Polyamory General - Polyamory drama from Facebook, Reddit, and more

  • Want to keep track of this thread?
    Accounts can bookmark posts, watch threads for updates, and jump back to where you stopped reading.
    Create account
ITT: polyfags don't understand marrriage

This reply actually made me sad:
I am legally married for several reasons. A)immigration status. (I was/am deeply in love with my husband and the only way for us to be together was by marriage.) B)Health insurance (I have a cancer history.)

Now…. Does my husband mean more to me than my other partners? Absolutely not.

Love is a spiritual thing to me. A paper from the courthouse means nothing.
"I married him to get into the country and get my medical bills covered. Does he mean more to me than my hookups? Absolutely not!"
 
Scrolling through tumblr, I am given the most tumblr-appropriate ad I've ever seen in my life
View attachment 2545555
✅ Homosexuals
✅ Cutesy pastel colors
✅ All of the dudes look like soft bean uwu trans bois
✅ Sub-par webcomic with a cliche art style
✅ And of course, polyamory

Its about what you would expect, there are 4 dudes who don't act like dudes (or like real people at all, to be honest) who meet and fall in soft cinnamon roll love with one another and start the ultimate fag polycule

Here are some highlights:

View attachment 2545567
I had to look this one up. Morosexual- sexually attracted to people less intelligent than you, i.e. wanting to fuck morons.

View attachment 2545568
I think you probably did peg him, just not as a hentai fiend, BAZINGA

in all seriousness though, polyamory is so suffused with being hopelessly addicted to porn they had to include it in the soft bean comic about four gay boys having gay sex with one another

View attachment 2545569
View attachment 2545570
Hit the nail on the head, buddy.
Not to sound dramatic but seeing this huge influx of polyamory media really worries me. I was hanging out with my younger cousin and she was watching tiktok, and one of the clips she watched had 4 teenagers boasting about their polyamory relationship. The clip made it seem like it was totally normal, and it had over 100K+ hearts and so many comments gushing about how adorable it was. These teenagers couldn't have been older than 15 either. (:_(

I don't want to know what the ramifications will be of kids being taught this shit from a young age.
 
Not to sound dramatic but seeing this huge influx of polyamory media really worries me. I was hanging out with my younger cousin and she was watching tiktok, and one of the clips she watched had 4 teenagers boasting about their polyamory relationship. The clip made it seem like it was totally normal, and it had over 100K+ hearts and so many comments gushing about how adorable it was. These teenagers couldn't have been older than 15 either. (:_(

I don't want to know what the ramifications will be of kids being taught this shit from a young age.
It will mean that yet another generation will learn the hard way that 'free love' most often than not leads to instability, insecurity and general unhappiness. It didn't work for the Shelleys and Lord Byron in the nineteen century, it didn't work for the existentialists in the thirties, it didn't work for the hippies in the seventies and it won't work for the redditors and tiktokers of the twenty-first century. But yes, the new technological context means that the harms done by this new wave of stupidity will be much greater.
 
And hell, looking at the decorations on the outfits, at least half of that shit is downloaded brushes and assets by other people on the Clip Studio Paint store!
kek, that's amazing. I had no idea. Thank you for enlightening me.
Also lol why you still reading these crazy straight folks wet dream, NoReturn? You're a glutton for trash. XD
Princess' Jewels updates on the same day as a certain piece of trash that I actually enjoy, so it always appears at the bottom of the page when I've finished that day's update. That said, I do enjoy the modern freakshow.
Scrolling through tumblr, I am given the most tumblr-appropriate ad I've ever seen in my life
View attachment 2545555
✅ Homosexuals
✅ Cutesy pastel colors
✅ All of the dudes look like soft bean uwu trans bois
✅ Sub-par webcomic with a cliche art style
✅ And of course, polyamory

Its about what you would expect, there are 4 dudes who don't act like dudes (or like real people at all, to be honest) who meet and fall in soft cinnamon roll love with one another and start the ultimate fag polycule

Here are some highlights:

View attachment 2545567
I had to look this one up. Morosexual- sexually attracted to people less intelligent than you, i.e. wanting to fuck morons.

