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Okay, not reddit. But just as ridiculous. No surprise, most of the comments are agreeing with this.

I'm trying not to get MOTI. But can you say with a straight face that poly people have been mass murdered, killed, hung, tortured etc for their beliefs...

That is some first world privilege I'm seeing right now. I'm pretty sure fucking multiple people doesn't count as a sexual preference.
 
>We are queer. We go against social norms. Our love is not accepted in society. We are dealing with haters and we have no rights at all.

By that logic, aren’t pedophiles queer? Touching children goes against social norms, and their love is not accepted in society. They also deal with haters every day, to the point where even drug dealers and cop killers will go after child molesters in prison out of disgust.
It is, a slippery slope as to what you can define as queer
 
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Okay, not reddit. But just as ridiculous. No surprise, most of the comments are agreeing with this.

I'm trying not to get MOTI. But can you say with a straight face that poly people have been mass murdered, killed, hung, tortured etc for their beliefs...
>We are queer. We go against social norms. Our love is not accepted in society. We are dealing with haters and we have no rights at all.

By that logic, aren’t pedophiles queer? Touching children goes against social norms, and their love is not accepted in society. They also deal with haters every day, to the point where even drug dealers and cop killers will go after child molesters in prison out of disgust.
There it is again! The idea that if you're queer you must be oppressed and vice versa!
It creates a disincentive to actually fix those problems because oppression becomes a part of your identity, and leads to weird shit like lesbians being accused of being "basically straight" when they want to live happy normal lives with their wives instead of forming a queer trans-centering polycule for maximum oppression points.
 
>We are queer. We go against social norms. Our love is not accepted in society. We are dealing with haters and we have no rights at all.

By that logic, aren’t pedophiles queer? Touching children goes against social norms, and their love is not accepted in society. They also deal with haters every day, to the point where even drug dealers and cop killers will go after child molesters in prison out of disgust.
And by that logic, what are kiwi farmers if not...

Oh no. I think we are QUEER! (:_(
 
>We are queer. We go against social norms. Our love is not accepted in society. We are dealing with haters and we have no rights at all.

By that logic, aren’t pedophiles queer? Touching children goes against social norms, and their love is not accepted in society. They also deal with haters every day, to the point where even drug dealers and cop killers will go after child molesters in prison out of disgust.
Considering that NAMBLA was involved in the gay rights movement in the 70s and some gay rights groups didn't dissociate from them until the 90s, pedos can definitely claim to be as queer as any non-criminal pillow biter or carpet muncher.
 
By that logic, aren’t pedophiles queer? Touching children goes against social norms, and their love is not accepted in society. They also deal with haters every day, to the point where even drug dealers and cop killers will go after child molesters in prison out of disgust.
Zoophiles, pedophiles, objectophiles, necrophiles...all their love is against social norms, and not accepted in society, and they are constantly dealing with haters and oppression 🥺
This is exactly why "queer" as a label is gross and retarded, and why most average LGBT people don't like that the new shorthand for them seems to be the "Queer Community." Because it lumps them in with a bunch of psychos while literally referring to them as a slur, under the guise of being tolerant and woke.
 
Update on my buddy:

He declared yesterday that he is planning to buy a house with his wife. That's great news, I thought! Renting is poison and basically only for retards that can't think out farther than a month. Bad news is that they're going to go in on the loan with their poly friend because her father has money. This poly friend, might I add, that was recently divorced over a polyamory misunderstanding with their ex-husband.

Poly people are fucking retarded, I swear it drains their actual situational awareness because these women are obviously going to kick my boy's ass to the curb and he'll have no recourse because this goddamn interloper's name is going to be on the deed. Like... I legitimately don't understand the thought process, especially since the last time he moved in with someone in a similar situation about a year and change after he moved down to Atlanta, moved in with another couple and a roommate from his previous place into a large house, and that ended in disaster less than six months down the line because my friend's wife is a duplicitous BPD nightmare and just causes problems.

Motherfucker is going to be homeless in a couple of years.
 

Oh fuck you. Fuck you with a red-hot poker, you selfish, self-absorbed hipster. You and your beliefs are at a high point of popularity and influence not seen in decades. You just want to be trendy and feel oppressed so you can huff your own farts for social media points and take another hit off of the crack-pipe of moral indignation.

Anyone who unironically calls themselves queer is a parasite on the goodwill the gay and lesbian (NOT FUCKING TRANS OR ANY OTHER ALPHABET BULLSHIT) community has built over the last fifty years.
 
To be fair, Mormons and fundamentalist Muslims were oppressed at some point. These individuals are clearly following the original teachings of Joseph Smith, the Prophet Mohammed (pbuh), and several dozen coomer cult leaders that found their cult to diddle children.
 
Update on my buddy:

He declared yesterday that he is planning to buy a house with his wife. That's great news, I thought! Renting is poison and basically only for retards that can't think out farther than a month. Bad news is that they're going to go in on the loan with their poly friend because her father has money. This poly friend, might I add, that was recently divorced over a polyamory misunderstanding with their ex-husband.

Poly people are fucking retarded, I swear it drains their actual situational awareness because these women are obviously going to kick my boy's ass to the curb and he'll have no recourse because this goddamn interloper's name is going to be on the deed. Like... I legitimately don't understand the thought process, especially since the last time he moved in with someone in a similar situation about a year and change after he moved down to Atlanta, moved in with another couple and a roommate from his previous place into a large house, and that ended in disaster less than six months down the line because my friend's wife is a duplicitous BPD nightmare and just causes problems.

