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They generally don't have huge orgies. Usually it's just one woman at a time, the one you dislike the least at that point in time.
Which is why I never got why women agree to being part of a harem if they have a choice. The more wives, the less dick there is to go around, and the more sexually neglected each wife becomes. What's the upside if you're part of a guy's harem? For a community of coomers, it sounds like hell.
 
Which is why I never got why women agree to being part of a harem if they have a choice. The more wives, the less dick there is to go around, and the more sexually neglected each wife becomes. What's the upside if you're part of a guy's harem? For a community of coomers, it sounds like hell.
Eh, maybe not. One of the most common complaints of men regarding marriage is sexy times become scarce or even stopping completely. I'm sure a lot of married men would complain about not having sex as much as they would like. Having more than one woman to "share the load", even just a second wife, might actually mitigate that.
 
Which is why I never got why women agree to being part of a harem if they have a choice. The more wives, the less dick there is to go around, and the more sexually neglected each wife becomes. What's the upside if you're part of a guy's harem? For a community of coomers, it sounds like hell.
Being the wife of a rich asshole, even when the wives are horrible gold diggers like you, is better than being a single poor woman or married to a poor guy.
 
Ah onboarding packs and mergers, when degenerates accidentally end up embracing corporate culture.

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A literal powerpoint presentation that even someone in HR would embarrassed to use in order to explain the ground rules and situation revolving around a bunch of troons awkwardly trying to fuck each other is maybe the most autistic thing I've seen in this thread in quite some time. It just sums up polyfaggotry in a way that words can't quite.
 
They don't exist and there is not a good answer for "why". The idea of open or semi-open relationships in the US goes back to at least the "Free Love" movement in the 60s/70s and nobody remembers the beautiful love stories from that because they don't exist.

My personal theory (for which I really wish I still had my Hannibal Lecter avatar) lines up pretty well with yours, it's a way for people to pick and choose the parts of a relationship they like because they can't handle being responsible for another human being: I know two or three people IRL who self identify as poly and it's pretty clear they are trying to have all the romance and dates with none of the disagreement, fighting, and so on. Even when their "polycule" (I hate that term, it's polygamy by another name) had no choice but to admit things were going poorly they couched it in Disney references. This is not a joke and it took a lot of restraint for me to not say "what is wrong with you people?".
There were free love movements in the late 19th century and they imploded just as spectacularly as the average polycule.
 
Honestly I can't really complain about transbians choosing to only fuck each other in one big polycule and leaving lesbian women alone. It may be deranged but it's pretty convenient.
 
Which is why I never got why women agree to being part of a harem if they have a choice. The more wives, the less dick there is to go around, and the more sexually neglected each wife becomes. What's the upside if you're part of a guy's harem? For a community of coomers, it sounds like hell.
Historically the upside was that the men who had them were rich and also usually political leaders. Women want high-status men, and being able to share one high-status man seems on the face of it to be a good prospect for them.
 
Which is why I never got why women agree to being part of a harem if they have a choice.
Daddy issues can do awful things to the human mind.
Being the wife of a rich asshole, even when the wives are horrible gold diggers like you, is better than being a single poor woman or married to a poor guy.
Being a poor single woman is better than putting up with some guy's nonsense.
If you want money get a job not a marriage. You don't need to ask your debit card how its day is going before you use it.
Honestly I can't really complain about transbians choosing to only fuck each other in one big polycule and leaving lesbian women alone. It may be deranged but it's pretty convenient.
Plus it's also hilarious!
 
Historically, women couldn't work (except in prostitution). A woman's place was in the home, as the saying goes. So she either got married or went to the streets.
"Historically" when? Where? Wtf are you talking about? When women were working as nurses and teachers and librarians and dressmakers? When they were fishwives and bakers and selling produce and goods in booths and at markets as depicted in medieval drawings? Lmfao what are you even on about?
 
"Historically" when? Where? Wtf are you talking about? When women were working as nurses and teachers and librarians and dressmakers? When they were fishwives and bakers and selling produce and goods in booths and at markets as depicted in medieval drawings? Lmfao what are you even on about?
They were married to the fisherman, they were married to the baker (or his children). Nurses, teachers , librarians- at earliest was maybe 1700’s. Most teachers before that were men. And then it depends on culture as to whether they were allowed. A peasant woman could get a job (and even then it was questionable about whether she was a whore or not unless she had a husband), but a gentry woman would likely be cut off from her family and shunned if she did the same.
 
They were married to the fisherman, they were married to the baker (or his children). Nurses, teachers , librarians- at earliest was maybe 1700’s. Most teachers before that were men. And then it depends on culture as to whether they were allowed. A peasant woman could get a job (and even then it was questionable about whether she was a whore or not unless she had a husband), but a gentry woman would likely be cut off from her family and shunned if she did the same.
Yeah I went to school for this, but thank you for adding info for the rest of the class because I'm too annoyed to even bother without collecting top hats. Hurrr women could never work unless they were whores durrrrr
 
They were married to the fisherman, they were married to the baker (or his children). Nurses, teachers , librarians- at earliest was maybe 1700’s. Most teachers before that were men. And then it depends on culture as to whether they were allowed. A peasant woman could get a job (and even then it was questionable about whether she was a whore or not unless she had a husband), but a gentry woman would likely be cut off from her family and shunned if she did the same.
This is much newer than you think and very much the exception to history and human culture. There were female business owners in ancient Mediterranean and Near Eastern cultures. If you didn't work you died.
 
Yeah I went to school for this, but thank you for adding info for the rest of the class because I'm too annoyed to even bother without collecting top hats. Hurrr women could never work unless they were whores durrrrr
Yeah I don't think you majored in Incel Revisionist History, where women joined the workforce in the 1940s and nobody ever got any tendies again.
 
"Historically" when? Where? Wtf are you talking about? When women were working as nurses and teachers and librarians and dressmakers? When they were fishwives and bakers and selling produce and goods in booths and at markets as depicted in medieval drawings? Lmfao what are you even on about?
i think people who say stuff like that conflate "work" with the fairly modern idea of corporate employment and pursuing some kind of career as the main goal in life. when looking at it through that lens, it is true that women were excluded from these things until fairly recently.

but at the same time the vast majority of men throughout history also never had a chance at obtaining anything resembling a "career" either, instead most men spent their lives working in subsistence agriculture or low scale manufacturing, which is also what most women did. sure the women generally stayed away from the back breaking hard labor like cutting down trees and chopping firewood or mining coal and metal ores with a pickaxe, but pre industrial life had no shortage of other, less physically demanding work to be done which women could and did do throughout their lives
 
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