r/polyamory

[RisingPhoenix]

The story with the 16 year old having to tell their parents that their live in lover was disruptive to them is just sad. Like I'm glad parents did right thing. But from the update I wonder what else OP dealt with prior to her parents lover suddenly getting weird because she was snuggling with boyfriend watching TikToks.

But it's not far off a step *parent" who was too young to spawn you trying to pull that bull. No kid respects their mom or dad's toyboy/girl

 

[Free the Pedos]

But it's not far off a step *parent" who was too young to spawn you trying to pull that bull. No kid respects their mom or dad's toyboy/girl

I disagree in that a step parent is theoretically signing up to carry a good chunk of the burden of raising the child. This is more like mom's boyfriend trying to punish you--fucking my mom doesn't mean you get to punish me. There's no word for that relationship for a good reason.

 

[scathefire]

Why cant you people just allow others to be happy? Sounds like to me this is just projection because you limp dicked incels cant even get bitches.

I'm going to stop you from being happy by putting you into a septic tank

No, swallow my chode

Consider this a successful baiting attempt against an entire thread. Lmao

 

[Dafuqisdis?]

Found on r\libsofreddit

 

[Markass the Worst]

Found on r\libsofreddit

I had to look up who Egon Schiele was. He painted paintings like this:

That man isn't exactly peak physical condition. And wtf is "ethical nonmonogamy"? I have a feeling it's about as ethical and totally not abusive as "trans child" or "vegan dog."

 

[Bussy Catalog]

I had to look up who Egon Schiele was. He painted paintings like this:
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That man isn't exactly peak physical condition. And wtf is "ethical nonmonogamy"? I have a feeling it's about as ethical and totally not abusive as "trans child" or "vegan dog."

It's reddit speak for polyamory but with rules. They think if they just set enough parameters around their affairs then nobody will get jealous or have other icky feelings about it, but in practice it mostly boils down to the slutty one who wants to fuck around gaslighting their partner into allowing it.

 

[Lady Bizness]

I had to look up who Egon Schiele was. He painted paintings like this:
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That man isn't exactly peak physical condition. And wtf is "ethical nonmonogamy"? I have a feeling it's about as ethical and totally not abusive as "trans child" or "vegan dog."

I had to do the search too.

It reminded me when all my friends nearly died of the vapors over our English student teacher who looked like Edward Scissorhands if he was dying of consumption. It's the terminally ill poet aesthetic and I don't understand why incels think girls only go for chads. In my friend group only I and one other girl were into, y'know, healthy men.

 

[Amber the Hedgehog]

I had to do the search too.

It reminded me when all my friends nearly died of the vapors over our English student teacher who looked like Edward Scissorhands if he was dying of consumption. It's the terminally ill poet aesthetic and I don't understand why incels think girls only go for chads. In my friend group only I and one other girl were into, y'know, healthy men.

Because most guys tend go mostly for a one type of woman. Don't get me wrong, they find other women perfectly acceptable and sexy, but most guys get most turned on by a normal weight hourglass bodytype in her early twenties. They go for that type because all of those features indicate that she has good change of having multiple successful pregnancies and yours being her first one. There is a reason why most porn mags when they still were around had pretty uniform selection of models.

These guys have a pretty one direction thing going on and so from their own experience they assume that women are the same. Especially when women are in position of rejecting rather than chasing and they are getting rejected by the top flashy women for the top flashy men. They don't notice that there are many not top flashy women and that there are multiple more subtle tops all around the society different that women specialize in.

The female mating strategy is roughly summed by surviving birth and giving offsprings the best change to be successfull. Unlike men they can't just nut and fuck off. Women have to carry the pregnancy and human children aren't exactly functional after birth either. Women have more insentive to think about the future but there are multiple ways to handle the future well. The biggest one being having a man that is devoted and provides for the family. The top man will have everything needed to provide but if all women want the exact same man there is no need for that top man to stick to a one woman or their shared offsprings. So it's better for women not have just one shared type that everyone goes for but spred the intrest out. So multiple different types of men that are still better than other men but that don't have too much pussy after him so he more likely to sticks around and provide.

So to sum up, men and women have different average mating strategies but some men don't see it and assume that women act like men.

 

[Aquinas 2]

Due to a deluge of, frankly unjust, negrates, my attention has been once again brought to this disgusting thread.
You people really are just a bunch of low life scum who just cant keep their nose out of other peoples lives. what makes you think any of this is acceptable? how would you like it if me, my wife, my wife's girlfriend, and jamal were to come to where you live and start giving you toxic 'criticism' for being the weird Mono creeps that you are?

 

[scathefire]

Due to a deluge of, frankly unjust, negrates, my attention has been once again brought to this disgusting thread.
You people really are just a bunch of low life scum who just cant keep their nose out of other peoples lives. what makes you think any of this is acceptable? how would you like it if me, my wife, my wife's girlfriend, and jamal were to come to where you live and start giving you toxic 'criticism' for being the weird Mono creeps that you are?

If you guys fall for this again, I'm going to personally go to all of your houses and slap you.

 

[Aquinas 2]

If you guys fall for this again, I'm going to personally go to all of your houses and slap you.

I'm going to fucking mating press you if you continue to blow up my spot, white boy

 

[BubbleButt]

Due to a deluge of, frankly unjust, negrates, my attention has been once again brought to this disgusting thread.
You people really are just a bunch of low life scum who just cant keep their nose out of other peoples lives. what makes you think any of this is acceptable? how would you like it if me, my wife, my wife's girlfriend, and jamal were to come to where you live and start giving you toxic 'criticism' for being the weird Mono creeps that you are?

I would not like being Jamaled

 

[AMHOLIO]

how would you like it if me, my wife, my wife's girlfriend, and jamal were to come to where you live and start giving you toxic 'criticism' for being the weird Mono creeps that you are?

