r/polyamory

[Crunchy Leaf]

From a thread talking about aspergers and polyamory:

I know the feeling well, it's very difficult to live on the spectrum surrounded by those who are not. What makes it even more difficult is that even though we can learn these clues and cues, NTs don't always say what they mean or mean what they say, so all the social skills in the world can't help us if they aren't honest with themselves or others.

The NT world revolves around feelings, and as an Aspie, I find emotion to be a mostly negative thing in people's lives. Sure, it's nice to feel joy, but who wants fear, anger, resentment, sadness and jealousy? A human being is only different than animals in that we can override our primal emotions if we choose to, and the more often we do, the less we are affected by irrational and illogical thought.

Don't beat yourself up over failure to interpret the rules to a game that are contradictory, illogical, and subject to change without notice.

 

[Hollywood Hulk Hogan]

From a thread talking about aspergers and polyamory:

Animals can override primal emotions, too. Dogs are trained to do so all the time

 

[Crunchy Leaf]

I hate the idea that having feelings is inherently bad--it's part of being human. And the idea that not being 100% honest all the time is bad--total honesty makes most people seem like jerks, which is one of the reasons dealing with autistic people is aggravating.

Have yourselves another:

The mother of the child is out at a child-unfriendly autism group twice a week.

 

[vertexwindi]

>autistic poly mother out busy with autism issues and her poly companion many nights of the week
Aka you're being fucking cucked by an aspie and raising her kid. Jesus Christ that is the most pathetic thing I have ever read all year.

 

[Liquid Cool]

>autistic poly mother out busy with autism issues and her poly companion many nights of the week
Aka you're being fucking cucked by an aspie and raising her kid. Jesus Christ that is the most pathetic thing I have ever read all year.

Holy shit I just realized that this is the FATHER of the child posting that.

Fucking cuck. I have absolutely zero sympathy for these people.

 

[Crunchy Leaf]

Here's an awful, awful article about poly people and autism: https://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2013/01/poly-and-neurodiversity-how-come.html

Someone on r/polyamory said: 'eh, a huge leap. also, most of the poly people i know aren't "techy, geeky, hackers, etc".'
if you haven't noticed the huge amount of overlap between poly people and nerds, then I don't know what poly circles you're in.

 

[Vorhtbame]

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I strongly recommend this lovely place where everybody knows your name, and you can resolve your difficulties in being abandoned:

Divorce court.

Single dads are considered hot, but only if the mom is no longer attached.

 

[Owlflaps]

Here's an awful, awful article about poly people and autism: https://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2013/01/poly-and-neurodiversity-how-come.html

Someone on r/polyamory said: 'eh, a huge leap. also, most of the poly people i know aren't "techy, geeky, hackers, etc".'
if you haven't noticed the huge amount of overlap between poly people and nerds, then I don't know what poly circles you're in.

Yeah, being in a poly relationship with someone that has impaired communication and social interaction skills sounds like a fucking horrible idea.

 

[Peeno Noir]

Holy shit I just realized that this is the FATHER of the child posting that.

Fucking cuck. I have absolutely zero sympathy for these people.

To me, him being a cuck is not even the primary reason for the lack of sympathy. Actively ruining a child's life like this should be considered child abuse.

 

[Vorhtbame]

To me, him being a cuck is not even the primary reason for the lack of sympathy. Actively ruining a child's life like this should be considered child abuse.

Thing is, if it was a man running around and trapping his wife at home with a toddler, the whole world would be shrieking about Muh Patriarchy. But because it's the wife doing the running around, it's just "meh, kinda pathetic."

 

[QB 290]

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/...nd_keep_changing_our_rules_dont_know_what_to/

Typical case of "do as I say, not as I do"

 

[Vorhtbame]

The question on that one is, "If the husband was that much in love with the 'best friend', why did he marry the OP?"

It's a question OP needs to ask herself, because I'm getting a strong vibe of Girl Collector from the husband.

 

[QB 290]

The question on that one is, "If the husband was that much in love with the 'best friend', why did he marry the OP?"

It's a question OP needs to ask herself, because I'm getting a strong vibe of Girl Collector from the husband.

She sounds like a real collector herself, they're perfect for each other

 

[Traditional Tet]

God, it feels so fucking good being proven right. First we repealed the sodomy laws, then homo-acceptance aner marriage. From there its been trannys brainwashing kids into cutting their dicks off and widespread media acceptance of pedosexuals. Now, an excuse to fuck around like a slag because you're 'poly.'
Where next will this slippery slope take us? When will you fucking degenerates (yes, you, the average user of this site is a radical liberal concerning things like gender roles and gayness compared to fifty years ago) learn to stop? Only through tradition and drawing the line in the sand can this sickness end. Back to the family, the paterfamilia, mothers and fathers and families, homosexuality back to the dustbin of history.
Doubt me if you like, but I won't weep for you.

 

[Owlflaps]

What the fuck am I reading.

 

[neverendingmidi]

What the fuck am I reading.

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Terrible parenting.

 

[TiggerNits]

I wonder what the overlap between /r/polyamory and /r/Anxiety are

 

[ToroidalBoat]

From a thread talking about aspergers and polyamory:

Looks like that guy has a case of "working at a movie theater."

Also it's funny (or just sad) when people claim autistics are "more logical" and "more rational" than normal people, as if they're Vulcans from Star Trek.

 

[Peeno Noir]

What the fuck am I reading.

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This reeks of incest.
Also, that guy radiates soy.

 

[Hollywood Hulk Hogan]

What the fuck am I reading.

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Two of the "women" look like trannies.

And $100 says that the sisters were abused sexually growing up

EDIT: Apparently one sister is dating the woman and the other is dating the man. What in the fuck is this degeneracy