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They seem extremely butthurt that the vast majority of Americans prefer monogamous relationships.
 
Buer said:
Why even get married in the first place if you're just going to easily disregard what the other person is feeling? Also I can tell she wants more from C but C doesn't from her. Like she wants to date him or something because she gives an awful lot of excuses for his awful behavior. Her husband should divorce her tbh because C won't commit to her and she sounds like a teenage girl that just realized hot guys are hot.
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Poly people want all of the benefits of a relationship, both sexual and not, without having to do the work of maintaining the relationship or giving a fuck about their partners. When they start asking you for something, including respect for their boundaries, that's when the fuse on the drama bomb is lit.
 
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Am I the only one who thinks the rapist story would be even funnier if the rape victim partner was making it up out of jealousy?

This thread could be entirely fueled by ambling into any poly subreddit and expressing confusion as to how other people fucking their wife/partner doesn't make them a cuck. There is always some arcane formula that clearly spells out how OP is not a cuck.
 
Moral_Equivalent_of_ISIS said:
Sorry if this is late or dumb but what's 'hatching theory'?
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tranny predator finds effeminate, insecure gay man - an 'egg', convinces them through manipulation, peer pressure etc that they're not a cis gay but a transwoman, makes them get the usual hormone treatment and surgery. that last bit is the hatching. a new unhappy unstable troon is born.
 
OtterParty said:
tranny predator finds effeminate, insecure gay man - an 'egg', convinces them through manipulation, peer pressure etc that they're not a cis gay but a transwoman, makes them get the usual hormone treatment and surgery. that last bit is the hatching. a new unhappy unstable troon is born.
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It's like a real-life version of The Thing.
 
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Maybe it's just me, but does anybody else think that some of these sound really fake? Almost like they're roleplaying.
 
Moral_Equivalent_of_ISIS said:
Sorry if this is late or dumb but what's 'hatching theory'?
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Basically, it's when people "realize" that they're actually transsexual because they've been groomed by other transsexuals into believing that. It's very common among autogynephilacs and self-proclaimed traps. The idea is that a man who might be into exploring his feminine side through crossdressing or trap porn is an "egg," and he "hatches" when he finally troons out.
 
Okay, I got an actual archive of it.
http://archive.is/9qyYg

Basically the wife asked plain-seeming hubby to open relationship, hubby went and drowned himself with ladyboy boipussy since can do it now, wife gets mad and goes on r/polyamory to bitch about her husband fucking trannies all the time, can't even enunciate what's bothering her because of reddit's sensitivity to transphobia and r/polyamory, like clockwork, is calling her transphobic. It got locked three days after it was made along with the OP getting deleted.

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/762fd4/i_asked_my_husband_to_open_our_relationship_hes/
 
ICametoLurk said:
Okay, I got an actual archive of it.
http://archive.is/9qyYg

Basically the wife asked plain-seeming hubby to open relationship, hubby went and drowned himself with ladyboy boipussy since can do it now, wife gets mad and goes on r/polyamory to bitch about her husband fucking trannies all the time, can't even enunciate what's bothering her because of reddit's sensitivity to transphobia and r/polyamory, like clockwork, is calling her transphobic. It got locked three days after it was made along with the OP getting deleted.

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/762fd4/i_asked_my_husband_to_open_our_relationship_hes/
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lolololololololol.
The fucking virtue signaling and cognitive dissonance in the comments, glorious find.
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ICametoLurk said:
Okay, I got an actual archive of it.
http://archive.is/9qyYg

Basically the wife asked plain-seeming hubby to open relationship, hubby went and drowned himself with ladyboy boipussy since can do it now, wife gets mad and goes on r/polyamory to bitch about her husband fucking trannies all the time, can't even enunciate what's bothering her because of reddit's sensitivity to transphobia and r/polyamory, like clockwork, is calling her transphobic. It got locked three days after it was made along with the OP getting deleted.

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/762fd4/i_asked_my_husband_to_open_our_relationship_hes/
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served her right lol
 
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I stay laughing at this subreddit, people just keep making horrible choices. The ones that are super self-righteous about being poly are the worst, though.
 
> Then I made the mistake of getting more details. I found out they had sex ALL night and into the morning. So this wasn't the quick romp and discard I thought he would have. We currently have a good sex life, but I find myself super jealous over the reaction she gave him. I feel like he couldn't get enough of her.
> She was new and exciting and she made him feel amazing. It was a huge self esteem boost for him. I am still very open to him experiencing other sexual partners, but I can't seem to get over these feelings of jealousy. I want him to react to me the way he did her.
https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/3yoey6/feelings_of_hurt_and_negative_self_esteem_after/
http://archive.is/qlJu0

> Recently my SO and I have been trying poly. I came to the conclusion that I am mono. It took a lot of time and work but I am finally learning to let go. I am finally reconciling my rational self with my irrational emotions. I am (mostly) fine with her sleeping with other people etc.
> Every time I would hit an emotional road block I would step back and work my way through it. However I think all of those were masking something underneath. Now I just feel lonely. Even when we have time together she is thinking about her other relationship, she doesn’t seem presant. I have tried talking to her about it but things don’t really change. I miss the little things she used to do for me. I miss the texts, now when we text our conversations end up petering out. I feel like I’m pushing. I guess I’m just tired of feeling so lonely.
https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/3yqn6x/feeling_lonely/
http://archive.is/fCojI

I found the following text of the OP on a 4chan archive, there is no archive of the OP though and it got deleted
>I was hysterical and sobbing. Is this a normal way to go about vetoing a relationship? I feel like he should have at least called me to explain and let me get a word in. I feel like I was treated like a piece of garbage in this instance. I am incredibly angry and hurt. Is this an overreaction? I don't understand what I did. If something about our relationship was making her uncomfortable I'd have been happy to try and work it out. If she wanted me and him to be texting less while they are hanging out I'd happily oblige to that. The fact that he blocked the shit out of me like that makes me feel like absolute trash. Like one minute we have this great thing going, the next he slammed the metaphorical door in my face and won't even hear me speak.
https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/3ypntj/the_primary_partner_of_a_guy_i_was_dating_just/

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http://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/3ady2z/the_fact_my_girlfriend_is_going_to_visit_her_best/
http://archive.is/PdmuV

MOD EDIT: Thanks to @OtterParty for the archives.
 
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I'm really glad I'm not the only monogamous person out there. I've been in a relationship where the other party tried to force me into an open arrangement so they could sleep around. I've carried a bit of that guilt with me for a while, being told I was selfish for wanting monogamy.

I also recently had to cut contact with someone I was friends with because he admitted he forced his asexual partner (whom he does not love - his own words) into an open relationship.

I really felt like I was in bizarro world. Thanks KF for letting me know at least part of me isn't fucked up. :drink:
 
CabbageMan said:
New I'm really glad I'm not the only monogamous person out there. I've been in a relationship where the other party tried to force me into an open arrangement so they could sleep around. I've carried a bit of that guilt with me for a while, being told I was selfish for wanting monogamy.
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youre not selfish, youre just ugly
 
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