Motherfucker is going to be homeless in a couple of years.
This is a trainwreck you can see happening in slow-motion. Shame about your friend, hope he has a good lawyer on speed-dial for when this goes tits-up.
 
Oh fuck you. Fuck you with a red-hot poker, you selfish, self-absorbed hipster. You and your beliefs are at a high point of popularity and influence not seen in decades. You just want to be trendy and feel oppressed so you can huff your own farts for social media points and take another hit off of the crack-pipe of moral indignation.

Anyone who unironically calls themselves queer is a parasite on the goodwill the gay and lesbian (NOT FUCKING TRANS OR ANY OTHER ALPHABET BULLSHIT) community has built over the last fifty years.
built what? parades of degeneracy? fake-gayass researches to pat gaes in the back with "probable evidences"?
shit the gay and ze lesbian had no problem with NAMBLA for a good while because money is good no?

they leech off LGBT+ because going against them means they can call the LGBT's non-inclusive and non-progressive if they try to draw a line, it's a trap card they activated themselves, the whole debacle on HER about troons posing as lesbians is just amazing because of the exact reason i told you. lesbians are pissed and with reason (although allowing bi's in there is funny already), meanwhile on grindr or scruff finding a FTM posing as a gayboi is very hard and most of the times they are picked up by the bi guys because the gayboys don't like them at all but are more "educated" in that matter.

on Feeld there is a surge of polyamorous retards and they aren't exactly welcome in there too because the point of feeld is threesomes and not retarded faggotry from grownup children, some poly profiles often have ramblings against unicorns. HA.

don't even get me started on Queer profiles and pictures, it's just wow, you have to fucking see it.
He's a retard and can barely afford soup.
so how can he do all of these moves then? dude is asking to sink. eh, keep us updated whenever you feel like. pls.
 
Ditched them right after breaking up with gf at the time. Best choice I ever made.
Its the only good choice. If someone tells you they want a poly relationship high chances they are already cheating and probably has been for a while. Getting you to consent is just to add to the humilliation,, manipulative people love this kind of shit. I'd consider any relationship over that moment, you can't just say no and expect to go back to normal and trust your partner not being a cheating asshole and agreeing is just masochism and renouncing dignity and self esteem.
 
Thought I'd do some looking on reddit for some material for this thread. I did not have to look far down the front page. So here we have 30 seconds worth of searching the subreddit:

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Wife understandably didn't want their kinks out there in the open but why do anything hard when you can just leave it to everyone else to deal with.

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Guy "convinces" girlfriend to try poly, they get a third. She comes to her senses but is somehow the bad guy. I bet if the guy asked for a secret affair our posted would be allover that idea. I doubt the original relationship is surviving this shit, for good reason. Also, not even 2 months of a relationship and she's too upset to sleeps as well as counting the pictures she "collected" of them. Major crazy alert.

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Woman gets cheated on by a guy that wants a poly relationship (who could have seen that coming?). After that experience she doesn't want to learn from it, she just wants to learn how to be OK with the next guy fucking around on her. That guy really did a number on her and she needs therapy, fast.

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Woman is worried her bloke's new fuck piece isn't interested in learning the terminology of the cult. Look, she is cucking her (unwilling) boyfriend with yours as the bull at best, at worse it's a monkey branching. Why isn't your boyfriend pulling up stumps if he's that miserable about the situation?

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The "girlfriend" of a guy who has a wife pulling a suprised pikachu face when he goes and finds yet another woman to fuck. You're the side piece and always have been, he got bored of you and moved on. Why do you think he's going to care if you tell him not to fuck another woman if he didn't care about fucking you on the side?

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Guy finds monogamous woman and manipulates her into letting him have his fun with others while knowing he has her as a fall back. Loses it when she finds a more stable relationship with someone else and basically relegated him to side piece.

Seriously, this was less than a minute of searching that sub. It really is the ultimate in low EQ crises, even better they're entirely self inflicted and no lessons will be learnt from them.
 
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Its the only good choice. If someone tells you they want a poly relationship high chances they are already cheating and probably has been for a while. Getting you to consent is just to add to the humilliation,, manipulative people love this kind of shit. I'd consider any relationship over that moment, you can't just say no and expect to go back to normal and trust your partner not being a cheating asshole and agreeing is just masochism and renouncing dignity and self esteem.
I’d add another side that’s not necessary manipulative or cheating, by still pathetic. I mentioned my own experience with a guy who claimed to want a poly/open (same thing imo) relationship. I stayed briefly but got out and never looked back. I learned after the breakup that he was really into cringey harem anime (and hentai). I guess he thought since average boring guys could get a cadre of hot (and stereotype filling) chicks falling over them, he totally had a chance to do that in real life.

Either way they seem to have no sense of reality and actual human relationships.
 
I’d add another side that’s not necessary manipulative or cheating, by still pathetic. I mentioned my own experience with a guy who claimed to want a poly/open (same thing imo) relationship. I stayed briefly but got out and never looked back. I learned after the breakup that he was really into cringey harem anime (and hentai). I guess he thought since average boring guys could get a cadre of hot (and stereotype filling) chicks falling over them, he totally had a chance to do that in real life.

Either way they seem to have no sense of reality and actual human relationships.
wonder how he would have felt if his harem didn't pan out but you suddenly came home with two new black guys as lovers. Unironically this happening is quite a common way poly relationships backfire and end, many of the selfish pricks that propose poly then get major butthurt when their partner is getting action.
 
I don't think there's any thread on the Farms that's more depressing than this one. Sure, they're all getting what they deserve because they're willingly engaging in this nonsense, but all of it is built purely on emotional torture and being bullied into thinking your feelings about being cheated on are wrong. It's disgusting.
 
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