r/polyamory

At least those guys have no pretense about it being anything but a fetish thing. When committing yourself to just one person can be such a huge struggle already, it's bizarre to think that introducing more people into the mix wouldn't take a huge toll on you.

I've said it many times but this is the part that I think drives me up the wall with the poly degenerates. Swingers aren't trying to make it into something special or socially responsible. They're out there to pick up ass and have fun. They aren't taking Tyrone home and making him and the cucksband share dinner time together and talk about their respective day. Relationships take work and you've got emotionally stunted people pretending they can maintain their "primary" one while introducing a random cavalcade or other weirdos into the mix on the regular. And god help the ones who were selfish enough to bring kids into the mix.

Meanwhile you've got polys that are secretly ashamed of their lifestyle so they have to dress it up in made up words that make no etymological sense and write academic papers about how what they're doing is actually quite normal and responsible and right and how dare you say otherwise and oh god, we're so oppressed by society. It's just blatant attention-whoring and emblematic of clown world because everyone has to be special and aberrant behaviour is not only encouraged but flaunted.
 
It's just blatant attention-whoring and emblematic of clown world because everyone has to be special and aberrant behaviour is not only encouraged but flaunted.

Degenerates were better when they weren't completely insufferable fucks acting like their degenerate fetishes were somehow morally superior to normalcy.
 
Literal sexual deviant at risk of raping his children in his sleep gets cucked by a broke senior citizen, wife with severe health issues who is openly using him for health insurance gets intentionally knocked up despite 50/50 chance of pregnancy ending in death. Casually drops info that she is now about to die in childbirth while bitching about feeling judged by the LGBT community for being polyamorous.

I grabbed some highlights but his posting history is a fuckin doozy.

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Holy fuck, dude. If this is 100% legit then this is on the level of goddamn Greek tragedy, with our hero's fatal flaw being that he cannot function as a normal human being for the utter life of him.
 
Literal sexual deviant at risk of raping his children in his sleep gets cucked by a broke senior citizen, wife with severe health issues who is openly using him for health insurance gets intentionally knocked up despite 50/50 chance of pregnancy ending in death. Casually drops info that she is now about to die in childbirth while bitching about feeling judged by the LGBT community for being polyamorous.

I grabbed some highlights but his posting history is a fuckin doozy.

I wonder how this guy actually got over his sex addiction as it suddenly seems to stop being a problem outside the fact he sleep-humps anything near him as a result. I don't entirely buy the long-suffering husband who wants to see his wife happy story he's trying to spin here and I bet his wife has stories for yonks about this guys affairs before

I imagine wife was still banging him purely because she knew he was a nightmare when thirsty and it keeps the house in order. Also sleeping with a poor man tends to be a exotic romantic fantasy - which missus can live out because husband has too many closet skellingtons she might dig out otherwise.

The pregnancy thing is weird though as the third kid was pretty recent too apparently. Wife might just be keen on having a baby with the guy she actually wanted all along, but also feels a bit suicidal? Like she believes death by childbirth is about the only way she's escaping the sex-addicted loser she married.
 
Out of all the things that didn't happen, the ones listed in this nigga's posts happened the least.

I can believe the part about him being an uncontrollable horndog, but he probably had Rosey Palms help him every time he needed some. You're telling me this sexual Hurricane Katrina has a steady stream of pussy on tap? A stream so steady he can dip into it and grab a quick pussy on a lunch break?

This nigga living in a pussy orchard just strolling through the trees picking ripe pussy whenever he feels like it? Like he's at work on day and he gets a chub and thinks "My, I sure do fancy some strange right about now" and he just reaches his hand out and plucks a fresh pussy off the tree and goes to town on it.

I'd be more inclined to believe it of he said "I have an uncontrollable addiction to rape" or "I literally cannot stop fucking kids" since that's the norm on Reddit and the only way they can get so much sex is through rape or coercion.

Either that or he lives in a trailer park packed to the brim with constantly horny crack sluts who live for the pipe and for the other pipe, and he had them all on speed dial like a really shitty Pizza Hut. "Hello, Crack-hut, can I getcha order?" Yeah gimme uuuuhhhhh... Fuckin... Toothless 19 year old dropout with headlice and with uh... Extra cigarette burns. Yeah i'll have some wings, too.

It was a fun read, though. Best work of fiction.
 
