the whole tranny debacle is how we have to pretend to give a fuck about men who felt bad about being men so they became women. Oh, you realized how awful women have it and you wanted to escape accountability and make our lives more dangerous because you felt bad? Kill yourself.

 

[Hubelublub]

Hey what do you know? My moid of 18 years "mistakenly" opened and examined my bank statement (we keep separate accounts). I always suspected this might happen but I kind of thought he might possibly be honorable to not do it or at least not hold my feet to the fire if he did do it. It's been eighteen fucking years.

I earn my own money. He doesn't support me financially. NEVER RELAX.

I'd be more worried about him calling it a mistake, than the act itself. Not saying the act isn't kind of shit, but the dishonesty is the real worry. Moids do lie, and liars are a fucking nightmare to team with.

 

[Kiwisee]

Nothing brings me more joy than knowing that this thread lives rent free in the Moid’s bald heads. I wouldn’t be surprised if they’re speeding up their balding just thinking about this entire board.

 

[New & Improved Username]

Are you going to let him get away with it?

18 years. I kind of have to but also I spent what I spent. It is my money.

Are you going to let him get away with it?

18 years. I kind of have to. It is surprising that he did it now when there's been nothing new or weird.

If you both agreed not to check each other's finances he's a complete dick. But you absolutely need to know what's going on with his finances to make sure he's not spenidng his money on porn, gambling, mistresses etc.

I don't check his shit. I don't care. He's glued to me 6.5 days/week. He can do whatever with his money. Just stay out of mine.

What does this mean? Did he actually mistakenly start lecturing you on your spending?

He lectured me after explaining how he mistakenly looked.

I'd be more worried about him calling it a mistake, than the act itself. Not saying the act isn't kind of shit, but the dishonesty is the real worry. Moids do lie, and liars are a fucking nightmare to team with.

I was always thinking this could or would happen. There is a finite amount of things he can lie about because he doesn't leave the house without me, as much as I wish he would. My only child is with a much worse man who I was with from age 16-31.

I'm so sick of the shit. I guess I'll see what happens but he asks me for 50% of every bill (which I give him) so what the fuck. If he wanted a divorce.....hooray?

 

[zhoparik]

18 years. I kind of have to but also I spent what I spent. It is my money.

18 years. I kind of have to. It is surprising that he did it now when there's been nothing new or weird.

I don't check his shit. I don't care. He's glued to me 6.5 days/week. He can do whatever with his money. Just stay out of mine.

He lectured me after explaining how he mistakenly looked.

I was always thinking this could or would happen. There is a finite amount of things he can lie about because he doesn't leave the house without me, as much as I wish he would. My only child is with a much worse man who I was with from age 16-31.

I'm so sick of the shit. I guess I'll see what happens but he asks me for 50% of every bill (which I give him) so what the fuck. If he wanted a divorce.....hooray?

What is going on here, the story got weirder the longer I read it. Is he disabled? If not, what is your reason for staying with useless parasite for so long?

 

[Hubelublub]

18 years. I kind of have to but also I spent what I spent. It is my money.

18 years. I kind of have to. It is surprising that he did it now when there's been nothing new or weird.

I don't check his shit. I don't care. He's glued to me 6.5 days/week. He can do whatever with his money. Just stay out of mine.

He lectured me after explaining how he mistakenly looked.

I was always thinking this could or would happen. There is a finite amount of things he can lie about because he doesn't leave the house without me, as much as I wish he would. My only child is with a much worse man who I was with from age 16-31.

I'm so sick of the shit. I guess I'll see what happens but he asks me for 50% of every bill (which I give him) so what the fuck. If he wanted a divorce.....hooray?

It's none of my business, but I really think you need to push back a bit. Men will get away with as much as they can, and if you make it easy for him, he'll continue to do so.

It's ok to be mad with him for this complete invasion of your privacy. You can't make him feel guilt or even regret (that will have to come from his own sense of morality and principles), so you have to focus on the best outlet for your own emotions. If you're pissed off with him, be pissed off. If you're infuriated enough (I think you should be) that you decide to open a PO Box or equivalent in your country, fucking do it.

