I knew a woman like this. Her father was an unfaithful dickhead her whole life, and she watched how it just destroyed her Mother being cheated on blatantly for years. When I knew her she was extraordinarily introspective and honest and told anyone who asked that she believed she was like her Dad - didn't think she was cut out for relationships and never wanted to do the kind of harm he had done.
Yes. The most base wants, entirely removed from anything else, impulses and emotions that come and go on their own, are seen as the "real you", and as something to be held in high value.
Imagine laying on your back and Imholte is thrusting and grunting above you. Then the next day Rekeita is. One is tragic. Both is horrifying. I rather kill my self.
'tragic' and 'horrifying' are a pretty good description of this whole rekieta debacle.
I think this is the one red line that mostly every poster here and critic of this degenerate hedonism masquerading as a perfectly normal lifestyle bro, is that the second kids are involved I feel ill. Retards speed running why monogamy works for humanity versus having strangers randomly showing up in houses for sexual activity and/or parents disappearing randomly in the opposite direction. Just sickening.
Absolutely. If you wanna be poly and have all kinds of wacky sexy escapades, knock yourself out, but don't involve kids in that shit.
I know a disturbingly large amount that do and I think it's because there's strong correlation between parents naturally gravitating to other other couples that have kids too. All I can hope is that the arrested development sufferers pretending to be adults in this thing wise up/get bored of this shit before the kids really start noticing.
There needs to be research on how the children of these "polycules" turn out. Seeing mommy or daddy go off on a date with someone else has to be traumatic and childhood trauma leads to terrible things later in life.
I'll never forget a conversation I had with an ex of mine whose parents got divorced when he was around nine years old. He said, "I didn't understand that every new guy my mom brought around wasn't my new dad."
Most parents know you’re supposed to minimize this shit as much as possible until they’re old enough to cope with it. Being in a normal family and moving a lot can screw a kid up, let alone all of this upheaval he’s discussing.
There was a period of time between being two to four when my parents moved a LOT. We went from an apartment to a house, to my grandparents for a minute, to a different country where we stayed for a while at a hotel before moving to a house, back to my grandparents, to a different apartment (due to getting a promotion in the family and taking advantage of it). Most of this was within a single year.
These kids, at ages six and two, are "used to people coming in and out of their lives." And their gooner father doesn't see any red flags in saying the kids "don't seem overly attached to anyone in particular."
...and he also doesn't see the potential red flags in this, either. This can be a sign of child molestation, the chances of which escalate when you're allowing horny randos in and out of your house.
My brother in Christ.
Their younger child is two. How do you gage how "well adjusted" a toddler is, especially vs an infant?
I genuinely have never felt this way and typically don't care much at all about strangers. It made me think I was asexual for a good portion of my life.
Modern society is weird, something once considered normal and ordinary (not wanting to have sex until you know someone) is now considered somewhat niche ("demisexual") by degens and the same ones try to normalize something as innately unnatural as living with 4 differently overlapping Venn diagram fuck-spouses who are all in therapy.