This nigga living in a pussy orchard just strolling through the trees picking ripe pussy whenever he feels like it? Like he's at work on day and he gets a chub and thinks "My, I sure do fancy some strange right about now" and he just reaches his hand out and plucks a fresh pussy off the tree and goes to town on it.
I mean, he could just have the escort service on speed dial.
 
The pregnancy thing is weird though as the third kid was pretty recent too apparently. Wife might just be keen on having a baby with the guy she actually wanted all along, but also feels a bit suicidal? Like she believes death by childbirth is about the only way she's escaping the sex-addicted loser she married.
Suicide by pregnancy. Good god, that’s the kind of batshit lunacy that could only come out of r/polyamory and I love it.
 
Out of all the things that didn't happen, the ones listed in this nigga's posts happened the least.

I can believe the part about him being an uncontrollable horndog, but he probably had Rosey Palms help him every time he needed some. You're telling me this sexual Hurricane Katrina has a steady stream of pussy on tap? A stream so steady he can dip into it and grab a quick pussy on a lunch break?

This nigga living in a pussy orchard just strolling through the trees picking ripe pussy whenever he feels like it? Like he's at work on day and he gets a chub and thinks "My, I sure do fancy some strange right about now" and he just reaches his hand out and plucks a fresh pussy off the tree and goes to town on it.

I'd be more inclined to believe it of he said "I have an uncontrollable addiction to rape" or "I literally cannot stop fucking kids" since that's the norm on Reddit and the only way they can get so much sex is through rape or coercion.

Either that or he lives in a trailer park packed to the brim with constantly horny crack sluts who live for the pipe and for the other pipe, and he had them all on speed dial like a really shitty Pizza Hut. "Hello, Crack-hut, can I getcha order?" Yeah gimme uuuuhhhhh... Fuckin... Toothless 19 year old dropout with headlice and with uh... Extra cigarette burns. Yeah i'll have some wings, too.

It was a fun read, though. Best work of fiction.

That is exactly what I thought. Calling bullshit on him having banged all those women he knows like preachers daughters, his graduate advisor's daughter and wife (how the hell would he have even met them?) and the others.
 
Yeah that guy is lying. Doctors don't say "you're unlikely to survive delivery" because of vague handwavy "conditions." They can get women back from cardiac arrest in childbirth, they can deliver babies to cancer patients and kidney transplant patients, it ain't over til it's over these days.
I think the only women who have a significant risk of dying in childbirth are obese midgets.
 
I mean, he could just have the escort service on speed dial.
you'd have to be a literal millionaire in order to hire escorts on a literal daily basis, and you wouldn't remain a millionaire for very long. those girls are really fucking expensive.
even regular prostitutes (who operate illegally as opposed to the technically legal escort girls) are still pretty pricey, and frequenting them on such a regular basis would easily bankrupt most men unless they went for the absolute bottom of the barrel amd fuck homeless meth whores lol
 
Swingers aren't trying to make it into something special or socially responsible. They're out there to pick up ass and have fun. They aren't taking Tyrone home and making him and the cucksband share dinner time together and talk about their respective day.

Since we’re already comparing degenerates, swingers frequently refuse to fuck around with poly couples. It’s always a bad time. Swinger couples just get drunk together and go to orgies on Saturday, then move the fuck on with their lives once the hangover wears off come Monday. Polys are a guaranteed dramafest of jealousy and mental illness. See r/polyamory in a nutshell.

On the other hand, oftentimes poly people don’t want to mess with swingers because swingers are too slutty - plus poly women are usually fat with poor self esteem so they don’t want to be around women who maintain themselves properly.
 
Stepping outside of Reddit for a moment, this has been popping up on my twitter feed a lot today.

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A polyamorous woman has fallen pregnant by one of her four partners after they went away together - but says they will raise the baby as a 'family'.

Tory Ojeda, 20, from Jacksonville, Florida, met one of her partners Marc, 18, in high school and then started a relationship with Travis, 23, two months later.

Their love story began three years ago and she has since announced her engagement to Travis in July.

She also found love with their long-term mutual friends Ethan, 22, and Christopher, 22. While seven months ago, Tory and Chris found out that they were pregnant with a baby girl.

Despite being in an open relationship, Tory is currently the only one who has multiple romantic partners.

However she says that her boyfriends are 'welcome' to pursue other people if they wish to - she even encourages the idea. Tory said: 'Honestly, I would love it if somebody found a second partner.

'Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it's kind of difficult.

'I'd like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.'

They all have their own bedrooms but her partners 'swap in and out' of her bed each night, making sure each of them gets an 'equal turn' in spending the night with Tory.

