You assume monogamy is the standard, not people bouncing between multiple partners. Be it "pump and dump" PUA men, or women who sleep around until they're 35 and then try to "settle" when the PUAs don't want them any more.
There seems to be a general belief that sex before 21 (or sex with a virgin woman) is somehow special, unique, and vastly superior.
i mean yes, some teenagers, quite a lot, go to parties and have sex. but the sex is usually shit and you’re still usually pining for the one person you’re actually teenage-in love with. like, about idk 3/10 people have a relationship then with someone they really like.
most other people have a few alrightish ones but generally you can’t stay jealous of a cute 15 year old couple when you are well into adulthood.
that’s his depression talking tho that’s why he thinks he won’t be able to feel anything as an adult.
the single mother chat up page is total bullshit tho.
i know loads of people with single mothers and no incel mass shooters.
also often single mothers provide a good example of strength compared to some shitheel dad who fucked off and give a well rounded example of the opposite sex to sons.
it’s all about socialisation- good mates, going to other people’s houses, but the bottom line is just not being lazy.
i actually know someone who would probably be an incel if he knew what one is- he thinks of himself as a feminist despite putting the moves on disgustingly hard when people say no. he doesn’t leave his house he’s a lazy cunt so he doesn’t know anyone, can’t keep a job, had to be bought out of his mams back bedroom at age 32 and provided a flat.
it’s literally about laziness. if he had been thrown out…he’d have had to pull it together.
but there was some nasty stuff happened in childhood and the mother didn’t want to push him too hard.
i would venture loads of them have very hands off parents who either ignore them or baby them.
