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- Dec 16, 2019
i have seen literal abusive fathers who's kids react better than thisSo I may be power leveling here but whatever, I'm just saying why I have any authority to talk on this, but I also have a daughter, a few months younger than Cozy, I have held back because I only saw a couple interactions between Roxy and Ralph.
But after everything I've seen, it's pretty much like everyone has said, he has near zero POSITIVE interactions with his daughter. A baby doesn't need constant interaction with someone to attribute good feelings towards them, my kids grandparents see her once or twice a week, and even less than that her god parents maybe once every 2 weeks to a month. She still smiles when she sees them. Even mid cry seeing a familiar friendly face will make a baby happy, I mean except for a total meltdown, but Cozy was not in one.
With all that being said a baby typically is excited to see dad if they haven't in a few hours. Cozy cries harder just on sight. Meaning she either is frightened if him or dislikes him. Her immediately reaching for mom is telling, her melting down is even more so, her smiling when back in mom's arms is not manipulative, it's pure relief to be away from the man who probably shouts at her to "SHUT YER FUCKIN MOUTH AND STOP WHINING"
That part is clear because of his open criticism of pantsu consoling the baby instead of abandoning her in a crib alone in a room to cry for hours to teach a lesson to a baby that is at an age where they can't be taught such lessons.
This is one of the few cases where Cozy would be better in a single mother situation.
it means he has zero interactions with her at all, kids can certainly want mom sometimes and dad won't be a substitute but holy fuck you don't have to do much at all, just hold the kid now and then without hollering and they'll love you
it's doubly sad because Rozy and Ralph just want the same damn thing, attention, but Rozy is more mature about it