We do care about misgendering, people need to stop calling this man a woman. He's been seeing a gender therapist for over 4 years and never had any trans related procedures done or planned, which is like the only real reason trans people see gender therapists. The fact that there's been no distinguishable change in his behavior, his thinking, and his appearance WHILE with a gender therapist shows he isn't really thinking about transitioning, therefore not trans. I compare him to Buffalo Bill, just a disgusting human who hates himself so much he wants to be someone else.