On the issue of jealousy, Ethan said: 'There are a couple of healthy ways to deal with it. Primarily just talking to each other.'

Travis added: 'There's always going to be like little moments of jealousy, it does take a certain amount of restraint and just getting relaxed. I will say it helps if you know the person.'

Reflecting on his own experiences in his current relationship, he said: 'Seeing [Tory] with Ethan was a lot easier because I was friends with him.

'Her and Chris was a bit dicier at first, there was a lot more jealousy and I'll openly admit that. The same goes for Marc because I'd never interacted with them.'

Seven months ago, Tory found out that she was pregnant with a baby girl who they will welcome into their unconventional family in February.


'Chris is the biological father. We just know that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was,' Tory explained.

'Based off of the approximate conception day, we had been on vacation. So it was only us.

'But as far as I guess, socially goes, we're all raising the baby together, so everyone's dad.

'We're all very, very excited to be raising a baby together.'

When asked how he feels about sharing the responsibilities of being a father, Christopher said: 'It's definitely a little interesting.

'I grew up with the idea of you know, one dad, one mum. But there is a lot of support between all of us dads and it's something we can tag team.

'We always joke about the idea of getting stack in an endless loop of go ask your dad.'

Despite their enthusiasm to raise a child as a five, some members of their respective families are yet to come around to their relationship and to the pregnancy news.

Tory said: 'Most of my friends know all my partners and they love us and think that we're cute and such. My family is kind of quiet about their disapproval. Polyamory is definitely an uncommon thing.

'A lot of people have grown up in monogamy culture of, you don't really love someone if you have eyes for somebody else.'

Christopher added: 'My family is slowly coming around to the idea. The pregnancy has helped with that. But at the very beginning, I know my mother and father were hesitant about it.

'Her main concern was that she didn't like the idea of me having a partner who was not fulfilled with me alone.'

However Ethan's family are 'very active' in their support, along with Tory's older brother, Alistair.

Alistair said: 'I will admit that since I'm her older brother, that I just have that tendency I suppose to be protective.

'I'm more so concerned that she's happy, that she is in a relationship where they both love each other mutually or in this case more people love each other mutually.

'I don't see anything wrong with Tory's relationship.'

After having to overcome judgement in public spaces, Tory hopes that she will eventually see more acceptance of polyamory in wider society. 'We definitely get weird looks,' she said.

'I've had people just say rude comments when we've just been hanging out at a fast food place. I've been called a hoe more than once.

'Maybe in our future, we might see it become a common thing where people don't bat an eye on it anymore at all. One can hope.'

But for now, they are focused on their relationship and their future as a five. We would definitely like to have more kids down the line.

'With there being five adults in the household, we should probably have more than one kid.'

Full Article

There's also an 8-minute video embedded in the article that's really worth watching if you want some insight in what sort of people are interested in polyamory and how they justify it.
 
Stepping outside of Reddit for a moment, this has been popping up on my twitter feed a lot today.

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A polyamorous woman has fallen pregnant by one of her four partners after they went away together - but says they will raise the baby as a 'family'.

Tory Ojeda, 20, from Jacksonville, Florida, met one of her partners Marc, 18, in high school and then started a relationship with Travis, 23, two months later.

Their love story began three years ago and she has since announced her engagement to Travis in July.

She also found love with their long-term mutual friends Ethan, 22, and Christopher, 22. While seven months ago, Tory and Chris found out that they were pregnant with a baby girl.

Despite being in an open relationship, Tory is currently the only one who has multiple romantic partners.

However she says that her boyfriends are 'welcome' to pursue other people if they wish to - she even encourages the idea. Tory said: 'Honestly, I would love it if somebody found a second partner.

'Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it's kind of difficult.

'I'd like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.'

They all have their own bedrooms but her partners 'swap in and out' of her bed each night, making sure each of them gets an 'equal turn' in spending the night with Tory.

On the issue of jealousy, Ethan said: 'There are a couple of healthy ways to deal with it. Primarily just talking to each other.'

Travis added: 'There's always going to be like little moments of jealousy, it does take a certain amount of restraint and just getting relaxed. I will say it helps if you know the person.'

Reflecting on his own experiences in his current relationship, he said: 'Seeing [Tory] with Ethan was a lot easier because I was friends with him.

'Her and Chris was a bit dicier at first, there was a lot more jealousy and I'll openly admit that. The same goes for Marc because I'd never interacted with them.'

