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WhatNemesisMeans said:
Genuine friendship is impossible to maintain with those poly tards, they're toxic assholes who reason only in terms of who they can sleep with the most and when they can start fucking. Sooner or later one of them is going to try to poon you, and it will poison your social circle until you cut ties for good.
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It’s almost like healthy boundaries in friendships are just as important as those with romantic partners.

Jee wizz you guys, we sure are (re)learning things today!
 
WhatNemesisMeans said:
Genuine friendship is impossible to maintain with those poly tards, they're toxic assholes who reason only in terms of who they can sleep with the most and when they can start fucking. Sooner or later one of them is going to try to poon you, and it will poison your social circle until you cut ties for good.
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they try to 'reason' about things that can't really be reasoned about.
like, jealousy exists, and it's strong. it's an emotion, an instinct, no amount of arguing and reasoning (more like rationalizing and sugarcoating) is gonna make it go away, and no amount of self-indoctrination through poly literature is going to 'cure' you of it. all you can do is try and suppress it, live in denial of it, lie to yourself about it, but that's really not sustainable and will come crashing down on you sooner or later.
 
Geese Howard said:
Courtesy of r/relationship_advice. The first paragraph is very reddit.

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That reads as so disrespectful and violating. So, the two of them got together to discuss the guy having sex with OP....Without even contacting OP. Like they said, they just view them as a sex object. Also the female friend is not a best friend and they should stop calling her that. If someone decides to act like a cunt to you and NOT tell you what’s wrong then they can fuck off. Perhaps it was jealousy, it which case why is she poly if she’s prone to that? Doesn’t seem like a recipe for success anyway.

Damn, I can’t imagine discussing with my partner whether it’s okay for them to fuck someone else.
 
Zebedee said:
I got halfway through that and genuinely started getting confused over who was fucking who. I’m not even religious, but biblically speaking I’m pretty certain that it’s this shit that caused Sodom and Gomorrah to get deep sixed.
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Two roommates who are just friends, OP and Cindy. OP has an ex called Mark who she had sex with when they were together but that's all in past. Mark is now long distance dating Cindy and they are in open relationship, so fucking each other and other people. OP was planing to have a hiking trip with Mark. Far as OP is concerned this purely friendly but behind OP's back Mark said to Cindy that he is hoping it turning into sex.

Cindy is being a cunt, pure and simple, but I will give her slight benefit of an doubt. Maybe she was given the impression that Mark and OP had talked about sexy hiking before Mark brought it up to her. Then she would have some reason to be cold to OP because she thought they had made plans behind her back. Helping a friend and then finding out that help going towards her sleeping with your boyfriend, yeah feeling resentful makes sense. Still going all shitty and passive aggressive isn't great behavior when her agreement with Mark was open anyway. Yeah I get that they had also no dating each other's friends rule but as Mark points out this is a shared friend who he already banged before they started dating.

All and all shows why you shouldn't get involved with poly idiots even as friends. Despite making it clear that you aren't into it, they assume you can be turned and so get roped into drama anyway. I have seen this happen in real life too so this story isn't unrealistic at all. Heck I have seen friends used as time fillers so that other person doesn't "get caught" with side pieces because despite all grand talks they are still jealous and petty like rest of us.
 
Coffee Druid said:
That reads as so disrespectful and violating. So, the two of them got together to discuss the guy having sex with OP....Without even contacting OP. Like they said, they just view them as a sex object. Also the female friend is not a best friend and they should stop calling her that. If someone decides to act like a cunt to you and NOT tell you what’s wrong then they can fuck off. Perhaps it was jealousy, it which case why is she poly if she’s prone to that? Doesn’t seem like a recipe for success anyway.

Damn, I can’t imagine discussing with my partner whether it’s okay for them to fuck someone else.
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You don’t know how the boyfriend sold it to the other girl. She probably assumed OP was willing and trying to fuck her boyfriend.
 
Geese Howard said:
Courtesy of r/relationship_advice. The first paragraph is very reddit.

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https://old.reddit.com/r/relationsh...my_30f_best_friend_30f_and_her_boyfriend_35m/ (https://archive.md/gfcmI)
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“How dare they view me as a sex object!”

Then stop being one. Stop with this casual sex poly nonsense - sex is SUPPOSED to release oxytocin that makes you bond to your partner - no shit there’s a strong possibility one partner will have trouble moving on and still have sights on sleeping with you. If he AND OP’s BF viewed her in this way, it says more about OP than them and possibly alludes to something that OP’s not willing to share. Why in the world would your BEST FRIEND ever think so lowly of you to think you’d EVER do that? Apparently there’s a character trait there that leads the friend to assume this - I’ve had friends for less than two years that have a better opinion of me than this friend of 15 years does of her. MOST people do. So something doesn’t add up.