If you're feeling "sick of this shit", its a sign you've been taking it without feeling empowered to do anything about it. You can't control him, but you can control how you feel about him, and how you act with him, and how much you trust him.

Don't "see what happens". It's your life. You get one go on this earth, don't spend it in the passenger seat.

 

[Aliénor]

At the very least, change your statements so you get them online only, and not delivered by mail. Privacy is a human right. You deserve to be at peace in your own home.

 

[MarvinTheParanoidAndroid]

And the lack of self awareness on these type of guys has always baffled me. They'll recognize younger men are trending right wing because the left vilify men and masculinity all the time. If you recognize that then why can't you understand that constantly saying "repeal the 19th" and constantly vilifying women and blaming them for all of societies problems isn't going to make them side with you?

It's because gay men are convincing straight men that women are the problem by posing as dating experts and gurus. I first noticed this when Naked Ape was still e-relevant and he very angrily started espousing alt-right trad wife talking points about "cock carousel" this and "roastie" that. Why does that gay faggot care if a demographic he has no interest in being involved with are being promiscuous? Because if he could make women look as awful and unappealing as possible, that frees up the men who pursue women for him. They really think that the only thing standing between them and a larger pool of men to fuck is women, and that any man would turn gay if it meant getting laid. So they go full misogynist and try to convince other men that women are all horrible, and part of how they do that is by giving the worst dating advice possible. This was something that was highlighted on MATI recently where a "Women taking Ls" X account was discovered to be ran by a gay man. It's only gaining ground because straight men are unaware that the source of these misogynist talking points is coming from gay men who want to buttfuck them.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

18 years. I kind of have to but also I spent what I spent. It is my money.

18 years. I kind of have to. It is surprising that he did it now when there's been nothing new or weird.

I don't check his shit. I don't care. He's glued to me 6.5 days/week. He can do whatever with his money. Just stay out of mine.

He lectured me after explaining how he mistakenly looked.

I was always thinking this could or would happen. There is a finite amount of things he can lie about because he doesn't leave the house without me, as much as I wish he would. My only child is with a much worse man who I was with from age 16-31.

I'm so sick of the shit. I guess I'll see what happens but he asks me for 50% of every bill (which I give him) so what the fuck. If he wanted a divorce.....hooray?

I'm going to take this out of the male-female thing, but I have so many questions. If you are in a relationship where it is agreed that your entire finances are separate and it is personal, private information, including any retirement planning, healthcare management, or obligation to fix the other's mistakes, then it is an absolute breach of that agreement to start poking into the other person's financial information.

You say you keep separate accounts. Have you discussed what that means? And that was a joint decision? Do you make roughly even?

If he says it was a mistake, then maybe it is (are you at different banks?). Do you think he's lying about that?

You said he lectured you after explaining it was a mistake. What did he lecture you about?

And how can you stand having someone glued to you 6.5/7? Or being with someone who doesn't leave the house alone? Why doesn't he have a life?

I get that 18 years is a long time, and if you were with someone else 16-31, you're over 50, and I get it can be scary to think of exiting a relationship at that age (I'm at that age). But if you're living on uncombined income and sharing bills, it's not like you're incapable or unused to making your own way.

If I were in your shoes, I'd be ruthlessly logical about whether it was possibly a mistake, pay attention to what he says about it, reexamine whether the agreements about things are crystal clear, evaluate whether that is what I really want, and do a deep think about whether my boundaries and what I accept in my relationship are as shored-up as they should be.

I'd also lock my shit down, run a detailed credit check/ get copies of all of my reports, look to see if he has technical access to anything else, change all my passwords, redirect my mail, and consider why I'm in this relationship (and what an objective outsider would say about my reasons and the terms of my relationship). The answer might be that all's well, but your reaction (and what you kind of said about his) suggests some level of lack of trust or lack of respect.

I don't know - there's a difference btw separate finances and "no information." In both cases opening your personal mail is a NO (and possibly a violation of law), but it may be worth examining any fuzziness in your respective expectations and clarifying those.