Seven months ago, Tory found out that she was pregnant with a baby girl who they will welcome into their unconventional family in February.


'Chris is the biological father. We just know that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was,' Tory explained.

'Based off of the approximate conception day, we had been on vacation. So it was only us.

'But as far as I guess, socially goes, we're all raising the baby together, so everyone's dad.

'We're all very, very excited to be raising a baby together.'

When asked how he feels about sharing the responsibilities of being a father, Christopher said: 'It's definitely a little interesting.

'I grew up with the idea of you know, one dad, one mum. But there is a lot of support between all of us dads and it's something we can tag team.

'We always joke about the idea of getting stack in an endless loop of go ask your dad.'

Despite their enthusiasm to raise a child as a five, some members of their respective families are yet to come around to their relationship and to the pregnancy news.

Tory said: 'Most of my friends know all my partners and they love us and think that we're cute and such. My family is kind of quiet about their disapproval. Polyamory is definitely an uncommon thing.

'A lot of people have grown up in monogamy culture of, you don't really love someone if you have eyes for somebody else.'

Christopher added: 'My family is slowly coming around to the idea. The pregnancy has helped with that. But at the very beginning, I know my mother and father were hesitant about it.

'Her main concern was that she didn't like the idea of me having a partner who was not fulfilled with me alone.'

However Ethan's family are 'very active' in their support, along with Tory's older brother, Alistair.

Alistair said: 'I will admit that since I'm her older brother, that I just have that tendency I suppose to be protective.

'I'm more so concerned that she's happy, that she is in a relationship where they both love each other mutually or in this case more people love each other mutually.

'I don't see anything wrong with Tory's relationship.'

After having to overcome judgement in public spaces, Tory hopes that she will eventually see more acceptance of polyamory in wider society. 'We definitely get weird looks,' she said.

'I've had people just say rude comments when we've just been hanging out at a fast food place. I've been called a hoe more than once.

'Maybe in our future, we might see it become a common thing where people don't bat an eye on it anymore at all. One can hope.'

But for now, they are focused on their relationship and their future as a five. We would definitely like to have more kids down the line.

'With there being five adults in the household, we should probably have more than one kid.'

Full Article

There's also an 8-minute video embedded in the article that's really worth watching if you want some insight in what sort of people are interested in polyamory and how they justify it.
That kid is going to live a life of pain
 
Stepping outside of Reddit for a moment, this has been popping up on my twitter feed a lot today.

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A polyamorous woman has fallen pregnant by one of her four partners after they went away together - but says they will raise the baby as a 'family'.

Tory Ojeda, 20, from Jacksonville, Florida, met one of her partners Marc, 18, in high school and then started a relationship with Travis, 23, two months later.

Their love story began three years ago and she has since announced her engagement to Travis in July.

She also found love with their long-term mutual friends Ethan, 22, and Christopher, 22. While seven months ago, Tory and Chris found out that they were pregnant with a baby girl.

Despite being in an open relationship, Tory is currently the only one who has multiple romantic partners.

However she says that her boyfriends are 'welcome' to pursue other people if they wish to - she even encourages the idea. Tory said: 'Honestly, I would love it if somebody found a second partner.

'Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it's kind of difficult.

'I'd like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.'

They all have their own bedrooms but her partners 'swap in and out' of her bed each night, making sure each of them gets an 'equal turn' in spending the night with Tory.

On the issue of jealousy, Ethan said: 'There are a couple of healthy ways to deal with it. Primarily just talking to each other.'

Travis added: 'There's always going to be like little moments of jealousy, it does take a certain amount of restraint and just getting relaxed. I will say it helps if you know the person.'

Reflecting on his own experiences in his current relationship, he said: 'Seeing [Tory] with Ethan was a lot easier because I was friends with him.

'Her and Chris was a bit dicier at first, there was a lot more jealousy and I'll openly admit that. The same goes for Marc because I'd never interacted with them.'

Seven months ago, Tory found out that she was pregnant with a baby girl who they will welcome into their unconventional family in February.


'Chris is the biological father. We just know that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was,' Tory explained.

'Based off of the approximate conception day, we had been on vacation. So it was only us.

'But as far as I guess, socially goes, we're all raising the baby together, so everyone's dad.

'We're all very, very excited to be raising a baby together.'

When asked how he feels about sharing the responsibilities of being a father, Christopher said: 'It's definitely a little interesting.

'I grew up with the idea of you know, one dad, one mum. But there is a lot of support between all of us dads and it's something we can tag team.

