Peace Please?

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The Golden Knight said:
Did I *ever* mention pistol-whipping? I only did that one time to please Lisa, nothing more. It is not something I would do to another person on my own.
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Even just talking about the cattleprods, the important part is that a lot of this stuff involves the other person in a lot of pain. You've said that that's the part you get off. Remember, other people are real, and your desires don't come before theirs. Putting them through pain for your own satisfaction isn't acceptable. If they actually enjoy it, that's a different matter.

Also, seriously, do you have some sort of autism spectrum issue? Those often cause difficulty with empathy.
 
The Golden Knight said:
Back to sadism; whipping, electricity, minor venom with no allergies, biting, first-degree burning...All of these are minor enough that they heal in no more than a couple days and leave not even a single scar, never mind any grotesque "reminders".
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I don't understand how "minor venom" could be pleasurable to you or a partner.
 
The Golden Knight said:
Did I *ever* mention pistol-whipping? I only did that one time to please Lisa, nothing more. It is not something I would do to another person on my own.

Say, Mandy's Bro, what's your name?

And, thanks for the heads-up about making it. That's why my tech career is my Plan B. Also, management sounds great because something tells me I'm a natural leader (you should hear me give an "epic speech"). The hours are harsh, but that's where the big bucks and great glory are at!
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Earlier in this thread Saney (think it was Saney?) pointed out the pistol whipping and you told him you'd be gentle and slow as possible, or something to that affect. Apologies if you weren't speaking specifically about that, but that's how it came across.

And it doesn't change the fact that other things you fantasise about would cause serious harm.
 
As long as those fantasies stay in your head GK, that's fine. But I do hope that you aren't ever actually planning to do any of those things, because that's not how BDSM works at all.
 
Great pain should not be permanent damage. Imagining her pain is fun, but not anything "disturbing" or so I am trying to stay true to. Also, I'm sorry I did not add that I did not need to go to such extreme lengths. I can also be very slow and gentle, especially when I'm in a romantic mood. Sometimes (particularly when I'm depressed), all I want to do is cuddle. And I haven't even started with tickling!

I do not want to emotionally manipulate. If I'm going off the rails, she needs to say so or bonk me on the head. All I know is, BDSM does involve some measure of pain, and a "safe word" is the way of saying, "Seriously, stop NOW!" I know the basics, but it sounds like that's not enough.
 
Also: instead of making that comic, you should do something you genuinely like. Maybe a live action Golden Knight youtube series? Isn't that what you went to college for?

The problem is you don't have many friends in your area that you could make these videos with. It's much easier to get famous from doing something you love, because that means you'd put more effort into it. That's why I'm suggesting the group therapy coupled with individual sessions. You're socially inept from lack of interaction with other people other than your Mom, who isn't someone that you need to "impress"--this has lead to your problems getting along with other people even on the internet.

Seriously, how often do you go out of the house and interact with other people at parties/social events other than work and the occasional comic con?
 
honestly GK... you should keep your fetishes out of your work to...

Like most of us we all have our kinks... but I am sure as hell not going to talk about them in public.

Honestly if you want to improve yourself... take the advice of the fourm.
 
The Golden Knight said:
Great pain should not be permanent damage. Imagining her pain is fun, but not anything "disturbing" or so I am trying to stay true to. Also, I'm sorry I did not add that I did not need to go to such extreme lengths. I can also be very slow and gentle, especially when I'm in a romantic mood. Sometimes (particularly when I'm depressed), all I want to do is cuddle.

I do not want to emotionally manipulate. If I'm going off the rails, she needs to say so or bonk me on the head. All I know is, BDSM does involve some measure of pain, and a "safe word" is the way of saying, "Seriously, stop NOW!" I know the basics, but it sounds like that's not enough.
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Do you have choking fantasies?
 
The Golden Knight said:
When I speak of sadism, I mean in the S&M lifestyle; not so much the psychotic one (if life were a video game - it's not - then it would be epic and not disturbing). Sorry if there are actually two types of sadism, one of which I was formerly unaware of.
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Hi Jay! I understand people having kinks, my last partner had some of his own...Anyway! I'm curious. You speak of the S&M lifestyle, but:

1-) Have you ever attempted it or looked up to see if there's a club in the area?

2-) Have you ever caused pain on yourself to see if you'd really like it? I saw you spoke about stinging nettles...Those things hurt a lot. Have you stung yourself with them?

