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Come on guys it's not nice to dox without sharing :(
 
MetalParakeet said:
I'm surprised. Last I creeped, everyone defended him
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I'm guessing the "doxing and death threats" either came from here (not even necessarily active posters, KF has a lot of lurkers) or his posts got linked to MGTOW or a similar sub. Poly regulars are made of lukewarm soy milk and cuckold tears.

The internet will always remember you u/corwyn775 <3

MakeItRain said:
I also archived everything.

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MakeItRain said:
I'm guessing the "doxing and death threats" either came from here (not even necessarily active posters, KF has a lot of lurkers) or his posts got linked to MGTOW or a similar sub. Poly regulars are made of lukewarm soy tard cum and cuckold tears.

The internet will always remember you u/corwyn775 <3
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I just saw that his main supporter blames his wife for his sexsomnia because a wife shouldn't not fuck the dude whenever he wants.

Ah, it comes full circle
 
For real though why do you guys think we keep seeing the "whoever opens the marriage is the one who gets laid less often if at all" pattern?
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For me personally, I suspect it's that the one that opens it is actually the less attractive one. They probably think something like "I got THIS person, so I can probably do as well or better again!" but the more attractive one has had more experience dating and knows how difficult it is to find a comfortable match if only because they've had more opportunities than their partner.
 
NoReturn said:
For real though why do you guys think we keep seeing the "whoever opens the marriage is the one who gets laid less often if at all" pattern?
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For me personally, I suspect it's that the one that opens it is actually the less attractive one. They probably think something like "I got THIS person, so I can probably do as well or better again!" but the more attractive one has had more experience dating and knows how difficult it is to find a comfortable match if only because they've had more opportunities than their partner.
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I dunno about that. From what I've seen, they're all equally unattractive. Maybe it's because the one who opens the relationship seems to be the most desperate of the two, and desperation is unattractive
 
NoReturn said:
For real though why do you guys think we keep seeing the "whoever opens the marriage is the one who gets laid less often if at all" pattern?
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For me personally, I suspect it's that the one that opens it is actually the less attractive one. They probably think something like "I got THIS person, so I can probably do as well or better again!" but the more attractive one has had more experience dating and knows how difficult it is to find a comfortable match if only because they've had more opportunities than their partner.
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The one who opens it is the one who is already cheating and wants the cuck to agree to be a cuck.
 
NoReturn said:
For real though why do you guys think we keep seeing the "whoever opens the marriage is the one who gets laid less often if at all" pattern?
:thinking:
For me personally, I suspect it's that the one that opens it is actually the less attractive one. They probably think something like "I got THIS person, so I can probably do as well or better again!" but the more attractive one has had more experience dating and knows how difficult it is to find a comfortable match if only because they've had more opportunities than their partner.
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There's a good How I Met Your Mother episode which details the phenomenon of each relationship having a "reacher" and a "settler", in other words being that one is always much more attractive (or otherwise desirable) than the other. It also shows that reachers seldom accept that they are, in fact, the reacher, so I think that they're trying to convince themselves that they're the one that is settling, open it up, turns out they're shit and the other one was doing them a favour by staying with them and it all goes belly up from there.

It's also known as instant karma.
 
NoReturn said:
For real though why do you guys think we keep seeing the "whoever opens the marriage is the one who gets laid less often if at all" pattern?
:thinking:
For me personally, I suspect it's that the one that opens it is actually the less attractive one. They probably think something like "I got THIS person, so I can probably do as well or better again!" but the more attractive one has had more experience dating and knows how difficult it is to find a comfortable match if only because they've had more opportunities than their partner.
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Simple overconfidence, maybe? It seems like in a lot of these posts, the person who proposes the open relationship also has some preexisting idea of exactly how everything should go and what they expect their partner to do. It’s just that reality never lives up to that fantasy — either they’re not getting laid often enough, or their partner is getting laid too much, or their partner is picking the wrong kinds of people, etc. Meanwhile, the partner probably didn't really have any expectations, so they're just going with the flow.
 
Sperghetti said:
Simple overconfidence, maybe? It seems like in a lot of these posts, the person who proposes the open relationship also has some preexisting idea of exactly how everything should go and what they expect their partner to do. It’s just that reality never lives up to that fantasy — either they’re not getting laid often enough, or their partner is getting laid too much, or their partner is picking the wrong kinds of people, etc. Meanwhile, the partner probably didn't really have any expectations, so they're just going with the flow.
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Even if it's just a fantasy, it means you don't love your partner IMHO.
 
I believe the reason the partner that begrudgingly goes along with the polyamory has an easier time getting play, because, by default they aren't the most narcissistic one. it's easier to get laid if you have a decent personality and aren't some grating cow who thrives on validation.
 
tiggles said:
Since we’re already comparing degenerates, swingers frequently refuse to fuck around with poly couples. It’s always a bad time. Swinger couples just get drunk together and go to orgies on Saturday, then move the fuck on with their lives once the hangover wears off come Monday. Polys are a guaranteed dramafest of jealousy and mental illness. See r/polyamory in a nutshell.

On the other hand, oftentimes poly people don’t want to mess with swingers because swingers are too slutty - plus poly women are usually fat with poor self esteem so they don’t want to be around women who maintain themselves properly.
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House of Cards in a nutshell. Two confident, experienced, married people who sleep around and just smirk slightly at it and move on. That's the kind of people who can fuck around in an open relationship; those who've tried it all and know love from lust. Who don't know this? Fat fucks who only ever put their dick in one unidentifiable fold and get addicted to the the nut, thinking it's love.

I saw some EDM festival documentary ages ago, and it had the most frattest of frat bros, 3-4 of them, marry 2 chicks. Clearly not because they fuck so much they might as well make it their one purpose in life, surely no one will regret it. It's hilarious how cucking and being "open" was meant to be the smart man's fetish, yet ends up attracting neckbeards in trip pants.
 
Cactus Wings said:
It's hilarious how cucking and being "open" was meant to be the smart man's fetish, yet ends up attracting neckbeards in trip pants.
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Because who the fuck wants to share their partner? Only neckbeards, soyboys and sluts, and all of those make for awful romance.
 
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