'We always joke about the idea of getting stack in an endless loop of go ask your dad.'

Despite their enthusiasm to raise a child as a five, some members of their respective families are yet to come around to their relationship and to the pregnancy news.

Tory said: 'Most of my friends know all my partners and they love us and think that we're cute and such. My family is kind of quiet about their disapproval. Polyamory is definitely an uncommon thing.

'A lot of people have grown up in monogamy culture of, you don't really love someone if you have eyes for somebody else.'

Christopher added: 'My family is slowly coming around to the idea. The pregnancy has helped with that. But at the very beginning, I know my mother and father were hesitant about it.

'Her main concern was that she didn't like the idea of me having a partner who was not fulfilled with me alone.'

However Ethan's family are 'very active' in their support, along with Tory's older brother, Alistair.

Alistair said: 'I will admit that since I'm her older brother, that I just have that tendency I suppose to be protective.

'I'm more so concerned that she's happy, that she is in a relationship where they both love each other mutually or in this case more people love each other mutually.

'I don't see anything wrong with Tory's relationship.'

After having to overcome judgement in public spaces, Tory hopes that she will eventually see more acceptance of polyamory in wider society. 'We definitely get weird looks,' she said.

'I've had people just say rude comments when we've just been hanging out at a fast food place. I've been called a hoe more than once.

'Maybe in our future, we might see it become a common thing where people don't bat an eye on it anymore at all. One can hope.'

But for now, they are focused on their relationship and their future as a five. We would definitely like to have more kids down the line.

'With there being five adults in the household, we should probably have more than one kid.'

Full Article

There's also an 8-minute video embedded in the article that's really worth watching if you want some insight in what sort of people are interested in polyamory and how they justify it.
They look all like I'd expect them to look.
 
Stepping outside of Reddit for a moment, this has been popping up on my twitter feed a lot today.

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A polyamorous woman has fallen pregnant by one of her four partners after they went away together - but says they will raise the baby as a 'family'.

Tory Ojeda, 20, from Jacksonville, Florida, met one of her partners Marc, 18, in high school and then started a relationship with Travis, 23, two months later.

Their love story began three years ago and she has since announced her engagement to Travis in July.

She also found love with their long-term mutual friends Ethan, 22, and Christopher, 22. While seven months ago, Tory and Chris found out that they were pregnant with a baby girl.

Despite being in an open relationship, Tory is currently the only one who has multiple romantic partners.

However she says that her boyfriends are 'welcome' to pursue other people if they wish to - she even encourages the idea. Tory said: 'Honestly, I would love it if somebody found a second partner.

'Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it's kind of difficult.

'I'd like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.'

They all have their own bedrooms but her partners 'swap in and out' of her bed each night, making sure each of them gets an 'equal turn' in spending the night with Tory.

On the issue of jealousy, Ethan said: 'There are a couple of healthy ways to deal with it. Primarily just talking to each other.'

Travis added: 'There's always going to be like little moments of jealousy, it does take a certain amount of restraint and just getting relaxed. I will say it helps if you know the person.'

Reflecting on his own experiences in his current relationship, he said: 'Seeing [Tory] with Ethan was a lot easier because I was friends with him.

'Her and Chris was a bit dicier at first, there was a lot more jealousy and I'll openly admit that. The same goes for Marc because I'd never interacted with them.'

Seven months ago, Tory found out that she was pregnant with a baby girl who they will welcome into their unconventional family in February.


'Chris is the biological father. We just know that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was,' Tory explained.

'Based off of the approximate conception day, we had been on vacation. So it was only us.

'But as far as I guess, socially goes, we're all raising the baby together, so everyone's dad.

'We're all very, very excited to be raising a baby together.'

When asked how he feels about sharing the responsibilities of being a father, Christopher said: 'It's definitely a little interesting.

'I grew up with the idea of you know, one dad, one mum. But there is a lot of support between all of us dads and it's something we can tag team.

'We always joke about the idea of getting stack in an endless loop of go ask your dad.'

Despite their enthusiasm to raise a child as a five, some members of their respective families are yet to come around to their relationship and to the pregnancy news.

Tory said: 'Most of my friends know all my partners and they love us and think that we're cute and such. My family is kind of quiet about their disapproval. Polyamory is definitely an uncommon thing.

'A lot of people have grown up in monogamy culture of, you don't really love someone if you have eyes for somebody else.'

Christopher added: 'My family is slowly coming around to the idea. The pregnancy has helped with that. But at the very beginning, I know my mother and father were hesitant about it.