3-) Do you like the idea of inflicting the pain or receiving the pain?

Sorry for all the questions. : ( I'm just curious.
 
hurrhurrhurr said:
Also: instead of making that comic, you should do something you genuinely like. Maybe a live action Golden Knight youtube series? Isn't that what you went to college for?

The problem is you don't have many friends in your area that you could make these videos with. It's much easier to get famous from doing something you love, because that means you'd put more effort into it. That's why I'm suggesting the group therapy coupled with individual sessions. You're socially inept from lack of interaction with other people other than your Mom, who isn't someone that you need to "impress"--this has lead to your problems getting along with other people even on the internet.

Seriously, how often do you go out of the house and interact with other people at parties/social events other than work and the occasional comic con?
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That sounds like an epic plan! Now, if only I can budget the over 9000 dollars for my actual armor...And if I can get some crew on board.


And these days, I don't leave the house except mostly for work. Yeah, I got very comfy living under my rock.
 
jackopalkia said:
honestly GK... you should keep your fetishes out of your work to...

Like most of us we all have our kinks... but I am sure as hell not going to talk about them in public.

Honestly if you want to improve yourself... take the advice of the fourm.
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Adding to that, really inappropriate to give a six year old a foot fetish and sadism.
 
Venusaur said:
Hi Jay! I understand people having kinks, my last partner had some of his own...Anyway! I'm curious. You speak of the S&M lifestyle, but:

1-) Have you ever attempted it or looked up to see if there's a club in the area?

2-) Have you ever caused pain on yourself to see if you'd really like it? I saw you spoke about stinging nettles...Those things hurt a lot. Have you stung yourself with them?

3-) Do you like the idea of inflicting the pain or receiving the pain?

Sorry for all the questions. : ( I'm just curious.
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I love questions; no worries.

Sort of, about the clubs. For whatever reasoning, I never actually sought one out.

No, I have not. I do not like the thought of it being on me, which is why I find it enticing when it's on someone else.

Inflicting, not receiving.

Saney said:
Adding to that, really inappropriate to give a six year old a foot fetish and sadism.
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That's what I actually had as a six-year-old. It's a fact. I have vivid memories of literally reaching for both as a kid. It's how I learned about "personal space" "the hard way."
 
The Golden Knight said:
That sounds like an epic plan! Now, if only I can budget the over 9000 dollars for my actual armor...And if I can get some crew on board.


And these days, I don't leave the house except mostly for work. Yeah, I got very comfy living under my rock.
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Make a suit out of styrofoam and plastic like the cosplayers do. Get this epic suit of armor shit out of your head.
 
The Golden Knight said:
Great pain should not be permanent damage. Imagining her pain is fun, but not anything "disturbing" or so I am trying to stay true to. Also, I'm sorry I did not add that I did not need to go to such extreme lengths. I can also be very slow and gentle, especially when I'm in a romantic mood. Sometimes (particularly when I'm depressed), all I want to do is cuddle. And I haven't even started with tickling!

I do not want to emotionally manipulate. If I'm going off the rails, she needs to say so or bonk me on the head. All I know is, BDSM does involve some measure of pain, and a "safe word" is the way of saying, "Seriously, stop NOW!" I know the basics, but it sounds like that's not enough.
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But you have no concept of how great that pain would be.

EDIT: And in addition to that, based on how you answered Venasaur you wouldn't want that pain for yourself either. So why should anyone else allow you to inflict it? As Yawning Squirtle said earlier, unless you have first hand knowledge of how much something hurts you can't be trusted to dish it out to anyone else.
 
The Golden Knight said:
That sounds like an epic plan! Now, if only I can budget the over 9000 dollars for my actual armor...And if I can get some crew on board.


And these days, I don't leave the house except mostly for work. Yeah, I got very comfy living under my rock.
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Have you considered making some kind of costume of the armor? It would be a lot cheaper for going to a con. That, and body armor is heavy and hot. Not the kind you thing you want to be walking around a con all day in.
 
The Golden Knight said:
That sounds like an epic plan! Now, if only I can budget the over 9000 dollars for my actual armor...And if I can get some crew on board.


And these days, I don't leave the house except mostly for work. Yeah, I got very comfy living under my rock.
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Here's what you need:

You

Cardboard

Gold spray paint

Duct tape

Camera

BAM! Ready to promote your comic on youtube as you walk around the town in your makeshift FUN armor showing random people your comic and going on adventures.

Also you have autism
 
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