What a lovely relationship, instead of telling your cripplingly porn-addicted BF to seek therapy to better himself, you encourage his vices and enable him to fall deeper into his coomer hole.
What kind of an idiot trades his gangbang buddy for a basic bitch? You guys need a woman who will date both of you at once.
nah im good on that man. that shits awkward. we would bang sluts. half the time i didnt even like the sluts i was just doing it cause of the male bonding experience im aware at how fucking gay that sounds but it wasnt that way.
Sluts come and go. But gang bang bros? That's special.
It wasn't porn itself that was interesting to me, or the jealous fat woman looking at others' phones. The weird thing was what every coomer in the subreddit left unmentioned - the guy seems to look at porn every time her back is turned, every time she takes a shit or a shower, every time she blinks and even on ER trips. That was as funny as the sub's defensive reaction. They lead their lives as if it was porn and their one holy thing shall not be questioned.
Most are naive young people who either have a rose colored picture of future (all big happy family) or don't think about it beyond the moment (we see when we get there). Either way it tends fall apart in spectacular fasion with drama and expense when things get rough.
This question made a horrible memory emerge from the depths of my soul. My first time encountering a poly married couple (a married couple who brought in another guy, they were all gay homos, and they were together for quite a few years.) I was fine with it because he mostly kept quiet about it for a long time. But the community we were in was an all ages group, and this absolute fucking third wheel faggot would not shut the fuck up about the sex toys the husbands were giving him after a while. And I mean in exacting grotesque detail, one example was this thing he kept calling a "ball stretcher" and he wore it, and would not stop telling us about it, telling us the details of how it felt, and how he couldn't wait to get more toys. I don't even know why he told any of us that, and a lot of the group was supporting him talking about it? I wasn't welcome anymore after I had enough and told him to stop being a literal fucking faggot in an all ages group, and asked him why he didn't just tell his husbands instead of us. I never got an answer either just a lot of anger.
I wouldn't call it codependency, but stability and being able to depend on your spouse. Should a person HAVE to have that person around at all times and know their every movement every hour of everyday? No. Should they be able to assume their spouse will be able to pick them up after getting out of the hospital for appendicitis rather than said spouse fucking their side-piece? In any healthy relationship-yes, in polymory- flip a fucking coin.
Seeing the man identify himself as "apologetically hetrosexual" has my sides in orbit.
Fell down the foreskin restoration rabbit hole a few years back, and asked many men their thoughts on this. The consensus was that these people are insane. There was a dick-related documentary linked in another thread recently where the guy met with "Intactivists" who protest in white pants with a big red crotch stain painted on. Dunno if it's appropriate or not to circumcise, but it is painless and bloodless in the first world. These dudes wound up looking like Clockwork Orange meets Down Syndrome.
People who are determined to pine will damn well pine, nothing anybody can do about it. Absolutely determined to be dissatisfied. What a plague these navel gazing shitheads are.