Do you know if he is solvent? Generally where he stands financially at all? Do you have any joint goals? What happens if one of you loses a job?

Now is the time for logic and clear thinking, not "it's been so long, I have no choice."

 

[Kiwisee]

It's because gay men are convincing straight men that women are the problem by posing as dating experts and gurus. I first noticed this when Naked Ape was still e-relevant and he very angrily started espousing alt-right trad wife talking points about "cock carousel" this and "roastie" that. Why does that gay faggot care if a demographic he has no interest in being involved with are being promiscuous? Because if he could make women look as awful and unappealing as possible, that frees up the men who pursue women for him. They really think that the only thing standing between them and a larger pool of men to fuck is women, and that any man would turn gay if it meant getting laid. So they go full misogynist and try to convince other men that women are all horrible, and part of how they do that is by giving the worst dating advice possible. This was something that was highlighted on MATI recently where a "Women taking Ls" X account was discovered to be ran by a gay man. It's only gaining ground because straight men are unaware that the source of these misogynist talking points is coming from gay men who want to buttfuck them.

This is exactly why I refer to incels and misogynists as “spiritual homosexuals”. They’re oblivious to the fact that they’re espousing the exact same talking points as gay men.

 

[MarvinTheParanoidAndroid]

Why do moids always assume male crimes/misbehavior are unsolvable? For example the concerns of deepfake used on children and women are often hand waved by them with a shrug of "Just don't post your photos on the internet. Can't stop the technology now", the classic "boys will be boys". Like, they don't even try.

This is something I've come to hate about A&H, the ever-growing passivity of criminal male behavior. I suspect part of the reason why this sentiment is growing is because the site is getting infested by Muslims who mistakenly believe they're in good company, it used to not be this bad.

 

[New & Improved Username]

I'm 49. We do use the same bank. We discuss finances with regard to saving for a new car, insurance cost (we are married so we don't have separate insurance) and 50/50 on bills. He is somewhat contrite at the moment but I know it will blow up again whenever he moidrages out.

There are a lot of factors here. Moids are always replaceable. I feel like I'm the life support system for vampires. The life of a lonely cat lady would be a dream.

 

[crazedaze]

This is something I've come to hate about A&H, the ever-growing passivity of criminal male behavior. I suspect part of the reason why this sentiment is growing is because the site is getting infested by Muslims who mistakenly believe they're in good company, it used to not be this bad.

And pajeets, whose news outlets run stories about how criminalizing marital rape would be "too harsh".
The dude "mistakenly" looked at yiur statements, you get mad at him, you look at him crazy, you say "do not ever look at my shit again and I don't want to hear your opinion on it, is that fucking clear SCROTE?" the fuckin nerve

 

[Inside your walls]

Glad women are waking up and agreeing that the "Mom couldn't have her moment" sludge content isn't
considered wholesome/heartwarming anymore. Nature is healing.

The worst part of the whole tranny debacle is how we have to pretend to give a fuck about men who felt bad about being men so they became women. Oh, you realized how awful women have it and you wanted to escape accountability and make our lives more dangerous because you felt bad? Kill yourself.

The other worst parts of tranny debacle (at least for me) is annoying manosphere/MRA/anti-woke types saying how the reason why young men troon out is because the current society is a feminized one that shames men, masculinity and loves reminding men of how bad they are because their male ancestors committed bad things, never mind the fact that most of MtF trannies will say the main reason they trooned out when it's not them experiencing trolls remorse for being an edgelord in 2016 or consuming porn, is because they felt intense anxiety being deemed as a "failed" man for being more effeminate/non-conforming and emotional/sensitive because they didn't feel exactly comfortable trying to be the stoic aggressively macho masculine man archetype that was imposed on them by previous generations of men.

The "Feminized society doesn't allow men to be men" is a very ironic echo because men of the past sure as hell didn't allow other men to be sensitive/empathetic or to be non-conforming, because otherwise they'd be called fags and get forced into a feminine role.