r/childfree - Where child-haters congregate

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Offs. I've never seen someone react that way to a coworker. More like coworker just looked vaguely uncomfortable because there goes ol' Skinny again with the over sharing and unusual hot takes and smugness.
Who do these people think that they are to make demands for people to not have kids?
I've probably said this before but I have a coworker who chastised me for encouraging another to have kids. I'm close to her and know she wants children and was just bringing her down to earth that everything will be okay etc. But this other coworker is a miserable old crone pretending to live her best life. Glad she didn't have kids though because she does suck. It's just obnoxious that she takes this moral high ground that she and her husband are contributing greatly in their abstinence.
 
Are you guy on this forum okay? I get that the posters on Reddit are awful, but you always say things like “Kids are great” or “Those childfree losers are missing out on a joyful thing”. Are you projecting?
Consider that many people here are parents. How could that be projection?
 
Consider that many people here are parents. How could that be projection?
It’s commentary like this:
When I think of a DINK I think of a woman drinking Starbucks with the newest color $40 sparkly cup, in an expensive looking office covered in gay pride flags reading emails and thinking about which coworker she wants to complain to HR about and which one she wants to fellate. When she gets home at night her and her husband ("partner") build Legos, play cartoon video games (is Borderlands still a thing), watch reels on social media, and go to bed. Two obese negros fighting in Wendy's is more civilized and natural than the life of a corporate wagie DINK.
 
He most likely regrets being a parent and assumes that those childfree child-haters are living a life like that because he’s insecure about his own choices.
I love being a parent, faggot. I'll expand on this when I get some time but basically you're gay and retarded.

I know my description of childless corporate American women is accurate because I've worked in corporate America. I've "spent time" with some of those women, if you get what I'm saying. But whatever, I hope your Lego village is growing nice and big.
 
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A lot of parents seem to get triggered when they see a post about childfree people.
And a lot of childfree people get triggered when parents don't hate their children, or regret them. In fact, the mere idea of parents liking being parents seems to be impossible for them to comprehend.
That's a very unjustified assumption.
So many childfree people seem to think that the majority of parents regret having kids. If anyone is projecting, it's them.
 
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Are you guy on this forum okay? I get that the posters on Reddit are awful, but you always say things like “Kids are great” or “Those childfree losers are missing out on a joyful thing”. Are you projecting?
This is the thread for people who hate childfree posters. Naturally it will be parent heavy. If you want the opposite of that you can go to the quiverfull thread or the tard baby general thread, both are in beauty parlor.
 
Its common for childfree to talk about how people care so much that they're childfree, that parents are "triggered" by them, that their family is obsessed with their choice. They don't realize that one, people are going to care, because you are making an unpopular decision with your life. You are a minority. Deal with it. It's not like childfree people are being oppressed, you're going to have to deal with people pestering you with "why?" "oh, you'll change your mind" etc, thats just how it is when you choose a lifestyle thats the opposite of our basic instinct. Two, parents dislike childfree because they are nasty and extremely hateful of children. Yeah, I can see how a parent would be upset by another adult whining about how much they hate kids. Certain societies are already becoming less and less child friendly. I get that not all childfree hate kids, but when you have a massive part of your community talk about how much they hate kids, that tends to be what everyone sees. I've met more child hating childfree people than not. Either call these people out in your community or deal with this stigma.
 
A lot of parents seem to get triggered when they see a post about childfree people.
This thread is a bit biased like other posters have mentioned. But let's get real: the CF subreddit is full of absolute speds who take their hatred of parents/children to comical levels. It started off as a legitimate place for people who don't want kids to vent about societal pressure and people asking them real personal questions, but over time it turned into a circlejerk of catladies and soyboys that say cringeworthy stuff like "crotch goblins" unironically. They literally just hate kids and that's kind of fucked up.

And I say this as someone who himself doesn't want to have kids.
 
Having kids is the right thing to do and if you're white it is actually your responsibility to have white children. Life makes much more sense with kids. Things are better. Every single day I hear not-so-young people taking about their problems. Their roommates. Their little "photography" hobby. Their relationship problems. Their bartending "career." Their stress and their anxiety. "I can't find any good men/women on Hinge"

Everything makes so much more sense and is so much easier when you start to look for responsible, like-minded people to share a relationship with and next thing you know you have a little family and something sensible and motivating to live for. You don't have that much time left. You can still troll on Reddit and post on KiwiFarms.
 
This thread is a bit biased like other posters have mentioned. But let's get real: the CF subreddit is full of absolute speds who take their hatred of parents/children to comical levels. It started off as a legitimate place for people who don't want kids to vent about societal pressure and people asking them real personal questions, but over time it turned into a circlejerk of catladies and soyboys that say cringeworthy stuff like "crotch goblins" unironically. They literally just hate kids and that's kind of fucked up.

And I say this as someone who himself doesn't want to have kids.
They ruin the whole experience of every community they're in, really. A lot of these same people also frequent subs like r/raisedbynarcissists, so I'm guessing a good portion of the most vocal and batshit of them are undiagnosed Cluster B's or something who refuse to seek help and get better. Imagine thinking you've finally found something that reassures you that you're not as crazy as everyone is telling you, and have that nice place overrun by actual crazies. A lot of them have no personality outside of this, either.

Its common for childfree to talk about how people care so much that they're childfree, that parents are "triggered" by them, that their family is obsessed with their choice. They don't realize that one, people are going to care, because you are making an unpopular decision with your life. You are a minority. Deal with it. It's not like childfree people are being oppressed, you're going to have to deal with people pestering you with "why?" "oh, you'll change your mind" etc, thats just how it is when you choose a lifestyle thats the opposite of our basic instinct. Two, parents dislike childfree because they are nasty and extremely hateful of children. Yeah, I can see how a parent would be upset by another adult whining about how much they hate kids. Certain societies are already becoming less and less child friendly. I get that not all childfree hate kids, but when you have a massive part of your community talk about how much they hate kids, that tends to be what everyone sees. I've met more child hating childfree people than not. Either call these people out in your community or deal with this stigma.
I can totally understand why parents tend to dislike childfree people; many of them are as arrogant and entitled as people accuse them of being. Demanding that every public place or medium of transportation bans kids being there is hilariously excessive. The people spouting all the pointless hate need to be made fun of. End of story.

I also understand where many childfree people are coming from; People with sensory issues may not want to be close to screaming, or be touched by a toddler's sticky/slimy hand, even if it's a relative. Not everyone wants to hold the baby. Everyone in the vicinity is annoyed when that kid is running around or screeching in the restaurant or store, even the workers. And people are sick of relatives who are crappy parents, or otherwise don't respect boundaries, so I totally understand some of these people going limited or no-contact with family members. Why some of these people can't just make their choice and mind their business, I don't understand.
 
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