We are basing that on her social media, which he controls, and a handful of KS where she says three words and keeps a smile plastered on her face.
The only actual insight we have about May is she handed over control of her online persona to Ralph and what Alice revealed, which demonstrated someone very different from loyal #trad baby mama.
This is the shitty thing about it. Ralph’s total control of anything online about her means we only get his fantasy and fiction about their relationship- not any reality.
May looking haggard, flipping the bird while nursing a baby on a stack of dirty pillows leaning up against a wall, with a crusty windowsill as a table is about as close to reality as we get for now. (This is only because Ralph was too stupid to realize it showed his exhausted baby mama living in a gross, unprepared flop house and she hasn’t had time to shower.)