View attachment 2545568
I think you probably did peg him, just not as a hentai fiend, BAZINGA

in all seriousness though, polyamory is so suffused with being hopelessly addicted to porn they had to include it in the soft bean comic about four gay boys having gay sex with one another

View attachment 2545569
View attachment 2545570
Hit the nail on the head, buddy.

Not to sound dramatic but seeing this huge influx of polyamory media really worries me. I was hanging out with my younger cousin and she was watching tiktok, and one of the clips she watched had 4 teenagers boasting about their polyamory relationship. The clip made it seem like it was totally normal, and it had over 100K+ hearts and so many comments gushing about how adorable it was. These teenagers couldn't have been older than 15 either. (:_(

 
ITT: polyfags don't understand marrriage

This reply actually made me sad:

"I married him to get into the country and get my medical bills covered. Does he mean more to me than my hookups? Absolutely not!"
Gotta love that anyone calling this ungrateful shit out got downvoted to hell
'Does anyone else here not believe in the institution of marriage_ _ polyamory' - www.reddit.com.png
 
Gotta love that anyone calling this ungrateful shit out got downvoted to hell
View attachment 2551361
Relationships would be so complicated legally speaking if marriage didn't exist. Lawyers would love it but normal people would fucking hate it. Like marriage is supposed to make the relationship more equal because otherwise if you were a stay at home mom you would be left with nothing in the case you and your spouse broke up. Also that immigrant woman wouldn't even be allowed to be here if it didn't exist unless she got some other type of visa which he probably can't. These people should move to Canada is they want something like common law marriage.
 
The first video if it's real gives off some serious bigamist vibes. The second definitely feels like two older perverts tricked some younger, dumber whore into fucking them. What's more interesting in my opinion about the two videos is that the people in them are not 2/10 danger hair schlubs and is it a coincidence that they're both MFF?
 
Not to sound dramatic but seeing this huge influx of polyamory media really worries me. I was hanging out with my younger cousin and she was watching tiktok, and one of the clips she watched had 4 teenagers boasting about their polyamory relationship. The clip made it seem like it was totally normal, and it had over 100K+ hearts and so many comments gushing about how adorable it was. These teenagers couldn't have been older than 15 either. (:_(

I don't want to know what the ramifications will be of kids being taught this shit from a young age.
Propaganda for further societal decay. All that has happened before is happening again. Pushed by certain bad actors.
 
The first video if it's real gives off some serious bigamist vibes. The second definitely feels like two older perverts tricked some younger, dumber whore into fucking them. What's more interesting in my opinion about the two videos is that the people in them are not 2/10 danger hair schlubs and is it a coincidence that they're both MFF?
Speaking of:
 
but swinging/poly is always someones fault.
I think it's been said here before, but I'll reiterate that swinging and poly are really separate things. Polyamorous people get really snippy if you accuse them of swinging because you're not giving their maaaany beeaaautiful looving relationships the seriousness they deserve. Swingers are generally older, from what I've seen, and just want to fuck other people. They keep it compartmentalized away from the rest of their lives and don't pretend to or actually want real relationships.
 
Propaganda for further societal decay. All that has happened before is happening again. Pushed by certain bad actors.
Gay marriage opponents in the 2000s were mocked for predicting a slippery slope into Sodom, but how do you look around not 20 years later at the mass troonery, polyfags running amok, illegitimacy rates through the roof etc. and not say that they pretty much nailed it.
 