'Her main concern was that she didn't like the idea of me having a partner who was not fulfilled with me alone.'

However Ethan's family are 'very active' in their support, along with Tory's older brother, Alistair.

Alistair said: 'I will admit that since I'm her older brother, that I just have that tendency I suppose to be protective.

'I'm more so concerned that she's happy, that she is in a relationship where they both love each other mutually or in this case more people love each other mutually.

'I don't see anything wrong with Tory's relationship.'

After having to overcome judgement in public spaces, Tory hopes that she will eventually see more acceptance of polyamory in wider society. 'We definitely get weird looks,' she said.

'I've had people just say rude comments when we've just been hanging out at a fast food place. I've been called a hoe more than once.

'Maybe in our future, we might see it become a common thing where people don't bat an eye on it anymore at all. One can hope.'

But for now, they are focused on their relationship and their future as a five. We would definitely like to have more kids down the line.

'With there being five adults in the household, we should probably have more than one kid.'

Full Article

There's also an 8-minute video embedded in the article that's really worth watching if you want some insight in what sort of people are interested in polyamory and how they justify it.
'I'd like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.'

:story:

edit: Wait a fucking minute, is this bitches older """brother""" a troon??
 
'I'd like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.'

:story:

edit: Wait a fucking minute, is this bitches older """brother""" a troon??

The split second one of those guys starts spending time with a semi-attractive girl, the entire web is going to implode.
 
Stepping outside of Reddit for a moment, this has been popping up on my twitter feed a lot today.

View attachment 1037913

A polyamorous woman has fallen pregnant by one of her four partners after they went away together - but says they will raise the baby as a 'family'.

Tory Ojeda, 20, from Jacksonville, Florida, met one of her partners Marc, 18, in high school and then started a relationship with Travis, 23, two months later.

Their love story began three years ago and she has since announced her engagement to Travis in July.

She also found love with their long-term mutual friends Ethan, 22, and Christopher, 22. While seven months ago, Tory and Chris found out that they were pregnant with a baby girl.

Despite being in an open relationship, Tory is currently the only one who has multiple romantic partners.

However she says that her boyfriends are 'welcome' to pursue other people if they wish to - she even encourages the idea. Tory said: 'Honestly, I would love it if somebody found a second partner.

'Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it's kind of difficult.

'I'd like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.'

They all have their own bedrooms but her partners 'swap in and out' of her bed each night, making sure each of them gets an 'equal turn' in spending the night with Tory.

On the issue of jealousy, Ethan said: 'There are a couple of healthy ways to deal with it. Primarily just talking to each other.'

Travis added: 'There's always going to be like little moments of jealousy, it does take a certain amount of restraint and just getting relaxed. I will say it helps if you know the person.'

Reflecting on his own experiences in his current relationship, he said: 'Seeing [Tory] with Ethan was a lot easier because I was friends with him.

'Her and Chris was a bit dicier at first, there was a lot more jealousy and I'll openly admit that. The same goes for Marc because I'd never interacted with them.'

Seven months ago, Tory found out that she was pregnant with a baby girl who they will welcome into their unconventional family in February.


'Chris is the biological father. We just know that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was,' Tory explained.

'Based off of the approximate conception day, we had been on vacation. So it was only us.

'But as far as I guess, socially goes, we're all raising the baby together, so everyone's dad.

'We're all very, very excited to be raising a baby together.'

When asked how he feels about sharing the responsibilities of being a father, Christopher said: 'It's definitely a little interesting.

'I grew up with the idea of you know, one dad, one mum. But there is a lot of support between all of us dads and it's something we can tag team.

'We always joke about the idea of getting stack in an endless loop of go ask your dad.'

Despite their enthusiasm to raise a child as a five, some members of their respective families are yet to come around to their relationship and to the pregnancy news.

Tory said: 'Most of my friends know all my partners and they love us and think that we're cute and such. My family is kind of quiet about their disapproval. Polyamory is definitely an uncommon thing.

'A lot of people have grown up in monogamy culture of, you don't really love someone if you have eyes for somebody else.'

Christopher added: 'My family is slowly coming around to the idea. The pregnancy has helped with that. But at the very beginning, I know my mother and father were hesitant about it.

'Her main concern was that she didn't like the idea of me having a partner who was not fulfilled with me alone.'

However Ethan's family are 'very active' in their support, along with Tory's older brother, Alistair.

