Official Kiwifarms Incel Hate Thread

The issue with incels is that most of them are terminally online rageaholics who want society to change for them. If incels spent one day a week without a screen, they would quickly improve.
Someone needs to go over to the Incel forums and recruit someone (or multiple people) to do this experiment, they need to write down how they feel and what happens to them during the day at least (and maybe the entire week.)
 
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I remember a couple of years ago when I was working retail, some dumb, 13 year old pasty white boy with gopher teeth tried to hit on me, and he asked for "my snapchat" and I basically told him to get lost, and he said (I shit you not) "...WOW.. THE NPC MEME IS REAL"
These are the incel retards we are arguing with online. Kids. Dumb, impressionable, kids.
It is so sad. They need fathers to raise them better.
 
I dont get hate for incels they are just terminally online losers with a porn addiction. I find them gross but I dont have enough energy to put hate twoards them.
They wouldn't be so hateable if they kept to themselves.

The issue is that they spread their misery, say horrendous shit to and about women, obsess over the looks and behaviours of other men to a homosexual level, and attack other men who disagree with them in fashions reminiscent of high school Heathers. Then, when you throw shit back at them, they shrivel up and pretend they're wounded animals who deserve pity, behaving like the stereotypical Jew.

Incels are miserable, contemptible crybullies who justify their shitty existence by recruiting others.
 
Despite the fact that the word "gay" has now usually come to meant "faggot", that group is normally not very happy
Surely they would still be happier in each other's company. Incels hold so much hate for women, I'm starting to think that they only want to have sex with women because that's the default societal expectation for them.

I don't think you can be genuinely attracted to a certain sex AND think of them as absolutely repulsive and not deserving of human rights/decency. "Imagine the smell of a vagina" post on the first page stands out to me. Even in his imagination, vagina is abhorrent and smells of fish and rotten flesh. Yet he still wants to have sex with a "femoid". There's an interesting ambivalence to be found in the incel psyche.
 
I don't think you can be genuinely attracted to a certain sex AND think of them as absolutely repulsive and not deserving of human rights/decency. "Imagine the smell of a vagina" post on the first page stands out to me. Even in his imagination, vagina is abhorrent and smells of fish and rotten flesh. Yet he still wants to have sex with a "femoid". There's an interesting ambivalence to be found in the incel psyche.
Being obsessed with getting *any* attention from the very people you claim to hate most in the world must be it's own brand of Hell. I'd almost feel sorry for them if they weren't such disgusting pondslime.
 
Surely they would still be happier in each other's company. Incels hold so much hate for women, I'm starting to think that they only want to have sex with women because that's the default societal expectation for them.

I don't think you can be genuinely attracted to a certain sex AND think of them as absolutely repulsive and not deserving of human rights/decency. "Imagine the smell of a vagina" post on the first page stands out to me. Even in his imagination, vagina is abhorrent and smells of fish and rotten flesh. Yet he still wants to have sex with a "femoid". There's an interesting ambivalence to be found in the incel psyche.
There's a lot that are actual faggots, mainly those "become the girlfriend" types, but not all of them are like that. There are also sexually degenerated and transtorned individuals, at least those who post/posted the most on incels.is, but again, not all of them are like that.

I'm reminded of Tres Genco in particular, an incels.is user who planned to carry out a bombing on an Ohio university. The guy is in jail right now, but from what it can be read in his posts, he was an extremely maniatic and delusional individual who was too full of himself, thinking that he was some sort of great equalizer and judge of the world, a la Pekka Erik Auvinen, while also harassing couples, spraying them with water and/or orange juice mainly, and thinking of such an action as something empowering. The guy saw such violent acts as a form of retribution aganist those he thought were the cause of his failures, and used the incel train of thought as a "moral" justification for them. It's a chain of failure, bitterness, animosity, rationalization, and, ultimately, violence.

