Plymouth shooting: Multiple fatalities in Keyham

Supermxn said:
they think they deserve the dream of their first time being with someone they love. ✂️ …For some reason, these grown adult virgins cannot move on from this stupid fantasy.
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Agree with this tidbit of what you said. These guys can’t get the fuck over their fantasy of a first fuck, that’s perfect, & it seems to haunt them for life.
Supermxn said:
There is a mental health crisis with young men. Whether they are being told that they are beautiful troons and just as much a lady as any normal woman, or they are good men and women are evil for not sucking their dicks, the internet creates hellish echo chambers which spill out to the rest of society.
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Much of this is spot on too. The internet being to blame, though, I don’t completely agree with. It’s part of it, but not THE one reason to rule them all. Like anything, it’s an individual mix of multiple factors. Likely even a large stake factor, however it’s certainly not the only one.
Berrakh said:
the counterpart of “meteor hits earth, women most affected” is “man shoots little girl, single mother to blame” because single motherhood does not actually explain mass murder. Pretending it does exculpates the actual murderer just like that.
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This is true. Yes, male role models of quality, especially ones exhibiting classically masculine (versus bullshit bitch boy) traits, are often missing from the picture in cases like these. As it’s the case, it’s true that this is not singularly the single mom’s fault. Blaming the mom is exhibit A in the non-mysterious case of an egotistical idiots desire to sound informative. As if mom’s can magic up all they need all the time. Anyone stating otherwise likely hasn’t thought that line of reasoning through to its logical end, or (also) has mommy issues the size of Mount Fuji.
(Eta: what is up with all the powerleveling ITT, today. I now know who is a drug dealing fag, who lost their V card at age XX, etc. Ain’t nobody want nor need that.)
 
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SneEyeMitch said:
On the surface it would like NPD but it would be more likely autism, narcs don't kill themselves they're more likely to use the threat of killing themselves as emotional manipulation.
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NPD causes severe depression, which, in turn, intensify delusions. So NPD minecrafting himself and others was due to the depression. Caused by NPD.
 
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Fastest Hand In The East said:
NPD causes severe depression, which, in turn, intensify delusions. So NPD minecrafting himself and others was due to the depression. Caused by NPD.
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So are those with Autism and those on the spectrum have problems with falling into extreme black and white thinking. But the biggest difference between the two is those with Autism will more likely kill themselves where as those with NPD use it for manipulation.

I should add you can have both NPD and Autism.
 
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So are those with Autism and those on the spectrum have problems with falling into extreme black and white thinking. But the biggest difference between the two is those with Autism will more likely kill themselves where as those with NPD use it for manipulation.

I should add you can have both NPD and Autism.
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True, but this "me me me" is the very definition of narcissism.
 
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Fastest Hand In The East said:
True, but this "me me me" is the very definition of narcissism.
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And autism, they have a problem with theory of mind
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Autism and Theory of Mind | The Autism Blog

Autism and Theory of MindWe often hear or read that those with autism lack “Theory of Mind” (ToM). What exactly does this mean? For the answer we went to our own Dr. Emily Rastall. Here’s what she told us.Theory of Mind (ToM) is defined as an understanding that others have minds that are differe ...
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Guido Mista said:
RE: Mental healthcare in the UK:

Quite simply, there is no mental healthcare.

Sadly, I predicted this would happen months ago. Literally wrote a paper on it.
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IMO I would say it exists if you have major issues like Schizophrenia or major learning disabilities, but does not if you happen to be borderline/undiagnosed. But I'm not really sure what the fix is - as I ended up feeling the "help" was more depressing than just learning to deal with it.

I mean tbf when it comes to depression or anxiety, I think some books are better than the "Therapy" you'll get on the NHS anyway. CBT does work but yes you have to be willing to put in the leg work to fix your shit rather than expecting pills or some magic formula to do the trick. In a best case scenario it might help pinpoint why you have the sadbrains and stabilize you (assuming the side effects are not worse than the original issue) but Therapy often just felt like a vent session with rarely much good advice on where to go from current position.

Mind's approach is a social media service for people who have anxiety issues, which turns out to be mostly people whining about how awful life is and then getting dinged by moderation for trigger terms anyway. Hard to have a happy positive space that helps people when the community entirely consists of people that struggle with that and then encourage each other to wallow in the misery pool with them.
 
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Incels are retarded and I strongly dislike them. I used to feel pity for them but now I just feel disgust.

I made a long post in the incel thread giving my shit take and trying to offer some advice but from the look of what some guys here are posting here it's a lost cause.

Groom yourself, don't act like a troglodyte, work out, learn to engage in basic conversation and most importantly don't be a weird cunt. That will allow you to pull a girl. If you can master these and you still can't then you're the problem, not society or women or whatever else.
 
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GooglePuppet said:
Dude. I've become an extremely angry and bitter person over the last two years, and I'm starting to notice women I interact with treat me differently. What the fuck is with that? It's like they want to romanticize my problems, but only when it's attractive to them.

I'm not your fucking property. Quit objectifying me.
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True story a few years ago i was at a dinner counter and i end up talking to this lat 30 woman who was divorced. she told me she didnt file her taxes.

Side note at this point in my life i was dealing with a loved on in the hospital and an employee taking money (I know she was but fuck it was hard to prove) So I was just FUCKING ANGRY.

So I get triggered and berate this poor woman about how she needs to file and just wipe with a 1 dollar bill and put in the envelope (I ve been raped by the tax collector..if you hant guessed)

You know what her response was to me just fucking going off on her was?

she was all "hey I live down the street you wanna come back to my place? I ll make you dinner."

I was like "THIS STUPID BITCH I JUST FUCKING ATE RIGHT INFRONT OF HER" later I realized what she was talking about.

Then a few weeks later I somehow ended up talking to a lady at target and for some stupid reason the fact she cant swim comes up to which I just fucking GO off. and her response to a stranger basically berating her. is

"oh well I grew up in a islamic house and wasnt allowed to do...alot of things, but hey do you want to teach me?"

the moral of the story when poorly socailized weirdo let the anger out is can be found attractive....by awful people who happen to be woman
 
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