Just 2 rules to this guide: Don't be horny and don't be a retard
The 5 "Coincidences" Tom brought up for Pyro to not know Ivory's age is what has me highly doubting Pyro not knowing Ivory's age. Again, I'm not pyro so I can't speak on his behalf but it just seems ridiculous he didn't know.
That's the depressing thing too. A lot of lower notable furries tend to get away with grooming in furry communities unless they're as notable or famous as Kero was for clout chasers and "moral" warrior fags to leech off of. If you're not notable enough, other furries will likely not give a shit unless they can get something out of it like praise, internet points, or a personal army to attack said person because of unrelated stupid shit not involving you know... trying to fuck minor or encouraging a minor for sex.