Oooh you would, wouldn't you?

 

[JoseRaulChupacabra]

Found on r\libsofreddit

I'm more bothered by the part about desiring someone that looks like a weird painting than the ethical nonmonogamy part. Is this even a serious post?

 

[Maldavius Figtree]

Because most guys tend go mostly for a one type of woman. Don't get me wrong, they find other women perfectly acceptable and sexy, but most guys get most turned on by a normal weight hourglass bodytype in her early twenties. They go for that type because all of those features indicate that she has good change of having multiple successful pregnancies and yours being her first one. There is a reason why most porn mags when they still were around had pretty uniform selection of models.

These guys have a pretty one direction thing going on and so from their own experience they assume that women are the same. Especially when women are in position of rejecting rather than chasing and they are getting rejected by the top flashy women for the top flashy men. They don't notice that there are many not top flashy women and that there are multiple more subtle tops all around the society different that women specialize in.

The female mating strategy is roughly summed by surviving birth and giving offsprings the best change to be successfull. Unlike men they can't just nut and fuck off. Women have to carry the pregnancy and human children aren't exactly functional after birth either. Women have more insentive to think about the future but there are multiple ways to handle the future well. The biggest one being having a man that is devoted and provides for the family. The top man will have everything needed to provide but if all women want the exact same man there is no need for that top man to stick to a one woman or their shared offsprings. So it's better for women not have just one shared type that everyone goes for but spred the intrest out. So multiple different types of men that are still better than other men but that don't have too much pussy after him so he more likely to sticks around and provide.

So to sum up, men and women have different average mating strategies but some men don't see it and assume that women act like men.

Hey Johnny do you have autism

 

[Dafuqisdis?]

Because most guys tend go mostly for a one type of woman. Don't get me wrong, they find other women perfectly acceptable and sexy, but most guys get most turned on by a normal weight hourglass bodytype in her early twenties. They go for that type because all of those features indicate that she has good change of having multiple successful pregnancies and yours being her first one. There is a reason why most porn mags when they still were around had pretty uniform selection of models.

These guys have a pretty one direction thing going on and so from their own experience they assume that women are the same. Especially when women are in position of rejecting rather than chasing and they are getting rejected by the top flashy women for the top flashy men. They don't notice that there are many not top flashy women and that there are multiple more subtle tops all around the society different that women specialize in.

The female mating strategy is roughly summed by surviving birth and giving offsprings the best change to be successfull. Unlike men they can't just nut and fuck off. Women have to carry the pregnancy and human children aren't exactly functional after birth either. Women have more insentive to think about the future but there are multiple ways to handle the future well. The biggest one being having a man that is devoted and provides for the family. The top man will have everything needed to provide but if all women want the exact same man there is no need for that top man to stick to a one woman or their shared offsprings. So it's better for women not have just one shared type that everyone goes for but spred the intrest out. So multiple different types of men that are still better than other men but that don't have too much pussy after him so he more likely to sticks around and provide.

So to sum up, men and women have different average mating strategies but some men don't see it and assume that women act like men.

Not to contradict your lived experience, but you should go to r\hingeapp and peruse the endless graveyard of thousands and thousands of nerd profiles that get absolutely zero love from women.

 

[DumbDude43]

Not to contradict your lived experience, but you should go to r\hingeapp and peruse the endless graveyard of thousands and thousands of nerd profiles that get absolutely zero love from women.

his post is correct in that women have less of a hard-wired preference for one body type than men do.
however the conclusion that this means that women have hard-wired preferences for different types is not really true. instead, women simply have a hard-wired preference for high social status, and that overrides most other considerations.

women flocking to high status skinny nerds isn't because they are attracted to skinny nerds, but because they are attracted to high status. and i'm pretty confident that the thousands of dead nerd profiles you mention all have one thing in common as well: low social status, which is why they get zero attention.

 

[Gingervitis]

his post is correct in that women have less of a hard-wired preference for one body type than men do.
however the conclusion that this means that women have hard-wired preferences for different types is not really true. instead, women simply have a hard-wired preference for high social status, and that overrides most other considerations.

women flocking to high status skinny nerds isn't because they are attracted to skinny nerds, but because they are attracted to high status. and i'm pretty confident that the thousands of dead nerd profiles you mention all have one thing in common as well: low social status, which is why they get zero attention.

My question is, what makes a man high status or low status? My assumption is one or more of looks, money, personality, physical strength, and skills, but I figured I’d ask anyway.

 

[urr13 account]

My question is, what makes a man high status or low status? My assumption is one or more of looks, money, personality, physical strength, and skills, but I figured I’d ask anyway.

social status - popularity, social influence.

Looks are a completely separate category. Jay Z is ugly but has high social status(literally famous). Wealth is also sort of separate but does have some overlap with social status.

Spoiler: thing or Thing

 

[Maldavius Figtree]

his post is correct in that women have less of a hard-wired preference for one body type than men do.
however the conclusion that this means that women have hard-wired preferences for different types is not really true. instead, women simply have a hard-wired preference for high social status, and that overrides most other considerations.

women flocking to high status skinny nerds isn't because they are attracted to skinny nerds, but because they are attracted to high status. and i'm pretty confident that the thousands of dead nerd profiles you mention all have one thing in common as well: low social status, which is why they get zero attention.

The thing is, you’re wrong. If incels have contributed one thing, it’s their vast collections of research and scientific papers proving that women universally have one type. There is a reason on most dating apps 90% of women compete for the same 5-10% of men - and this is the root cause of the complaints about online dating. Most men get no matches, and women can’t find a man willing to commit.

Now where incels go wrong is in crying about that instead of just accepting it as a fact of life.