In thinking of women as beneath them, said posters feed and mend their broken egos, which is a sentiment who escalates to more radical and deranged beliefs the more time it is held, because their personal failures remain, and thus, their miserable state of being
 
Surely they would still be happier in each other's company. Incels hold so much hate for women, I'm starting to think that they only want to have sex with women because that's the default societal expectation for them.
Being obsessed with getting *any* attention from the very people you claim to hate most in the world must be it's own brand of Hell. I'd almost feel sorry for them if they weren't such disgusting pondslime.
I do not think that true incels, male or female, actually like the opposite sex. Disregarding gay men who hate women, lesbians who hate men, and troons - who have their own motivations - I don't think that incels want attention from the opposite sex. A lot of them do get attention from sympathetic people, only to reject it.

Toji's post below is far more accurate, in my opinion:
In thinking of women as beneath them, said posters feed and mend their broken egos, which is a sentiment who escalates to more radical and deranged beliefs the more time it is held, because their personal failures remain, and thus, their miserable state of being
Incels are deeply insecure people who direct their anger and fear towards the opposite sex. Without blogposting too much, I used to be like that when I was in my 20's (before "incel" was even a term). Once I got out of my own head and dealt with my personal insecurities head-on, my mental health and dating life improved dramatically. It took very little effort and all I changed about my life was the way I thought about social interactions.

Unfortunately, a lot of incels do not want help. They need their security blanket. Without it, they have to face themselves.
 
I've said it before, but the very idea of inceldom is stupid. They act like having a girlfriend will magically solve all their problems, even though it's just external validation, which means nothing if they don't have internal validation. They act like it's some big accomplishment, even though it's not. They need to find some other meaning in their lives aside from having sex and getting a girlfriend.
Having a girlfriend won't solve all their problems, but it would help immensely with one - self esteem; and a lot of other problems either directly derive from poor self esteem or at least are influenced by it.
Not being in a single romantic relationship in your teens has a major effect on your brain, you think to yourself - I am really that bad/unattractive/whatever else of a person? I don't know how women view it (probably in the same way as we do), but most men I know share the same opinion on teen love - there is no going back to it. Missing it takes a big hit on their mental well-being. You can never replicate that care-free, naive love for your high-school sweetheart that you think you will marry one day because she/he is the best person to ever appear in your life (in your opinion at that time). If you look at the demographics of incels.is, it's either men aged 15-18 going through that age period and feeling the lack of this type of love, or men in their early 20s who already missed out on it and are bitter about it.
That being said, most of them are mentalcels, and only a fraction are genetic freaks that really don't have any chance with women, unless said women are basically a big genetic failure as well. Ironically, a lot of incels have a lot in common with OF whores/women who sleep around. Young, naive, usually with mental health and self-esteem problems, who are taken advantage of, and a decent chunk of them are nice people who were just corrupted by the forces of evil. I'm disgusted by both (or all 3, if you want to be picky about it) groups, even though I do feel a little bit bad for them. That being said, most people grow out of these phases, but you don't have to accept their past even if they have changed.
 
I don't know how women view it (probably in the same way as we do), but most men I know share the same opinion on teen love - there is no going back to it. Missing it takes a big hit on their mental well-being. You can never replicate that care-free, naive love for your high-school sweetheart that you think you will marry one day because she/he is the best person to ever appear in your life (in your opinion at that time). I
I think this is mostly a thing incels believe because of movies where high school romance is portrayed in an idealistic way. Plus they just can't get over Stacy rejecting them. Dating in High School actually sucks cause teenagers (especially boys) are sociopathic little shits and the only thing to gain from it is experience in what to avoid in a guy going forward. Puberty + heartbreak is actually a horrible combination and from my memory it was just constant drama and girls being pressured into having sex they weren't ready for.
 
