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Executive Petrel said:
Men drink to cope with emotions they don't want to feel. Start talking about your problems like women do.
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From my study placements the substance abuse is a coping mechanism. Usually related to trauma. The normal coping mechanisms aren't adequate. People put into good facilities have a possibility of getting themselves out of substance abuse. But once the safety net thats been put around them with various programs is pulled out, the next thing that goes wrong could push them back. Because they've been damaged before, their personal system has become fragile.
 
dvnc said:
I honestly only am able to become more extroverted when I drink. Normally I'm pretty quiet.
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That's not uncommon. But it means you should pay attention to your habits, as well as your choices. Not that they're wrong or going to be wrong, just that alcohol is a seductress who plays the long game.

Alcohol has a deserved reputation as a social lubricant. And frankly, being less inhibited is a good thing for many people - feeling free is great. And being able to have fun is fantastic. It's just - even if you don't have a highly addictive personality - it can become a crutch, over time.

MMS-China said:
From my study placements the substance abuse is a coping mechanism. Usually related to trauma. The normal coping mechanisms aren't adequate. People put into good facilities have a possibility of getting themselves out of substance abuse. But once the safety net thats been put around them with various programs is pulled out, the next thing that goes wrong could push them back. Because they've been damaged before, their personal system has become fragile.
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Also: mild-to-moderate drunkenness is fun. Tip beyond that and it sucks. And make a habit of it: it sucks.

Joking aside, sounds like you've done some clinical learning/observing. But the vast majority of people - with or without a "problem," are never in "good facilities.". Point being only that observations and perspectives about substances/people's relationships with them isn't fully understood by looking at the subset that winds up in programs/facilities.
 
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Friend of Dorothy Parker said:
Joking aside, sounds like you've done some clinical learning/observing. But the vast majority of people - with or without a "problem," are never in "good facilities.". Point being only that observations and perspectives about substances/people's relationships with them isn't fully understood by looking at the subset that winds up in programs/facilities.
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Yes, the person I was assigned with told me it's a lot of money for these private institutions. And even then. Did they get a good treating psych. How is their support network outside? How is there environment. There's a lot of factors out of control.

AmberHeardSupporter said:
when I was In high school I met A dude exactly like that who claimed to be a diehard slayer fan and when I asked him if he liked postmortem he said “what’s that”
like bro thats not even a deep cut

Yeah hetfield and co sold out but 2000s megadeth is still a treat imo. I think the System Jas Failed is one of their finest works
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At University I met a girl into Savantage? Is that the name? Anyway she was nuttier than a bag of almonds. Wanted to get into Trans social work. That was the first Metal fan I met.
 
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Dyn said:
Okay but what's your favourite pasta sauce to make at home? I make a mean alla putanesca.
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Carbonara, if I can get away with it. Though I want to try making something with lemon cream sauce and prawns at some point.

Italian isn't often on the menu, though. But I do like to explore.
 
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Twas misogyny that killed the beast *sigh*
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Sneedolf with your nose so bright, won't you guide my sleigh queen tonight?
 
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BULLY HUNTER_78 said:
Do the anime twinks you like to watch rail each other have balls or no balls?
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Depends, you have really hilariously bad yaoi like Level C where they don't even have genitalia period and just have weird glowing cones of light and shit. On the flip side you have shit like the Gravitation megamixes that are like hentai-level graphic and equally degenerate.

There's also shit like Zetsuai Bronze that's not really porn but people should watch anyway b/c it's basically the gay, animated version of The Room (i.e. baffling, hilariously, and iconically bad). Extra hilarious if you're a Gundam fan because the seiyuus of the main characters have also voiced notable Gundam twinks.
 
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How often do you guys and gals change out your bedding? While we're at it, how old is your mattress? Sadly I'm sure sweat and other fluids eventually reach it past whatever sheets are on the bed.
 
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seri0us said:
How often do you guys and gals change out your bedding? While we're at it, how old is your mattress? Sadly I'm sure sweat and other fluids eventually reach it past whatever sheets are on the bed.
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I clean my sheets every 2 weeks, about the same time I get gas.
 
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