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To be fair, if the man did snap at the guy as harshly as the OP said he did, his wife is a fucking bitch, and pathetic cunt for not standing up for her husband.
Definitely, but it only happened in fantasy land. Also, even if it did happen the exact way he said, he got what he deserved for entering into this death trap in the first place.
 
To be fair, if the man did snap at the guy as harshly as the OP said he did, his wife is a fucking bitch, and pathetic cunt for not standing up for her husband.
The cuck may have also been acting like more of an annoying pussy than he let on, though, to the point the guy was in the right to tell him to STFU. As a cuck he should be used to being told shut up, I'm going to fuck your wife now.
 
Damn, those girls kind of cute. I wonder who pushed for the poly shit in this. It looks like the girls are coping a bit, but that could just be my inner Captain Save-a-Ho coming out. At least they're taking the "uncle auntie" approach with their kids, at least for now. Best result is that the wives just switch for good one day and that's that.
If you are gonna take this route, this is probably the best way for dealing with the kids. Still probably gonna be fucked up but at least they don't have to worry about double parents.

To be fair, if the man did snap at the guy as harshly as the OP said he did, his wife is a fucking bitch, and pathetic cunt for not standing up for her husband.
Perhaps, but at that point, I'd argue she had already decided to trade up especially since it was her idea in the first place.
 
If you are gonna take this route, this is probably the best way for dealing with the kids. Still probably gonna be fucked up but at least they don't have to worry about double parents.


Perhaps, but at that point, I'd argue she had already decided to trade up especially since it was her idea in the first place.
Oh, she definitely was going to trade up anyway. I guarantee she just did the poly thing to spare his feelings or something. He even said he's sure he was getting less sex.
 
The cuck may have also been acting like more of an annoying pussy than he let on, though, to the point the guy was in the right to tell him to STFU. As a cuck he should be used to being told shut up, I'm going to fuck your wife now.
On the one hand, if someone talks to me like that at my table, they're going to be leaving my place a lot faster than they entered it.

On the other hand, the very fact that he permitted this to happen suggests that he has a serious problem. If you act like a victim, you're going to be a victim.

That's if the story is even real. The details are a little too perfect, right down to the pickup truck.
 
On the one hand, if someone talks to me like that at my table, they're going to be leaving my place a lot faster than they entered it.

On the other hand, the very fact that he permitted this to happen suggests that he has a serious problem. If you act like a victim, you're going to be a victim.

That's if the story is even real. The details are a little too perfect, right down to the pickup truck.
This is one of those stories that fall under just crazy enough to sound true for sure.
 
"I looked at my wife as a plea for help"

That little snippet right there made my insides turn. I don't even care if it's true or not, the thought alone is horrifying. There you are, presumably in your own fucking house, getting yelled at by the bull who's fucking your wife and eating your cereal, waiting for your dear old lady - who despises you - to comfort you. Like he's asking for a few little crumbs of dignity. What the fuck. Why am I even this mad, I've read far worse than this. But fucking hell I hope this shit is entirely made up.
 
"I looked at my wife as a plea for help"

That little snippet right there made my insides turn. I don't even care if it's true or not, the thought alone is horrifying.
It's probably because he's clearly in an abusive relationship. Then proceeded to cry to Reddit for sympathy points, like the turbo soyboy he is. He fucked up when he verbally consented to being cucked.

Imagine letting some older dude fuck your wife and then going pikachuface.png when neither of them respect you.
 
He fucked up when he verbally consented to being cucked.
Naturally, but he just kept fucking up even more. Step by step, he went with it and kept fucking up until there was nothing to fuck up anymore. It's hard to tell with these guys if they really loathe themselves to no end or if they're just convinced for whatever reason that a marriage like that - which isn't a marriage at all - is the way to go because apparently they didn't know better. And even if this case in particular looks like it's probably made up, not all of them are.

At least the people that I pity the most concerning this bullshit (not counting children, talking about adults here), the ones who end up in a motel room somewhere, rocking back and forth in a bathtub, disillusioned by what they thought was real and thinking of killing themselves, they at least know they fucked up. They absolutely know what happened. They're at a point where they just can't lie to themselves anymore, at least some of them are. They can now change something about themselves. I have some hope for those poor bastards I guess.
 
It's better to leave your nasty ex in the dust and move on, than to cry to Reddit about how it feels bad when the bull is being mean to you.

I know there's a voice inside of him saying "Gee Randy why do you let your wife have TWO wieners?"
 
