I believe that the largest problem we face now is the loss of the nuclear family.
It is not tradcath propoganda where the wife is slave to the husband. It is the most natural arrangement of the family.
The importance is raising children who have both a mother and a father, have at least one other sibling, and not too many siblings such that the individual child does not get much attention.
We saw the consequences of too many kids with the baby boom, it well and truly kicked off sexual degeneracy since there was a huge influx of children with little parental attention.
There are also a huge amount of fatherless families in the US. This results in men who go on to be hedonistic coomers and women whose only learning of men is the perspective of her jaded mother.
To women, not having sex before marriage is not a tradcath meme. It is a proper litmus test for a man, as well as a failsafe against those broken families. If a man is a coomer who only wants you for sex, he will want sex as soon as possible, likely to the point of not being able to tolerate such a rule. A man who is not a coomer will be able to tolerate such a rule. As men raised under discipline and education from a well adjusted father usually do not turn out to be perverts.
Well adjusted men do exist and you can find them.
You will not reliably find them on the Internet.