You can never replicate that care-free, naive love for your high-school sweetheart that you think you will marry one day because she/he is the best person to ever appear in your life
Incels think this because it’s when girls are the most vulnerable. They hate maturity because it means they have to deal with the fact that they’re woefully inadequate compared to others, and therefore have nothing going for them that would make anyone interested
“Naive” in this case is the operative word. Kids are fucking stupid. Once youre 18 you’ll look back and realize how dumb cliques, paying $5 for vodka shots, popularity, or friend groups breaking apart over android “green bubbles” were. It’s the same kind of glamorization that Japanese salarymen have, because their lives haven’t been enjoyable since high school so they see it as the peak.
Not being in a single romantic relationship in your teens has a major effect on your brain
No it doesn't. Another incel lie
you think to yourself - I am really that bad/unattractive/whatever else of a person?
Most teens don't even look at "love" as some checklist goal the way incels do
 
I think this is mostly a thing incels believe because of movies where high school romance is portrayed in an idealistic way. Plus they just can't get over Stacy rejecting them. Dating in High School actually sucks cause teenagers (especially boys) are sociopathic little shits and the only thing to gain from it is experience in what to avoid in a guy going forward. Puberty + heartbreak is actually a horrible combination and from my memory it was just constant drama and girls being pressured into having sex they weren't ready for.
I'm speaking from my own experience here, as well as few guys I know and I'm close enough with to share our experience with each other. I'm genuinely sorry if that's your experience, but mine despite few flaws in both my and her behavior was partly reminiscent of all that B class romantic movies, although definitely a bit different as I'm not a yankee, so no cheerleader-football player dynamic there lol. All jokes aside, I believe I made good effort to make my first partner comfortable, as I've delayed "the thing" on multiple occasions, and later on everything was pretty smooth as we both took "no" for an answer and both made effort to make sure if the other person is comfortable even if that person didn't communicate clearly that this wasn't the case. Honestly I wish every teenager, male or female, and adults too that healthy of a dynamic.
I definitely know what you're talking about - "sociopathic little shit" was a guy I knew, one of my female friends had a crush on him, I warned her and all, but she just couldn't accept the truth. Well, you know what happened next (although she later turned out to be a piece of shit as well, so I don't really feel sorry for her, but her experience helps me to understand your position). I knew a few fairly decent girls who got played/hurt by guys with bad rep, too. Never really understood how some women make such bad choices when every other guy clearly sees that this man is an awful candidate for a partner.
That being said, there was a lot of healthy relationships I was aware of as well - the nice (not "nice") guys I knew eventually all got a girlfriend, one is like 5 years already with his girl. This rhetoric that every man that age is evil by his very nature is just reversed incel-talk how "all women are whores". It's still a more grounded in reality take than "back in the day we just sent all useless men to war xoxo" (which is a wehraboo-level historical take), but still a very dumb argument.
Incels think this because it’s when girls are the most vulnerable. They hate maturity because it means they have to deal with the fact that they’re woefully inadequate compared to others, and therefore have nothing going for them that would make anyone interested
“Naive” in this case is the operative word. Kids are fucking stupid. Once youre 18 you’ll look back and realize how dumb cliques, paying $5 for vodka shots, popularity, or friend groups breaking apart over android “green bubbles” were.
No, both parties are vulnerable, immature, and not aware of their own worth as well as the negative sides of their respective partner. Stupid, naive, doesn't matter what word you will use. That's the point, it gives you enough experience to grow as a person. All the stuff you listed is just as important in the development of a person as teenage love is. You do stupid shit which at the time seems totally reasonable to you to learn, build character etc. Maybe aside from that "green bubbles thing, as it's an american thing that I can't really grasp.
No it doesn't. Another incel lie
Go on incels.is and see for yourself that half of the threads have at least one mention about missing out on teenage love, how they blame it on their shitty life and all that stuff; it doesn't have to be the reason, but you can definitely see it takes a big toll on their mental health, whether you feel pity, hatred or any other emotion towards them. Guys that decent fellows and never fell into that incel pipeline will also tell you the same thing, that they think of themselves as "lesser". Having no women be interested in you is no different than having no one talk to you (in a friendly manner).
Most teens don't even look at "love" as some checklist goal the way incels do
Because love is a normal thing like having friends, having a job etc. Normal people just reach that given goal without much trouble. Introverts, shy guys and girls, or just mostly freaks in this particular case struggle, have to "work on themselves" and all that bullshit to achieve that, which is generally why they tend to see it as a goal as opposed to normal occurence like regular people do. They realize they are not "normal"; all of them just react differently to it, some accept it and work on it, some embrace it, some people go nuts.
 
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