Jesus help these people.
 
Rabidcolombian said:
“How dare they view me as a sex object!”

Then stop being one. Stop with this casual sex poly nonsense - sex is SUPPOSED to release oxytocin that makes you bond to your partner - no shit there’s a strong possibility one partner will have trouble moving on and still have sights on sleeping with you. If he AND OP’s BF viewed her in this way, it says more about OP than them and possibly alludes to something that OP’s not willing to share. Why in the world would your BEST FRIEND ever think so lowly of you to think you’d EVER do that? Apparently there’s a character trait there that leads the friend to assume this - I’ve had friends for less than two years that have a better opinion of me than this friend of 15 years does of her. MOST people do. So something doesn’t add up.

Jesus help these people.
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I don’t quite agree—poly may have rotted her friend and the BF’s brains to the point where they assumed anyone would be down to casually swap bodily fluids and degrade romantic love. I hope OP ditches them until they snap out of it.
 
Free the Pedos said:
I don’t quite agree—poly may have rotted her friend and the BF’s brains to the point where they assumed anyone would be down to casually swap bodily fluids and degrade romantic love. I hope OP ditches them until they snap out of it.
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Excuse me - thought it said OP was also poly.

Still, the header of, “Don’t talk bad about poly, I will NOT follow any advice that is anti-poly!” suggests their rot got into her brain.

You don’t write a post about an alcoholic friend and all the insane mishaps that have happened after they drink five beers before noon to start the post by saying, “I want NO alcohol shaming in the replies, I will NOT listen to any advice that says alcohol is the problem!”

The OP is also an idiot.
 
Amber the Hedgehog said:
Maybe she was given the impression that Mark and OP had talked about sexy hiking before Mark brought it up to her.
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Drachenlord said:
She probably assumed OP was willing and trying to fuck her boyfriend.
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Yeah this is what I thought when I read the reddit post too. I'll allow for the chance though that this broad is just psycho after being cunt-deep in this degenerate world of poly for too long and starting to jump at shadows but I have a feeling her pervert boyfriend tried to make it sound like he had already cleared it with 2/3 of the group.

At the end of the day though, like @Rabidcolombian and @Free the Pedos are saying (unless I'm misreading) it's interesting that even considering the notion that poly rots people's brains and destroys relationships of all types is a kind of shibboleth that must not be allowed any air or sunlight.

For every "successful" poly relationship there are another 10 smoking craters in their wake but don't you fuckin dare mention it because... it's mean? Unfair? Hurts their degenerate feelings? Weird how they're so defensive...
 
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These people look like the jumped the border illegally from Whoville.
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Pompeii Shitposter said:
Good morning.
The risk of Maternal Death is 5x times for women in their 30s compared to women in their 20s, the risk of Stillbirthing is 25 fold.
That's not a 5% and a 25% increase, that's a 500% and a 2500% increase respectively.
Humans have an historical lifespan of 25 years.

You get what you deserve. Get fucked.
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Isn't it odd how moral panic over "pedophilia" (extending to people in their early 20s) sometimes coexists with this attitude of "All women become withered mummies the moment they hit 30"?
 
With apologies to @behavioral swamp thang for not dumping this stash sooner



Look at the fucking expressions:




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Relationship #glowup ! Yes, they were IN my wedding party when I was married to another man. Now WE are married! #polyamory #polyamorous #lgbtq
This to this - Hisokaswildcard💀🔪🖤⛓🛹
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Is anyone surprised the people who can't be content with one person are also not content with a single flag?
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NoReturn said:
With apologies to @behavioral swamp thang for not dumping this stash sooner

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Fuckin rollercoaster of pure cringe, god bless you. The quads of 4 fats doing the put a finger down sent me. What in the chernobyl arkansas helll.....!!??!
 
Anyone else find it crazy that so many "polyamorous" women have dyed hair? I don't know what it means, but it sure is an interesting coincidence, probably indicating mental instability. I honestly only see 5 or so reasons for a polyamorous relationship.

1. The guy is a sex pest and he wants to bed two women at once. Destiny over in internet famous is a good example of this.

2. Someone in the relationship never loved the original partner (usually the woman not loving the man) so they like having the new male toy to give them dopamine/roleplay having relationship without any of the possible fallout of breaking up with the original partner. They also still like the attention of the original partner.

3. One of the people was in the closet the entire time so they want an actual partner but without losing the original partners attention/partway denial about their sexuality.

4. Some personality defect like bpd where the person has an instable sense of self and they like the extra attention of two people. This goes with the coloured haired idea.

5. Someone or two people actually loves one of the people in the triangle and because they ill identify liberal ideology by accepting every idea deviating from the norm, they get stuck in a shitty fake relationship.
 
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