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The Golden Knight said:
By the way, I hope this picture says, "Not nice." I felt nothing about me says "timid" and "Abusive," wrong or not. Either way, I'm surprised I was expected to see this and think, "Hmm, these guys might want to help me become a better person. I'll surrender to their nasty words and be their bitch."View attachment 7871
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The Golden Knight said:
With that in mind, there is truth to this. That may be part of why I've encountered frustration; always swearing, "Where did I go wrong?" I thought I already was "Grappling with my feelings." Suffice it to say, inner bias is a very fuzzy lens.
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You're right self-perception can be fuzzy. Human nature makes us want to give ourselves the benefit of the doubt. The thing is when you're told by many different parties with different motives the same thing you may need to get over yourself and change these flaws. Nobody wants you to be their bitch but with so many telling you the same thing you may want to take their advice. No matter how much it hurts your feelings or whatever.

McRascal said:
I am already sensing that none of the harder questions will be answered.
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No doubt. Lip service at most but over a page seems to be overwhelming to the kid. Kind of odd sounding but maybe he's a shitty reader.
 
@The Golden Knight You know, you had your chance months ago to prevent all of this from happening. Remember when you came here the first time? Remember when you appeared to listen to all of the things we said were wrong? Remember when you promised you'd change? People had a lot of hope for you at that time. You didn't come in tard raging and threatening us, and you seemed sincere about working to become a better person. We didn't actually talk about you much (if at all) for a while. And then you revealed you never had any intention of changing at all. You expect everyone else to change to conform to your views and that's not how it works.

What you fail to truly acknowledge is that we're not making any of this shit up. All of those things we talk about, the things we tell you that piss you off? It's all stuff that you yourself have said or done. We may speculate about some things, but none of the stuff we talk about is made up. You deny it all because in your head everything you say and do is "epic", but coming from us, it sounds horrible and you can't stand it because you'd rather live in your fucked-up fantasy land then properly function in reality like the majority of people.

Remember, you had your chance to nip it in the bud earlier in the summer. You made the choice to keep doing what you've always done, and this is the consequence for your actions.
 
Jay, what is your opinion of homosexuality or homosexual marriage?
 
The Golden Knight said:
I hope most of this is all wrong. I'll mull it over with breakfast; and of course, my video awaits. See you in an hour!

By the way, I hope this picture says, "Not nice." I felt nothing about me says "timid" and "Abusive," wrong or not. Either way, I'm surprised I was expected to see this and think, "Hmm, these guys might want to help me become a better person. I'll surrender to their nasty words and be their bitch."View attachment 7871
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Oh Jay!

Firstly, only a subset of the users here contributed to that wiki. Most of your audience did not.

Secondly, even among those who did, I can almost guarantee that no-one wanted to make you their "bitch"!

If you change for the better by listening to the advice of the people here, it doesn't mean you've given in to nasty words. It means you've filtered out the nasty words and found the beneficial ones.
 
Seeing as how you drew a picture of you 'slaying' us, called us sub-human evil monsters with no lives, and treated honest and actual friends or followers on your DA like shit because of your Final Closure journal and others, just because people didn't agree with your immoral mindset, I'm afraid you cannot cast the first stone at us.
 
The Golden Knight said:
I hope most of this is all wrong. I'll mull it over with breakfast; and of course, my video awaits. See you in an hour!
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Good luck with that, I guess. I've got a question for you in the meantime though, bud. You are aware that documented knowledge of the objectionable stuff you've said and done up to this point won't be going anywhere, right? Absolute best case scenario, you straighten yourself out, do something like what I suggested with your DA page, go 'x' amount of time without doing anything else objectionable and this specific part of the forum might get moved off to spergatory where it won't have quite as much limelight as it does now.

The best thing you can hope for at this point is to show unequivocally that you've turned over a new leaf, but it's never, ever going to be reasonable to believe that the knowledge of your current reputation is ever going to go anywhere. Do you realize this?
 
DrChristianTroy said:
You're right self-perception can be fuzzy. Human nature makes us want to give ourselves the benefit of the doubt. The thing is when you're told by many different parties with different motives the same thing you may need to get over yourself and change these flaws. Nobody wants you to be their bitch but with so many telling you the same thing you may want to take their advice. No matter how much it hurts your feelings or whatever.


No doubt. Lip service at most but over a page seems to be overwhelming to the kid. Kind of odd sounding but maybe he's a shitty reader.
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Actually, I'm an impulsive reader with tight deadlines. Truth is, I don't know if I have autism, and I don't think I want to see a doctor about it. The root of our conflict has always been that I like me just the way I am.

