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I see a lot of monogamous people talk about how after they had kids it hurt their marriage because they no longer had time for their partner. Being poly with minor children sounds like a disaster.
 
Imagine being raised by a single mom who is trying to date while working and raising you.

Now imagine your parents are actually still together, but they're trying to date, while working and not raising you.
 
Imagine having to watch your parents fluidbond with their unicorn.

>Coming down in the middle of the night to get a glass of milk and meeting the half-naked overweight, BPD, 20-something your Mom lured on a dating app while it makes a sandwich with your leftovers.
>Hearing your Dad shout from down the hall asking when Xhe was going to come back to their snuggle-pile and hearing your Mom giggling from next to him.
>Go back to your room and fall asleep with headphones in to block the noises of your parents' weekly threesome with a total stranger that they totally love, man


More soft-pastel ohjoysextoy-esque cutesy infographs to try and rationalize degeneracy in the most childlike, Lindsay Amer/Queer Kids method imaginable. By coomers, FOR coomers.
 
>Coming down in the middle of the night to get a glass of milk and meeting the half-naked overweight, BPD, 20-something your Mom lured on a dating app while it makes a sandwich with your leftovers.
>Hearing your Dad shout from down the hall asking when Xhe was going to come back to their snuggle-pile and hearing your Mom giggling from next to him.
>Go back to your room and fall asleep with headphones in to block the noises of your parents' weekly threesome with a total stranger that they totally love, man



More soft-pastel ohjoysextoy-esque cutesy infographs to try and rationalize degeneracy in the most childlike, Lindsay Amer/Queer Kids method imaginable. By coomers, FOR coomers.
It's grooming. Children WILL see these things.
 
It's grooming. Children WILL see these things.

What is grooming but normalizing unacceptable and predatory sexual behaviour? They have to normalize it because it's what they believe in and if they were to try and hide it from the kids it'd be a tacit acceptance that what they're doing is degenerate and harmful because why do you have to hide something normal and beautiful from your kids?

I think the majority of the people with kids doing this shit are too autistic/selfish to know that children are way smarter and sensitive than you think and will 100% internalize this bullshit so better start investing in a fund to pay for the years of therapy down the road.
 
The kids of the poly pervs, if they don't manage to off themselves before adulthood, are likely to become the most anti-sex fire and brimstone preachers that have ever existed. They will have seen firsthand the trouble promiscuity causes and will want to cure it.
 
The kids of the poly pervs, if they don't manage to off themselves before adulthood, are likely to become the most anti-sex fire and brimstone preachers that have ever existed. They will have seen firsthand the trouble promiscuity causes and will want to cure it.
Or they will start a polycule of their very own like mommy and daddy.
 
Or they will start a polycule of their very own like mommy and daddy.
Ew.
Also a possibility, but ew.
Mild powerlevel (btw, what happened to the TMI emote?). There was a girl I knew who was poly. It turned out, her parents were both poly as well. And they were both unmarried, to boot. She was also a they/them, despite showing her tits and ass with her outfit (and now you know why I hung out with her for a semester in college).

My point is that this stuff does run in the family.
 
Mild powerlevel (btw, what happened to the TMI emote?). There was a girl I knew who was poly. It turned out, her parents were both poly as well. And they were both unmarried, to boot. She was also a they/them, despite showing her tits and ass with her outfit (and now you know why I hung out with her for a semester in college).

My point is that this stuff does run in the family.
Tell me more about this degenerate please.
 
There was a girl I knew who was poly. It turned out, her parents were both poly as well. And they were both unmarried, to boot. She was also a they/them, despite showing her tits and ass with her outfit (and now you know why I hung out with her for a semester in college).

My point is that this stuff does run in the family.
Does it really run in the family? Or did they just teach her to behave that way by raising her in that environment?
:thinking:
 
Does it really run in the family? Or did they just teach her to behave that way by raising her in that environment?
:thinking:
I mean, that's what I meant.
Tell me more about this degenerate please.
The only other things I remember were her being usual tumblr trash ("crave that mineral", hates trump, etc) and telling me about the abortion she got in high school a day after we first met.
 
and telling me about the abortion she got in high school a day after we first met.
This is really making me hate polyamory.

I know abortions happen to some teens during school, no matter what... But I mean polyamory sounds like a slam dunk guaranteed situation of slutting out or even trooning out the kids.

Like: "I'm so poly haha. My daughter is totally going to get knocked up after fucking 30 guys in high school because I said it was fine to fuck at our house, lol abortion time."
 
This is really making me hate polyamory.

I know abortions happen to some teens during school, no matter what... But I mean polyamory sounds like a slam dunk guaranteed situation of slutting out or even trooning out the kids.

Like: "I'm so poly haha. My daughter is totally going to get knocked up after fucking 30 guys in high school because I said it was fine to fuck at our house, lol abortion time."
The grammar nazi in me wants to correct you on that somewhat. She got the abortion in high school. We shared a class together in sophomore year in college. Yeah, its unfortunate, but she's also fucking weird for telling me this a couple days after we first met, considering the abortion was long past relevant at the time.
 
Mild powerlevel (btw, what happened to the TMI emote?). There was a girl I knew who was poly. It turned out, her parents were both poly as well. And they were both unmarried, to boot. She was also a they/them, despite showing her tits and ass with her outfit (and now you know why I hung out with her for a semester in college).

My point is that this stuff does run in the family.
I have seen similar cases come out of polygamist mormon families (not the compound kind, the normal society kind), but they are the minority. Most of them only get one spouse when they grow up.

Whenever a family makes a weird decision about their lifestyle, it seems like most of the kids abandon it if they have been exposed to normality. The kids that felt unloved or ignored will embrace the parent's belief system or lifestyle as a way to get approval and closeness as adults. This is pretty true of most dysfunctional families, in my experience, this includes major fuck ups like addiction.
 
Sorry if this is a stupid question. Its a 138 page thread and I haven't read it all.

But what do you guys think of Swinging and Open relationships?

For Poly? We have this entire thread so hence I'm interested in your guys opinions on the specific previously mentioned.
 
Sorry if this is a stupid question. Its a 138 page thread and I haven't read it all.

But what do you guys think of Swinging and Open relationships?

For Poly? We have this entire thread so hence I'm interested in your guys opinions on the specific previously mentioned.
I honestly think these is a weird simple honesty in an open relationship/stingers, I personally known a few, I could never be in a relationship like that but at least they are honest about just saying "we just want to have a threesome/orgy very once in awhile" as for poly its fundamentally people lying about their modavations which will never work.
 
I honestly think these is a weird simple honesty in an open relationship/stingers, I personally known a few, I could never be in a relationship like that but at least they are honest about just saying "we just want to have a threesome/orgy very once in awhile" as for poly its fundamentally people lying about their modavations which will never work.
Thanks for the reply but would what you say in the bold really be called Open relationship or Swinging?

I mean from what I understood, Swinging was where couples would at the same time fuck other people and there were like groups for this or they do orgies as you said. Whereas Open relationships was they were no longer exclusive and were free to find other partners or lovers?

The bold more describes a somewhat exclusive relationship occasionally inviting people in but only for threesomes. Except the Orgy part. Thats in Swinging for sure.

Also, from what I have heard, women are the primary winners in Open relationships cause its easy for them while men are shit out of luck, is this correct?
 
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