I think it's been said here before, but I'll reiterate that swinging and poly are really separate things. Polyamorous people get really snippy if you accuse them of swinging because you're not giving their maaaany beeaaautiful looving relationships the seriousness they deserve. Swingers are generally older, from what I've seen, and just want to fuck other people. They keep it compartmentalized away from the rest of their lives and don't pretend to or actually want real relationships.
still gonna fuck up your kids either way when it comes out
i guess swinging is easier to hide from them though
 
Gay marriage opponents in the 2000s were mocked for predicting a slippery slope into Sodom, but how do you look around not 20 years later at the mass troonery, polyfags running amok, illegitimacy rates through the roof etc. and not say that they pretty much nailed it.
The slippery slope was already well known before gay marriage became an issue. Gay culture was mainstream in the 80s with the HIV issue and opposition got mocked then too. The cultural cycle used to be 30 years when children became adults with influence pushing the latest issue. As society sped up and social media took over now the cycle is closer to 5 or 10.
 
Polyamory has nothing to do with gay rights. Condoned/tolerated 'cheating' or polygamy (the two main versions of what we currently call 'polyamory') have always existed and have always revolved around the same thing: power games between spouses.

One spouse usually has more power to fuck around than the other. And this is made possible either by law (e.g. by prostitution being legal, or through ancient laws that punished adulterous women in harsher ways than adulterous men), or by social consent (e.g. the man or the son of the house raping the maid was acceptable until very recently, and everyone involved knew to keep quiet), or due to internal dynamics of the relationship (e.g. dude is desperately in love with his girlfriend and will accept her suggestion they start fucking around for fear of losing her). In the olden days mostly only men were allowed to play. Nowadays women play too. That's it. It's the same shit as always, and it has always been acceptable to some degree, with varying circumstances in different places and eras.

And it's way older than gay rights. Plenty of gays but especially most lesbians prefer monogamy and blending in, because they are actually normal people, and not idiots suffering from arrested development who need constant attention and drama with their 'polycules'. Even notoriously promiscuous gay men very often settle down later in life, because their terrible partying and fucking around habits eventually catch up with them and they crave stability too.
 
I'm not going to post every update of that dumb comic from earlier, but I figured you guys might get a kick out of this discussion in the comments.
a.PNG
1.PNG
2.PNG
 
Not to sound dramatic but seeing this huge influx of polyamory media really worries me. I was hanging out with my younger cousin and she was watching tiktok, and one of the clips she watched had 4 teenagers boasting about their polyamory relationship. The clip made it seem like it was totally normal, and it had over 100K+ hearts and so many comments gushing about how adorable it was. These teenagers couldn't have been older than 15 either. (:_(

I don't want to know what the ramifications will be of kids being taught this shit from a young a
Is the kind of stuff that screams Think Tank. There's absolutely a deliberate push to sell the idea and making it seem like is all spontaneous and a big movement everyone is into already, as in trying to create a social contagion. You don't see a curve, is a sudden spike of interest and talking about it, exactly like with troonism.
 
The slippery slope was already well known before gay marriage became an issue. Gay culture was mainstream in the 80s with the HIV issue and opposition got mocked then too. The cultural cycle used to be 30 years when children became adults with influence pushing the latest issue. As society sped up and social media took over now the cycle is closer to 5 or 10.

here's the thing: we can latch onto any easy idea like: if we rejected the PROGRESSIVE GAYS WHO WANT TO HARM TRADITION AND SOCIETY then we can erase any decay of society!

and that is simply not how it works. it would be nice to have an easy idea of moral perfection we could all ascribe to so that we don't have to figure out for ourselves what's right and what's wrong

and every single time that notion will fail because of a simple fact of existence: its rarely ideology itself, but rather the cowardice of individuals that congeals into a mass of a failed movement.

there are gay people (such as myself) who value and honor tradition in their own way: the idea of me having to attracted to men to be a moral person is simply retarded. so instead i focus on treating people, as individuals, right.

the issue with the people in this thread, in my opinion, isnt that that they wanna fuck more than one person, its that that refuse to take actual accountability for that. yeah, you wanna fuck more than your boyfriend? then go for it. dont gaslight him for months on end to convince him thats what he wants - if the two of you want different things then you should split up.

trying to assign this to a sexuality thing, rather than an individual who refuses to take accountability for their own situations and actions, is lazy. it would be easy if moral decay could be assigned to any one group, but its an individual responsibility each one of us carries to try not to be a fucking degenerate
 
Back
Top Bottom