Homosexuality is fine by me if that's what others want. I am strictly heterosexual, though.

Globe said:
Good luck with that, I guess. I've got a question for you in the meantime though, bud. You are aware that documented knowledge of the objectionable stuff you've said and done up to this point won't be going anywhere, right? Absolute best case scenario, you straighten yourself out, do something like what I suggested with your DA page, go 'x' amount of time without doing anything else objectionable and this specific part of the forum might get moved off to spergatory where it won't have quite as much limelight as it does now.

The best thing you can hope for at this point is to show unequivocally that you've turned over a new leaf, but it's never, ever going to be reasonable to believe that the knowledge of your current reputation is ever going to go anywhere. Do you realize this?
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And this I feel is a problem.
 
Deadlines? For what? If you want to make peace with us, show us that you actually care to negotiate with us and talk to us, not ignore what makes you uncomfortable, please.
 
Jay, I'm going to keep this brief.

The best thing that you can do is leave the internet permanently. I'd recommend deleting everything including your Deviantart account. Your presence online will only continue to be detrimental to yourself. Luckily for you, people on the internet have a short attention span. You'll be forgotten within a couple of months.

Also, I'd recommend psychotherapy. Please seek a psychologist for cognitive behavioral therapy. I'm also convinced that you have a personality disorder or autism. Both of those conditions are treatable, but you must seek help. Also, if you Google "sex-positive therapists" and your current location, you'll be able to find therapists who won't judge you for your paraphilic sexuality.
 
The Golden Knight said:
Actually, I'm an impulsive reader with tight deadlines. Truth is, I don't know if I have autism, and I don't think I want to see a doctor about it. The root of our conflict has always been that I like me just the way I am.

Homosexuality is fine by me if that's what others want. I am strictly heterosexual, though.



And this I feel is a problem.
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But, if you know what exactly is wrong with you, you can work on making yourself better. Atsimu isn't insurmountable, just something to overcome.
 
The Golden Knight said:
Actually, I'm an impulsive reader with tight deadlines. Truth is, I don't know if I have autism, and I don't think I want to see a doctor about it. The root of our conflict has always been that I like me just the way I am.
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Your untreated autism causes you problems. Seeing a doctor and getting a diagnosis and possibly treatment won't change "the way you are".

Look at it this way: you love your long hair, but you've accepted that you have to put it in a ponytail to go to work.

If you get help for your autism, you will still be the person you are now. You'll just learn what to do in certain situations to get on with people and benefit yourself. Just like putting the hair in a ponytail. At the end of the day, you can 'let down your hair' and be the real you.
 
McRascal said:
Seeing as how you drew a picture of you 'slaying' us, called us sub-human evil monsters with no lives, and treated honest and actual friends or followers on your DA like shit because of your Final Closure journal and others, just because people didn't agree with your immoral mindset, I'm afraid you cannot cast the first stone at us.
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This is actually a good point. Not for nothing but every time we tried to help @The Golden Knight before he always got pissy with us. What's to say it wont' happen again? I guess we're just a forgiving lot but I really doubt he'll take any of our advice. Shame because there's been a lot of gold in this thread.
 
Hello Jay, I was desperately sleep deprived when I sent you that message so I didn't get the chance to enjoy your arrival but I wish you a belated welcome. My big question is what did you think was the most likely outcome of going to war with the forums?
 
get-tar hero said:
Hello Jay, I was desperately sleep deprived when I sent you that message so I didn't get the chance to enjoy your arrival but I wish you a belated welcome. My big question is what did you think was the most likely outcome of going to war with the forums?
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Why would you summon a lolcow here? That's just fucking ween, man.
 
get-tar hero said:
Hello Jay, I was desperately sleep deprived when I sent you that message so I didn't get the chance to enjoy your arrival but I wish you a belated welcome. My big question is what did you think was the most likely outcome of going to war with the forums?
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Thank you, and let's just say the final outcome wouldn't have been apparent for years.

As for everyone else, the reason for the previous incidence was because I felt like everything was offensive and there was nothing to be found except insults and anger. Would you want to listen to someone if that person were to call you a "r-tard" every other sentence?
 
gukkahattu said:
Jay, do you have trouble with remembering people and recognising faces?
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He does not because he could immediately tell that this was his face photoshopped on Brad Pitt's bod.

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