Naturally, but he just kept fucking up even more. Step by step, he went with it and kept fucking up until there was nothing to fuck up anymore. It's hard to tell with these guys if they really loathe themselves to no end or if they're just convinced for whatever reason that a marriage like that - which isn't a marriage at all - is the way to go because apparently they didn't know better. And even if this case in particular looks like it's probably made up, not all of them are.

At least the people that I pity the most concerning this bullshit (not counting children, talking about adults here), the ones who end up in a motel room somewhere, rocking back and forth in a bathtub, disillusioned by what they thought was real and thinking of killing themselves, they at least know they fucked up. They absolutely know what happened. They're at a point where they just can't lie to themselves anymore, at least some of them are. They can now change something about themselves. I have some hope for those poor bastards I guess.
Part of the issue is couching all traditionally masculine traits as "toxic masculinity." This story is actually a good character study of it, true or not. So you have some dude who got married, and he decides he's going to be a good guy. Swallows his competitiveness and aggression (yes, even sexually), lets her take the lead, and just sort of floats on the idea that since they're married they'll be together forever. Meanwhile, his wife is growing unhappier by the day. Why? Because he won't take responsibility as a man, acts overly emotional, is sexually underwhelming, and simply doesn't take charge. Hell, he was likely acting like he did before they got married: immature, irresponsible, and unfocused (don't lie, gents, we've all been there).

Enter: the bull. Likely an older gent by about 5 years or more. Competitive, aggressive, but also capable of shocking levels of tenderness and compassion. Most importantly, the bull is self-assured. He knows what he wants out of life. He's mature, focused, and responsible. Wifey gets all hot and bothered, but doesn't just want to cheat on her manchild husband. So what does she do? Use his progressivism against him. The bull's fine being the other man, because he's not threatened by the husband. He even connects on some level, because the bull still remembers the days when he was like that and misses it a bit (once again, gents, we all do it) and when he's hanging out with the husband playing games and stuff, he can go back for a few hours. Wife's happy because she's getting a proper dicking AND emotional support of a confident man (which is what every woman more or less wants, correct me if I'm wrong, ladies). Husband's happy because his wife's stopped bitching at him to take out the trash because the bull got it.

Now the scene is set. The bull, while decent to the husband is becoming frustrated with him. Dude has a great wife and a pretty good life, why's he so dissatisfied all the time? So the husband makes a Trump joke (likely unfunny Drumpf comment 1,374,792) and the bull tells him to shut his whore mouth while men are talking. The husband doesn't want to take this lying down, but since he lacks the self-confidence the bull has, he loses his last chance to get his wife back by showing he's weaker than his wife. The husband has no idea what he did wrong, because he did everything his teachers, his entertainment, and his news channels told him was the way to go. Finally, in all his fedora-tipping "m'lady" spewing glory, HE STANDS UP TO A WIFE HE HAS PROVEN HIMSELF WEAKER THAN AS A POWER MOVE. Wife is unimpressed, says good riddance to bad rubbish, and the bull moves in because he can take care of her better. Meanwhile, husband blames internalized toxic masculinity on his wife's part and likely troons out.

tl;dr: When everyone tells you to act like a cuck and you do so, don't be shocked when you finally get cucked.
 
Because the very concept of cuckoldry is disgusting to a normal, sane human male.
Sure, I've always agreed and I've read this thread before. But sometimes something is expressed so well that it packs an extra punch. "I looked at my wife as a plea for help", in that setting and context, encapsulates so much. It paints a perfect emotional picture of this shit.

But carry on, I don't want to turn this into reddit.
 
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1. Oh, make no mistake, skank, it's definitely manipulative. Dudes can do it too. And you should feel guilty about him not being enough for you. Granted, I don't know enough about the relationship to make any actual calls here, but men don't really like to share even if they're not inclined toward jealousy. So my advice to you? If you want to keep him find some soyboy who acts like a gelding and maybe your BF will stay with you. Or give up on your have it all attitude and be happy with what you have.

2. My lord. Okay, my official judgement is you're all insane deviants, but here's my take. Hell yeah, why not cheat if she's cheating? Don't feel bad for your friend, he should have known better, like you. Dump the skank and fuck your way through life, since that seems to be a lifestyle you're cool with (heteroflexible what the fuck?). Your bro will find another crazy to stick his dick in, your ex gets half your shit, and the world keeps on turning. By the way, dude, poly doesn't work for you (not that it works for anyone really) because you straight up mention not wanting to wait for your wife's attention (and you're in the right thinking this, provided you're not directing it at your kids).
 
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