Alistair said: 'I will admit that since I'm her older brother, that I just have that tendency I suppose to be protective.

'I'm more so concerned that she's happy, that she is in a relationship where they both love each other mutually or in this case more people love each other mutually.

'I don't see anything wrong with Tory's relationship.'

After having to overcome judgement in public spaces, Tory hopes that she will eventually see more acceptance of polyamory in wider society. 'We definitely get weird looks,' she said.

'I've had people just say rude comments when we've just been hanging out at a fast food place. I've been called a hoe more than once.

'Maybe in our future, we might see it become a common thing where people don't bat an eye on it anymore at all. One can hope.'

But for now, they are focused on their relationship and their future as a five. We would definitely like to have more kids down the line.

'With there being five adults in the household, we should probably have more than one kid.'

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There's also an 8-minute video embedded in the article that's really worth watching if you want some insight in what sort of people are interested in polyamory and how they justify it.

5 unfuckable people ruining a child's life, together

Further proof that education majors are superfluous in modern society, I guess
 
Stepping outside of Reddit for a moment, this has been popping up on my twitter feed a lot today.

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A polyamorous woman has fallen pregnant by one of her four partners after they went away together - but says they will raise the baby as a 'family'.

Tory Ojeda, 20, from Jacksonville, Florida, met one of her partners Marc, 18, in high school and then started a relationship with Travis, 23, two months later.

Their love story began three years ago and she has since announced her engagement to Travis in July.

She also found love with their long-term mutual friends Ethan, 22, and Christopher, 22. While seven months ago, Tory and Chris found out that they were pregnant with a baby girl.

Despite being in an open relationship, Tory is currently the only one who has multiple romantic partners.

However she says that her boyfriends are 'welcome' to pursue other people if they wish to - she even encourages the idea. Tory said: 'Honestly, I would love it if somebody found a second partner.

'Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it's kind of difficult.

'I'd like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.'

They all have their own bedrooms but her partners 'swap in and out' of her bed each night, making sure each of them gets an 'equal turn' in spending the night with Tory.

On the issue of jealousy, Ethan said: 'There are a couple of healthy ways to deal with it. Primarily just talking to each other.'

Travis added: 'There's always going to be like little moments of jealousy, it does take a certain amount of restraint and just getting relaxed. I will say it helps if you know the person.'

Reflecting on his own experiences in his current relationship, he said: 'Seeing [Tory] with Ethan was a lot easier because I was friends with him.

'Her and Chris was a bit dicier at first, there was a lot more jealousy and I'll openly admit that. The same goes for Marc because I'd never interacted with them.'

Seven months ago, Tory found out that she was pregnant with a baby girl who they will welcome into their unconventional family in February.


'Chris is the biological father. We just know that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was,' Tory explained.

'Based off of the approximate conception day, we had been on vacation. So it was only us.

'But as far as I guess, socially goes, we're all raising the baby together, so everyone's dad.

'We're all very, very excited to be raising a baby together.'

When asked how he feels about sharing the responsibilities of being a father, Christopher said: 'It's definitely a little interesting.

'I grew up with the idea of you know, one dad, one mum. But there is a lot of support between all of us dads and it's something we can tag team.

'We always joke about the idea of getting stack in an endless loop of go ask your dad.'

Despite their enthusiasm to raise a child as a five, some members of their respective families are yet to come around to their relationship and to the pregnancy news.

Tory said: 'Most of my friends know all my partners and they love us and think that we're cute and such. My family is kind of quiet about their disapproval. Polyamory is definitely an uncommon thing.

'A lot of people have grown up in monogamy culture of, you don't really love someone if you have eyes for somebody else.'

Christopher added: 'My family is slowly coming around to the idea. The pregnancy has helped with that. But at the very beginning, I know my mother and father were hesitant about it.

'Her main concern was that she didn't like the idea of me having a partner who was not fulfilled with me alone.'

However Ethan's family are 'very active' in their support, along with Tory's older brother, Alistair.

Alistair said: 'I will admit that since I'm her older brother, that I just have that tendency I suppose to be protective.

'I'm more so concerned that she's happy, that she is in a relationship where they both love each other mutually or in this case more people love each other mutually.

'I don't see anything wrong with Tory's relationship.'

After having to overcome judgement in public spaces, Tory hopes that she will eventually see more acceptance of polyamory in wider society. 'We definitely get weird looks,' she said.

'I've had people just say rude comments when we've just been hanging out at a fast food place. I've been called a hoe more than once.

