A bang average normie dude is still overwhelmingly likely to end up with a bang average lassie. The point is, the incel "x/10" scale is calibrated purely by first-pass physical attractiveness, and this is not the scale that normie lassies are using. A 5/10 looking lad is no fucking use to you, an average looking lassie, if he has the social skills of Ed Gein. If you can't bring him around your friends and family without them saying "christ, he's a fucking weirdo, he stares all the time, he has no banter, he stares down the girls' tops all the time, is he retarded? Does he have autism or something?" then he's fuck all use to you as a boyfriend, because you can't fucking take him anywhere. He kills your social life if the other boyfriends think he's a daft cunt and your friends think he's a joke. You need a lad who fits in. It's okay if he's quiet as long as he doesn't offend anyone and always gets his round in. But he needs to fit in. This is how young women are; this how they have always been and the idea that incels have that lassies would accept any old weirdo "back in the day" is fucking BS.
Being Not A Fucking Weirdo is more important to the legendary boyfriend-free girls than having a good jawline or whatever the current incel blackpill currently is. Also, have a fucking job and a car. Girls do not want to go out with a guy who is constantly broke and poncing money off them. Might not be very nice to say, and "waaahhhh unfair terribad feminazis" but actually no, they just don't. Very few dudes are good looking enough that your average lassie will ride the bus everywhere with them in the winter. Constantly paying for your dates gets old when there are other, uglier, but more agreeable dudes with more money who will pay for the Nando's on a Saturday night and even be able to afford somewhere to have sex with you.
Incels think a "5/10" guy is a guy who they consider to be 5/10 on looks alone. Girls are not selecting by this metric. "Lives with his mum" past his late teens takes about 4, 5 points off that straight off the bat. There are few uglier nests of lads than the average intake of a medical degree in the UK, and yet they will all find some kind of wife if they want one. Because that career halo and earning potential bring heavy points to the "x/10" rating for normie lassies.
When people say to incels "there's no point in improving your looks much, it won't really help" it's not to blackpill or patronise them. It's to try and fucking explain that the incels are trying to statmax the wrong fucking stats.
I used to think this; that I was just too picky. Then I encountered the women my friends were dating/fucking. Women who were the best catches they could find. They were often uglier than my friends, yet acted like they were God's gift to the fucking planet. If the relationship went sour, they'd immediately show their true colors, and try to cancel them irl. Many 'friends' have been corrupted and lost through this. We're at a point now where most of my brothers are not dating women because they're scared of what they could do to them, and I've taken the memo and drawn out my latest celibacy period indefinitely.
These women all came from dating apps. Now, you may say 'don't use dating apps hur dur', but do me a favor and try that. Seriously, try to find an irl date when literally everyone and their grandmother is using dating apps. Try to strike a convo at a bar, and get laid that way, in today's day and age. Try it, I dare you. The only long term relationship in my entire friend group involves the only girl in our circle. That's how dire the dating game is rn. Women have complete, utter tyrannical control over the dating game, because the companies making these apps are making them
for women. When you combine that with feminism and OnlyFans, female narcissism is at an all time high.
As the only non-straight in my circle, I have experience with homo dating apps like grindr. The difference is so night and day that it makes me hate women even more. I can get laid on grindr, or find a relationship,
within 30 minutes. I know I'm attractive, because as soon as I update my profile I'm getting 15 or so notifications and unsolicited dick pics. Yet if I go on tinder,
crickets. Why? Because I'm not 'daddy' age yet, and I'm as financially stable as the women I'm scrolling through. The only time I got messages on tinder was when I was a drug dealer.
In my time on/off with dating apps, I've only come across one girl that was normal.
ONE. I'm not talking about matches btw, I'm talking about profiles I've swiped.
Women are whores. Not because women are inherently bad, but because we've made life too easy for them.
Around 40% of the world lives by convenience first, now imagine how they'd act if they got everything handed to them on a silver platter. Women rn act like they're all trust fund babies. I'm terrified to see what actual trust fund babies act like these days.
The problem with incels is not that they're wrong, because they're very, very right. The problem is that they're pieces of shit to begin with. Men who also live by convenience first, but are smart enough to realize that the dating game is hopeless. However, instead of moving on, they can't ignore their dick. They then continue to try and find dates, while using their blackpills and the aforementioned life by convenience, as an excuse not to groom themselves.
