i figure since this conversation is somehow still going in late 2022, if you'd like some information, i'll provide it to you in a actually factual way, save you some time. being involved was cause for discussion, not being involved was cause for discussion, so why not? i'm afraid it can't be as brief as site ettiquette wants it to be. i know site users here have the attention span of a sparrow but if you want facts, you gotta spend a bit of time. lyra plushie has seemed very occupied with time, i'm sure a few more moments of reading couldn't hurt.
starters, i've not had any active involvement with the furry community since 2016. the fursuits you see on my previous social medias have all been sold in the 6 years since leaving, most of which beforehand. the grey husky sold in 2015, the corgi in 2016, i only own 3 cosplays currently which were self made in varying degrees of budget. a lot of the info being brought up here was already previously stated in earlier pages of the thread. i'm also aware the current hyena head does look like homer simpson and we laughed as much as you did :') i'd happily burn the thing on camera it cost so little to make and i have no attachment to it. i'm aware you will use the furry label anyway, i can't change that, so i'm content to accept that for what it is, i label myself correctly that's all that matters.
my facebook is public access and i'm also content with the information people find through it, none of which is problematic, all just basic history and basic information. i'm content with how i spend my money past and present. for the last 4 years, my bills get paid and my rent is still covered + 1 month in advance, my financial instability has ended for the most part (cost of living crisis be damned, everyone's gunna slip up somewhere this winter) and i learned a lot from it. a lot of these purchases are worked for through sale of previous items and commission, and i'm content with what they are and the value they've come to! why not mention the PS5 as well while we're tallying my costs? it was a labour of love and i am ecstatic to own it.
every health condition i've ever stated myself to have is genuine. it's a shame that idiots on tiktok have made one of them seem like a complete farce, i'm with you there, but it's genuine. it took a long time, it absolutely wasn't easy no, and wasn't exactly what i wanted to hear either. believe me or not, that's fine, my recovery is for no one else but myself. i'm on a several month long waiting list to start high intensity therapy for it and i'm taking every step possible to be the best version of myself i possibly can be.
my content is cringe, i'm aware, but i'm by no means a problematic person anymore, so i'm beyond the point of self degredation about it. my friends and i laugh at the stupid onyx forepaw stuff the same as anyone else, joke about being "X true honest official most bummiest sexiest # 1 fan" together, it's how my irls and i discovered new activity here in the first place, the only intent we ever have to return is to laugh and lament ourselves. i was a complete knob and too stubborn, too stupid to accept even the genuine constructive criticism between the death threats. i've made a lot of mistakes, i hold my hands up to it. it's all just a bit of fun and reflection now the lessons have been learned.
i don't believe doxxing somebody for being a furry 6 years ago and a cringe mean teenager 10 years ago is reasonable. i was a minor when i was genuinely nasty and problematic, and pulling up furry adjacent posts from 6+ years ago isn't an "aha, gotcha" moment, neither is public access information such as facebook and my city that's on all my social media (for the record, i do not know who Ryan is either, no affiliation). i don't know why the conversation is still going in 2022, but this'll be my last involvement. we're all grown ass adults now just paying our way and getting on with it. i know i can't stop you from screenshotting my cringe or mislabelling me, that's fine, i'm secure in myself enough to know that i'm unproblematic and being cringe is not a crime. KF users have brought down some genuinely problematic people, nonces, zoos, hell the recent jailing of chrischan for those crimes was fucking iconic and despite my thread here i still had major respect. i fall under no category that deems this thread suitable for active doxxing attempts.
it's been 10 years. there's no story here anymore. it had a good ending, i'm getting the right help and i've not been in a difficult situation for myself or for anyone else in several years. i've moved on, you're welcome to in your own time as well. be it tomorrow or 10 years from now, it's not my time you're wasting. take care
being told to get a job and not getting free merch for your latest obsession is not parental abuse.