'Maybe in our future, we might see it become a common thing where people don't bat an eye on it anymore at all. One can hope.'

But for now, they are focused on their relationship and their future as a five. We would definitely like to have more kids down the line.

'With there being five adults in the household, we should probably have more than one kid.'

Full Article

There's also an 8-minute video embedded in the article that's really worth watching if you want some insight in what sort of people are interested in polyamory and how they justify it.
This is what a human landfill looks like.
 
Stepping outside of Reddit for a moment, this has been popping up on my twitter feed a lot today.

View attachment 1037913

A polyamorous woman has fallen pregnant by one of her four partners after they went away together - but says they will raise the baby as a 'family'.

Tory Ojeda, 20, from Jacksonville, Florida, met one of her partners Marc, 18, in high school and then started a relationship with Travis, 23, two months later.

Their love story began three years ago and she has since announced her engagement to Travis in July.

She also found love with their long-term mutual friends Ethan, 22, and Christopher, 22. While seven months ago, Tory and Chris found out that they were pregnant with a baby girl.

Despite being in an open relationship, Tory is currently the only one who has multiple romantic partners.

However she says that her boyfriends are 'welcome' to pursue other people if they wish to - she even encourages the idea. Tory said: 'Honestly, I would love it if somebody found a second partner.

'Dividing time and figuring out schedules between all five people and making sure everyone feels included, it's kind of difficult.

'I'd like to not be the only woman in the relationship. That would definitely be nice.'

They all have their own bedrooms but her partners 'swap in and out' of her bed each night, making sure each of them gets an 'equal turn' in spending the night with Tory.

On the issue of jealousy, Ethan said: 'There are a couple of healthy ways to deal with it. Primarily just talking to each other.'

Travis added: 'There's always going to be like little moments of jealousy, it does take a certain amount of restraint and just getting relaxed. I will say it helps if you know the person.'

Reflecting on his own experiences in his current relationship, he said: 'Seeing [Tory] with Ethan was a lot easier because I was friends with him.

'Her and Chris was a bit dicier at first, there was a lot more jealousy and I'll openly admit that. The same goes for Marc because I'd never interacted with them.'

Seven months ago, Tory found out that she was pregnant with a baby girl who they will welcome into their unconventional family in February.


'Chris is the biological father. We just know that because of timing and when the approximate conception date was,' Tory explained.

'Based off of the approximate conception day, we had been on vacation. So it was only us.

'But as far as I guess, socially goes, we're all raising the baby together, so everyone's dad.

'We're all very, very excited to be raising a baby together.'

When asked how he feels about sharing the responsibilities of being a father, Christopher said: 'It's definitely a little interesting.

'I grew up with the idea of you know, one dad, one mum. But there is a lot of support between all of us dads and it's something we can tag team.

'We always joke about the idea of getting stack in an endless loop of go ask your dad.'

Despite their enthusiasm to raise a child as a five, some members of their respective families are yet to come around to their relationship and to the pregnancy news.

Tory said: 'Most of my friends know all my partners and they love us and think that we're cute and such. My family is kind of quiet about their disapproval. Polyamory is definitely an uncommon thing.

'A lot of people have grown up in monogamy culture of, you don't really love someone if you have eyes for somebody else.'

Christopher added: 'My family is slowly coming around to the idea. The pregnancy has helped with that. But at the very beginning, I know my mother and father were hesitant about it.

'Her main concern was that she didn't like the idea of me having a partner who was not fulfilled with me alone.'

However Ethan's family are 'very active' in their support, along with Tory's older brother, Alistair.

Alistair said: 'I will admit that since I'm her older brother, that I just have that tendency I suppose to be protective.

'I'm more so concerned that she's happy, that she is in a relationship where they both love each other mutually or in this case more people love each other mutually.

'I don't see anything wrong with Tory's relationship.'

After having to overcome judgement in public spaces, Tory hopes that she will eventually see more acceptance of polyamory in wider society. 'We definitely get weird looks,' she said.

'I've had people just say rude comments when we've just been hanging out at a fast food place. I've been called a hoe more than once.

'Maybe in our future, we might see it become a common thing where people don't bat an eye on it anymore at all. One can hope.'

But for now, they are focused on their relationship and their future as a five. We would definitely like to have more kids down the line.

'With there being five adults in the household, we should probably have more than one kid.'

Full Article

There's also an 8-minute video embedded in the article that's really worth watching if you want some insight in what sort of people are interested in polyamory and how they justify it.
Florida woman strikes again
 
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